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breaking up with a sensitive guy
ok i have been dating this guy for awhile now and i care for him alot but i dont think a relationship is what i want from him anymore.hes to CLINGY and SENSITIVE.he always wants to just talk to me or just hang out with me alone.he never wants to talk with me and my friends we always have to be alone.i noticed i never have time for my friends anymore and im always going to be late.i have already tried to break up with him twice but he just cried and i felt guilty so i took him back now ive had it and we got into a fight about my friends a couple days ago and now im just avoiding him because i know when i do talk to him hell cry...help me what do i do?!?!?1
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hey, i went through the same thing not to long ago! i think it would be better to do it now than to wait for a long time and letting him get more attached. im sure it will hurt him, but you should nt give up your friends for him. just tell him its not working and that you two can still be friends(if that what you want), and give him tome to cool off a little.
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i went through that same thing...and hun, you need to get out of it, it made me so depressed, and i lost all of my friends and he lost all of his friends, he really hurt me...you need to break up with him, and trust me i know it is hard, and when he cries, you have to just say i am sorry but this is what i need, and you are just going to have to deal with him crying, because you need to care about how you feel, and not how he feels, because bad things come out of relationships like that....you really need to get out of your relationship before it turns into something worse than it already is...now i dont know if this is his fist serious relationship or what..but it usually is when guys are like that...but he just needs to get over it...and he will and he will move on....but right now instead of feeling guilty when he cries, you need to be strong and realize that what you are doing is going to benefit both of you....because it will...
good luck...
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wow, i just went through the same thing. But you have to think, you staying with him and you not wanting to is only going to make it worse on him. When I broke up with my ex boyfriend i explained all the reasons why, and he did cry but i just kept thinking If i don't end it now im going to be hurting him more. So when you tel him you pretty much just have to not let him crying get to ya. It's hard, but if you really don't want to be with him you will be able to do it.
Hope i helped a little.
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it's because he's not use to the break up or it might even be his FIRST break up. but if you keep running back to him, he'll just get used to your returning constantly. If you won't be his first heartbreak, who will? maybe years later when he gets into another relationship break-up, hes going to be ridiculous and cry when someone dumps him.
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The only reason he cries now is because he knows it gets to you. Just remember that you can't do it, and if he tries the whole crying thing again have your friends there or something. Ask your friends before you do it to not let you take him back after you get away from him, no matter what. Your friends will do it too if your relationship is keeping you from your friends. have them talk to him even. I don't know,but just don't take him back.I hope that I helped, and remember that my inbox is always open. You don't have to rate, but it would be nice. Thanks!
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You can't just stay with a guy because your afraid of a bad break-up, just ask to talk to him alone, then tell him how you feel and that you don't think you should see eachother anymore he may cry but you will have to take that chance especially since the only reason your staying with him is because your afraid to break up with him.
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Okay...this may not be what you want. But just tell him that you need some time alone, and see what he says. Don't feel guilty about breaking up with him, because as people say "there are plenty of fish in the sea". So don't worry he will eventually move on and find someone else to cling on to. Hope this helped.....
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