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this question is for my friend:

my boyfriend is so sweet. he'd never cheat on me and he never acts Interested in another girls or stuff like that. do you think he could be gay? because he doesn't seem to be interested when girls are wearing skimpy clothes on tv or pictures and id ont think he looks at it on his own. but he gets horny around me. i don't think he is but soemtimes i wonder.

believe me, he is not gay. if he was gay u 2 wouldnt b going out. he simply is just a good boyfriend. guys dont have to be interested in a girl just because they dress like a slut. dont undersestimate your boyfriend just because your the only one he is interested in. believe me, you would be mad if he was interested in other girls.
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Ok so theres this boy that i absolutely love. hes like perfect but he lives about 300 miles from me (met at camp)and since we don't get to see eachother or anything there isn't much to talk about and i don't think its going to work. but i really want it to and i don't really know what to do im really sad and stuff and i just don't know. please help me
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you dont want to hurt yourself. you HAVE to keep your options open. camp relationships never work out. i know that u love him and he loves you, but it will NEVER work if you are that far apart. unless one of you moves closer, you'll never b able to see him. tell him that it wont work, and that you really like him but you dont want to hurt youself or him by keeping the distance between you.

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ok i gotta ask this now..i heard someone say something bout there bf bein bipolar..what does that mean? is it like split personality?! also..my ex was really mean and called me hoe and stuff then like the day before that he was like baby i love you ill never leave ur side..is that bipolar?

bipolar means that the person has mood swings. like one minute there the nicest person every, the next there a bitch. i know someone that is bipolar. and because ur ex said that dosent mean he is bipolar. most likley not.

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Ok i am 5'9" tall got brown hair and brown eyes and i aint fat but i aint like realli skinny. anyways i am 13 yrs old (almost 14) and i get alot of attention from guys when i am in a confident mood. but even when i look realli cute sometimes but i am not confident it seems like they dont pay attention to me. Do guys like when girls are confident in themselfs? Are guys more attracted to girls when they are confident? PLEASE HELP!

yes, i believe that guys are attracted to girls that are confident. although other guys, that want sex at the age of 14 and messed up shit like that, want a girl that is not confident. that way they have someone to push around, and do what they want them to do. respectful guys are attracted to girls that are confident. sick, twisted guys are attracted to someone that will do anything to please them....anything.

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I seriously think I might have a problem. I'm goign otu witht his boy and I totally love him. I know I do. The only problem is, once guys start likign me alot and really falling for me I start ebcomign a total bitch. I'll say things on purpose to piss them off or to get them upset. I can't understand why. This isnt the only relation ive been in. Ive been in one for about a year before too and i did the same thing. I'm 18 too. any ideas why this is happening? its kidna like i cant stop either. im starting to think im evil or sumthing.

dont worry, your not evil....im a few years younger than you and had the same problem. the thing is, that you love the guy your with sooooo much that you want to make the other guys jelious. so you taunt them and make them wish that they were with you more. this isnt a big problem, its natural to play hard-2-get. i do it all the time, lol. just think to yourself, 'what am i proving to these guys by taunting them?' and just ignore the fact that they like you. you would actually still be playing hard to get even more if u ignored them;because of the fact that they WANT you to terrorize them. your not being a bitch, its just how every girl acts.

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Ok i have a huge problem. See tomorrow i start school and my parents told me that i have to take this other person to school w/ me. Well He is just so happens to be my moms boss's little brother. Unfortunatly he is my age. i really dont want to take because i know my mom and his brother will try to hook us up. what should i do?

ahh you poor soul!!! talk to your mom and be like..."mom please dont try to do anything stupid and hook us up, cause its never going to happen." keep telling her what you think she's up to.

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ok well what would you do if your boyfriend told you that they though someone who is 4 years older then them(hes 15, shes 19) is "bangin"? with me it kinda hurts...but i dont know what to do about it. do i just ignore it or what? please help. it would be nice to have someone to talk to about it...thanks

well, he is much younger than her, so he may be just saying she was hott. its like saying you think ..for example.. ashton kutcher is sexy. its just his opinion. or, he may like her, if you think this then talk to him, and tell him that you are uncomfortable with him acting that way around you.

