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Hey y'all. I have been threw alot in the past sixteen years. From Family issues to Friends to Boyfriends. I can help on pretty much anything you need help with so ask me anything. If you dont want to post it on here you can always im me or email me. Or if you want to just chat, or ask more things related to what you have asked before.
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k well my ex boyfriend who was my first boyfriend, and first true love and first kiss. we went out for 4 1/2 months... him and my best friend might go ou and for all i know they probably already are.... well i dont aprrove at all! and even though we brok up 5 months ago i still like him, because if it wasnt for his friend telling me that he would treat me better i would have never dumped him, and my ex.. lets call him... james, james even told me about 1 month ago that if i never dumped him we would still be together, and for him to say that he has to have some kind of feelings for me, and also asked him last week 1-10 how much he likes me and he sais 6.5 and to me, thats pretty high! and now i find out my best friend, the person i though who was soposed to have my back, support me, and be there for me, is gonna go out with my ex... but the difficult thing is, i kinda did it to her, see, her ex richard and her, we will call my best friend rachel. rachel and richard went out for only 3 weeks, they didnt share near as much as me and james did.. k well richard asked me ut durring the summer and i never told him yes, and i never told him no.. he just assumed we were going out, but i never liked him... and my friend rachel knows that.... and i have told her over and over that i still like james... and she doesnt give a rip.. shes gonna go out with him, and to me it just sems like she isnt hearing me when i tell her she is risking our friendship for a boy who will eventualy break her heart and when he does whos gonna be there for her? not me, because i warned her... i just want to know.. and i making tooo big of deal about this, and what shoud i do?
if it helps im 15/f.... and i told my friend rachel i would do anything to be with him... and yet she still goes and does this to me... i mean he was there through think and thin, he was there when i needed him, when my grandpa got cancer, when my uncle died... hes been there.. and even after the breakup he has been the best of friend and he listens when i tell him stuff.. hes amazng!!!

Okay .. i kno how you feel on this. It happen to me. Talk to "James" about this and tell him how you feel. I mean you two seem to be open with each other so it couldnt hurt anymore. When it happen to me i flat out told my Friend Nichole that i didnt want her with him and yet she was still going for him. but when i talked to Corey about it he told me he wouldnt date her unless i felt comfertable about the whole thing. I'm guessing James would be the same. And your not making this a big deal. Its life it happens. It sucks but i promise you there is someone else out there for you. so if it comes down to James and Rachel dating stay friends with them both. as much as it hurts you dont want to loose good friends. altho Rachel doesnt seem to be a good friend but James does. Oh yeah and your always gonna have feeling for him. you just have to some how get over that and move on to someone else.

Hope i helped atleast a lil.

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lately, ive been thinking a lot about my first love. thes this other boy and we're pretty into eachother, but i havnt been able to stop thinking about my first love lately. its gonna be a year now that met and we fell in love over the summer. is this normal? is it just cuz he was my first love? or do i still have feelings 4 him? i really like this new guy. its just that i've been thinking about the first one. maybe, its b/c he represents a happy time in my life or hes very special to me or something. i dunno. do i still like him in a way?

yes you still like him in a way but its always gonna be like that.. i have only been in love two times.. my first love and then now i am in love.. and it took me alot of thinking to figure out if i still like my first love.. but its just one of those things you will never get rid of.. he was a very special part of your life so he is gonna stay in it. so yea you will be fine. just go out with this new guy and just remember that the only reason your thinking about your first love is because he was your first love.

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Friday night I was at the movies. Me,my 2 friends and this guy that likes me took some pictures. I sat on his lap. I have a boyfriend of 3 months. Is that cheating and is it bad and should I tell my boyfriend? I feel really bad! Please help!

no its not cheating but it is kinda bad.. i mean expecially if your boyfriend dont no.. tell him what happened so one you will feel better and two he wont find out from someone else..

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ok so me n my girlfriend have been going out for a little over 5 months and nothing feels the same like it did in the begining what should i do? thanks for the help
15/m/MI

well all i can tell you is figure out why it dont feel the same.. i mean talk to you girlfriend about it she prolly feels the same way..

