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Confidence


Question Posted Saturday August 7 2004, 11:55 pm

Ok i am 5'9" tall got brown hair and brown eyes and i aint fat but i aint like realli skinny. anyways i am 13 yrs old (almost 14) and i get alot of attention from guys when i am in a confident mood. but even when i look realli cute sometimes but i am not confident it seems like they dont pay attention to me. Do guys like when girls are confident in themselfs? Are guys more attracted to girls when they are confident? PLEASE HELP!

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xinabobina answered Friday January 28 2005, 12:02 am:
I believe that guys are more attracted to girls that are confident, but then again, some guys can be different. I mean, would you be attracted to a guy that had no confidence and low self esteem? Guys think it's plain annoying when girls just complain or call themselves fat all the time. They want you to like who you are. I've known so many guys that got really annoyed over girls with low self esteem. I used to put myself down in front of them and they would always get mad at me. Just keep your chin up and be proud of who you are, but don't go overboard and turn into a snob, thinking you're better than everyone else haha. Hope this helped.

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ButterflyKissxx3 answered Sunday August 8 2004, 6:28 pm:
Yes they're much more confident. Think about it, if your not confident you like like an idiot who just doesn't care and they don't like that. Trust me I have a twin brother and he always goes out with girls that have confidence. Hope I helped! <3

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Angie answered Sunday August 8 2004, 3:54 pm:
I don't think guys know if your confident but if they knew that you were confident, lets say every day, then you would probably get attention from guys who like you EVERY DAY! Basically, as far as I know, guys like girls who are confident and who aren't all like "omg I am fat and ugly omg I wanna hurt my self because I am not pretty enough or cool enough" (NO OFFENSE TO ANYONE). Just stay confident in yourself I think! Rate me plz!
~Angie

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JiJiGurli08 answered Sunday August 8 2004, 2:37 pm:
guys are all asses. all they want is sex they don't give a fuck.

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ASKLane answered Sunday August 8 2004, 1:10 pm:
thye like girls when they ARE NOT OVER CONFIDENT BUT DONT DOUBT THEMSELVES and being cute reALLY REally helps

sincerely ASKLane

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ixsAveDxmYsELf answered Sunday August 8 2004, 12:02 pm:
yes, i believe that guys are attracted to girls that are confident. although other guys, that want sex at the age of 14 and messed up shit like that, want a girl that is not confident. that way they have someone to push around, and do what they want them to do. respectful guys are attracted to girls that are confident. sick, twisted guys are attracted to someone that will do anything to please them....anything.

please rate :) hope i helped!

-sAveD

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AskSpanky answered Sunday August 8 2004, 1:59 am:
You answered your own question!

Of course...you have to look approachable...always smiling...and maybe approach some guys yourself! ;)

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SammyPie answered Sunday August 8 2004, 12:26 am:
Guys LOVE a girl who is confident with herself and can carry herself well. Guys don't want to be with a girl who they have to constantly tell they are beautiful or perfect or whatever (as girls don't want to be with a guy that way.) But keep in mind, confident and conceited are two different things that have a very thin crossing line between them. Be careful when treading into that territory.

I hope this helped. Please feel free to leave me any questions in my inbox if you need to.

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Taylor_mariee answered Sunday August 8 2004, 12:10 am:
hey... ofcourse guys lyk when a girl is completly confident in them selves you look and feel better! you should always be confident adn positive in yourself not for guys for yourself!
hope i helped!!

<3.Taylor

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TheNextRingo answered Sunday August 8 2004, 12:10 am:
most girls do like confident guys.

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texangirl01 answered Sunday August 8 2004, 12:05 am:
YESSS!!! guys dont want a girl who had low self esteem and thinks that she is ugly or a no good person or something like that! when a girl is confident, that tells a guy that hey this girl has it together, she knows who she is and what she wnats to do and she doesnt care what other people think of her! and that is a great attitude to have and just about any guy would like that!

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Mackenzie answered Sunday August 8 2004, 12:03 am:
Guys aRe *definitely* moRe attRacted to confident women! Confidence is incRedibly sexy and shows big time!! Hope I helped! =D

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