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15 female

thers this guy that i dated for bout 2 months but we still talked to each other...and everytime he tells me bout him and some girl i get pissed and evey time i tell him and some guy i get pissed...sometimes it pisses me off so much that i wanna cry and 1/2 the time i do...

do i still have feelings for him?

you might have some feelings for the guy. or it may just be some aftermath pang of jeliousy, i got it all the time, but soon got over it.

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i have gotten really close to my guy friend mike and we talk all the time. i have strong feelings for him and i DID tell him that i do like him. i think i put him in an akward position. did i do the right thing by telling him how i feel?

yes, i believe that you did do the right thing by telling him. otherwise you would have kept your feelings inside and it would have hurt you more if you found out he didnt like you. you may not have put him in a akward position, he may be thinking about what to do, or if he likes you also.

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I really like this guy. I like to flirt with him and stuff all the time. I think that if I told him how I feel, we would be going out. The problem is, it's my B/f's ex! I don't know how she would feel! Should I tell him I like him or what?

talk to your friend first. ask her if she cares. if she says no, that usually means shes uncomfortable. truthfully ask her and ask her to tell the TOTAL truth, you dont want to hurt her. dont tell him u like him unless you have talked to your friend.

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I just recently got dumped by my ex. we were going fine then all of the sudden she dumped me, i still like her, and i want her to go out with me again. I am about90% sure she still likes me.
wat should i do?

if you think that she still likes you, ask her out again! give it another chance and see what she says, you should always try.

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Well you see, me and my boyfriend will be going out for a month in 2 days. I like him and all but I don't feel anything anymore. He's away on vacation and my family might meet him there. Should I break the relationship off now or go out with him a little longer and see how I feel? *

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that was the same thing that happened to me. but it was that i saw him too much. i'd go a little longer to see if anything changes, but if it really is painful for u, and you dont like him anymore, then break it off.

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whats up with the number 69? what does it mean?

69 is when a girl gives a boy a BJ, and the boy (((ahhhh i hate this phrase)))eats the girl out at the same time....think of the 6 as the girl and the 9 as the boy......get it??

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Hey im 14 do you think its wrong for me to date someone 10 years old?

i dont think that would be a bright idea....i know ppl say "o, well if u really like him then it shouldnt matter what other people say"......but i went out with a guy ONE year older than me, and i was ruined. Your reputation would be obliterated....unless you really dont care about your reputation, i wouldnt try it.
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what do i do about a controlling boyfriend? my boyfriend is allowed to mess around and talk to girls but im not allowed to talk to guys! i found this so unfair and everyone thinks he has total control over me because when we break up, and he asks me back out, i always say yes. is it because i'm weak or i'm just under his little 'spell'?

break up with him and lose all thought about him. a controlling boyfriend could end up being very dangerous. be strong if he asks u out again, if u must, keep repeating no.

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what do u do if u like ur EX-girlfriend and u know u cant get her back but yet u cant get over her or stop thinkib bout her?

either sooner or later you will get over her. i got over my boyfriend after a month. if not, try to get her back. it could never hurt, ya know/???

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wut do i do to play hard to get???? plz give me some tips to get the guy i lyk to notice me
thanx,niki

well, to play hard to get make him WANT you!!! you dont even have to be flirty, just be around the guy, and make him see you. you dont have to be slutty, but you could act sexy. be loud (not obnoxious) around him, and funny.

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ok...i admit it,i kinda have a reputation fer being kinda slutty...but i dont do stuff...
even tho i'm kinda slutty...all these guyz expect stuff frum me n they obsess ovr me n it bugs me whenevr they do that(some try to touch me)...how do i get them 2 stop being perves and get them to lyk me for who i am???

first always remember to ignore it... maybe you can make a statement by becoming less slutty, try wearing less revealing clothes, and hangout with people that...well...dont act slutty as well. if they keep at it, get aggressive, and tell them to step off....and...if u must push them away.


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im trying to find a song for/about my boyfriend that ive been dating, and im having no such luck.. any ideas? thanks =) ..im 14

hmmmmm try starting line--best of me. thats a good song. do something sweet, but something he would like

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im sick of always changing myself for everyone else and now i just want to be myself but idk who i am anymore...what can i do???

first of all, try to remember. second, if u cant, have a new YOU. choose a type of music u like, clothing you wear, and personality you have. combine that and voilah! its you. if anyone makes fun or questions you, ignore it, its you. if u dont have yourself, you dont have anything.

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