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Alright, I moved to this town 3 years ago.. and before i moved her. My bestfriend had just broken up with her bf [Ian] of 4 years, and the next day he started going out with her cousin for 2. I secretly liked him but kept in a secret because i didnt wanna ruin there relationship, but the summer before 9th grade they broke up. I KNEW THIS WAS MY CHANCE. So we started talking alot more, and i slept over his house.. like twice. & we started going to party's together, and basketball games. We were in love & everything was great, untill about 6 months had gone by and i felt like we were never going to go out. so i started talking to a new boy, we went out for like a month and broke up because he told everyone i was just a booty call. But now me and Ian are talking again, and hes all ive been thinking of and im just scared to get back into the relationship with him, But i cant stay away from him at the same time. I dont know if i should give up... Or try one more time





Thank you.
Kristina

hey kristina just give it a second chance it wont hurt to just try it one more time.. this might be what it takes to make or break the realtionship..

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my and this guy are just friends now. hes really nice and sweet and i like him a lot. the other day, i spent all of my class time talking to him. not romanticly, we were talking about what was going on that day. we didnt say anything about us well i didnt. he talked about his mom a little and we talked just talked like friends. i do like him a lot becuz he seems like a nice guy. so what should i do. becuz if he doesnt like me in that way, i dont want to screw up our friendship and i dont want him to break my heart

just stay really good friends with him and then maybe it will go another way and maybe not but trust me its better to be just friends then rush into things..

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How do I get my gf to think im "sweet" and really hang out with me alot? movies? talk on phone alot? what should i do?? I RATE REALLY HIGH!


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Hey well just call her for like no reason at all. just be like i called just to talk to you.. and buy her flowers one day for no reason at all. trust me she will like it.. hope i helped..
Jaymi Lynne

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14/m i kinda like this girl but i don't know if i want to go to go out with her. The reason i don't want to go out with her is that i don't know what my friends will think. I know that sounds bad but i don't know if i can choose her over keeping my reputation with my friends. I think she might ask me out and i don't know what to do. please help.

Hey well first off you shouldnt care what your friends think of her. I mean yeah there your friends but shes just one chick you like and theres gonna be more. And if you like her then go out with her. Dont say no to her because then the reason why you wouldnt go out with her will come out and no girl will want to do out with you. so just go out with her and find out i mean so what they might not like her but its not like there gonna really care.
Hope i have helped
Jaymi Lynne

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Me and my boyfriend have been dating for about three months. We havent kissed yet, but i think i want to. How should i tell him??

well first off how old are you? i mean its nothing really really have to come out and say just start up the topic about your realtionship and kinda bring up that you wouldnt mind if he kissed you. i mean you dont have to call him and be like i want to kiss. just get into a conversation and it will all work out.
hope i helped

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What are some signs that a guy is going to break up with you?

if he is always going to do something besides talking to you. if he seems like he dont want to be around you at all. if he dont answer his cell phone when you call. theres alot of signs..

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my n my boyfriend have been going out for 5 months... im 13/f and well valentines day is coming up.. and i have no idea what to get him... hes sorta a prep, he plays football, and umm idk hes just like a normal 13 year old guy.. please help!!

just ask him what he wants.. its not that hard.. i mean just be like i dont really no what to get you give me some ideas..

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I have this friend named Emily. She has recently just liked this guy named Justin. Well a week ago she decided she didn't like him anymore. Last night they were talking online and Justin told Emily that he really really liked me and he was going to ask me out and if i said no then he would like be at da point crying. I don't like him and i don't really want to go out cuz i like someone else but my friend wants me to go out w/ him... what should i do?

hun just tell him that you want to get to know him or sumthing.. i mean dont lie to him but think about it tell him you dont like him like that..

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ok today I was talking to my boyfriend and he said that i dont think this relationship is gonna work out and i asked him y and he said because we dont ever do anything together and when where on the phone I never talk to him. ok this is no reason to break up with someone but i said that we cant ever go anywhere because your grounded and you dont say anything on the phone then he hung up on me wat do i do? Should i call him back should i break up with him help me out here!!!
SCM

hey hun well duh call him back you too need to talk about everything that is goin on.. why does he get grounded.. i mean maybe he can change that and make plans with him and try to fix it all but remember you cant do it all by your self.. hope i helped
Jaymi lynne

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Ok, im 13 year old female and just broke up with my boiifriend!! the main reason i did this is because i like another boii!! lets just call him "bob"! all of my friends think that i shouldn't go out with bob cuz he is a player!! but one of the security gaurds at skool told me that i can be the one girl to set him straight and that my friends should beleive in me. they should beleive in the fact that i could change him. but they still don't they say it's because they don't want me to get hurt!! sooooo..... wat should i do?

hey i kinda put one of my friends in the same thing.. just talk to your friends n be like ok look i really like this guy and so what if he is a player my best friend went out with one and those too are fine.. he changed and he like loves her so much so yeah theres the chance he changes.. but you cant be a bitch to your friends. because they are just trying to make sure you dont get hurt.. so just try to take things slow with you n *bob and talk to your friends about it all and explain it too them
hope i helped
Jaymi

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Last year i went to this valentines day dance. my best friend had a girlfriend and i didnt and i felt like a "tag-along". he has so many girls that like him and i think it might happen again this year. i was thinking that i might try to ask someone too but i dont really like anyone so i dont have anyone to ask. I was just going to find someone that i liked a little bit and ask her but im not sure. Should i ask somebody or should i go alone like last year? What should i do? Please help.

hey well do you have any "girl friends" who you no dont have a date.. just ask one of them if they want to go as friends.. you dont have to go as a date date just as friends with some one. i'm sure if you ask some one they would go with you.

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Are you suppose to wash your hair everyday?Not Because I wash my hair everyday.Someone told me It like ruins the hair or bad for it.Thanx

well iono i wash it everyday but i guess your not suppose to your suppose to wash it every other day but yeah iono forsure i just wash it everyday so i no i am clean... lol

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I went out with this guy for about 2 months. He was really shy and It didn't feel like we were even dating. So I dumped him. Now it has been a little less than a month since we broke up and one of his good friends just called me and asked me out! So I don't know him that well; he's ok looking but not what I go for and also he is nice and I don't want to make him feel bad so I told him I'll tell him tomorrow. So anyway, even though I want a boyfriend, I don't want him but I'm afraid that if I go out with someone else later on and say no to him he'll feel crappy! Usually when I don't want 2 go out with a guy who asks me out I just keep saying I'll tell you tomorrow and then finally say yes or no after about 5 days of torture! But now I'm in middle school and I know better than to lead them on! What do I do? Oh and not that I care what people think, but people always know who's dating and this kid isn't much of cool he is kind of weird and even though he hangs with popular kids he doesn't seem so popular...people will talk! So anyway sorry this is so long and thanks for reading this. Today is January 12 and I need advice before tomorrow if possible so please try to hurry! Thanks. I will rate you a 5!
I am 14 years old and a female of course!

hun just tell him you would rather be friends and get to know him better.. that way he wont feel like shit and you dont have to worry about it. And i am sorry but who cares what other people think. Trust me yeah they will talk a little but thats just because they are immature...

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Guys like to say girls are difficult but guys can be just as difficult too. There's this guy who no matter how hard I try to not like him, he stays in my mind constantly. I know most would say move on but the truth is I can't. He's not dating anyone at the moment but he loves to flirt a lot. We've been friends for awhile and it didn't seem like him, but he played me. He promised my bestfriends that he wouldn't hurt me and also he let them know that he liked me a lot but he never came around to asking me out. Should I still wait for something to happen even though it's been months, or just force myself to move on?

hey hun been there before just try to move on but at the same time like him... if you meet a different guy go for it theres no point on wasting time on him if hes not gonna give you a try... and you dont want some one who is that much of a flirt.

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At my old school i had so many boy friends and now at my new school, i doubt that any of the boys even like me!...how can i get that to change? i want boys to like me more than a friend and i miss having a boy friend...

How long have you been at this new school? just give it time.. let them get to know you. I am sure they just dont want to be all over you rite when you get there...

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ok i met this guy off buddypic a while back and hes got a salute and a lot of pictures so i know its him for sure and we talk on the phone and stuff....well he wants to meet me next weekened and hes already talking about fucking me in the car next weekend....hes like oh well have SO much fun....i have a boyfriend though of 5 months...and we promised to NEVER cheat on eachother..and me and my boyfriend havent even fucked..should i do this??

hun... i wouldnt... i mean you dont even really know this other guy and you have a boyfriend... does he no bout this guy? i dont think you should do anything with the guy... i'm sorry. its cool if you go n meet him but dont do anything...

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