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I seriously think I might have a problem. I'm goign otu witht his boy and I totally love him. I know I do. The only problem is, once guys start likign me alot and really falling for me I start ebcomign a total bitch. I'll say things on purpose to piss them off or to get them upset. I can't understand why. This isnt the only relation ive been in. Ive been in one for about a year before too and i did the same thing. I'm 18 too. any ideas why this is happening? its kidna like i cant stop either. im starting to think im evil or sumthing.
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Maybe you have commitment problems. When things seem to be going good, you get worried and start messing it up before he does. You are not evil, you are probably just not ready for anything serious.
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i think its because maybe your scared that sumone might really like you or even love you .. i was tha same way nd im 18 mahself .. i was wit sumone for a year nd 2 months got scared left him nd now im trng to get back wit him .. just tri nd think shit out .. dont get all nasty .. i think its just cause your scared to be loved.
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I think that you are not ready for commitment....just go out and have fun and mess around until you get ready for a relationship...
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lol i do the same thing to...n idk why either...but i guess ilove the attention of guys...and i just try n press em to see how long or how much they will take and then when they finally hadda enough we break up..n then i find someone new...but still i have them on me cuz they loved me that much....so i know i always have someone to fall back on...ur not evil....lol
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Your afraid of getting hurt. And when your around someone you like you pbly get nervus. Just be yourself and your not evil!
xoxo chels
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Get a journal or therapy. I mean, you cant help you get snappy but you might have a slight disorder. Im not coming out and saying your mental Im just saying something might be up. Its not abnormal some people just get really cranky . Maybe until you sort out your feelings and change up your attitude you shouldnt be in a relationship.. b/c everyones gunna spread news around that your a big 'biotch' and stuff and Im sure your not up to that. Its a really good start though that you have recognized your problem... you've pointed out to yourself that you are kinda nasty to the guys... I dont think your evil I just think your the type that is grossed out by people being all over you and lovey dovey. Its not being immature or gay or anything like that its just probably the fact that maybe your really independant. I know alot of people who are like that... and they're not mean they just like to be independant and dont need people slobbering on them just b/c they dont like the feeling of being followed and just being in commitment. But theres still tons of hope. Id just try figuring out why you get so moody... are you really independant? If so...try meeting a guy whos independant and not all touchy feely on the phone with you every minute. Find a guy that matches your charteristics. And remember.. your not evil... hehe
xoxo Good Luck xoxo
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You're afraid of getting hurt and you may fear commitment. You're not evil,just scared. But you have to learn that in life you're going to get hurt,and it's about how you rebound from getting hurt that defines a person.
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I really want to help but unfortunately I do exactly the same thing. Whenever I'm in a relationship I find myself getting distant and bitchy after a while. Anyway, I'm with a guy just now, and any time I find myself doing it I'll ask for a few days space. Because we're so close, he doesn't mind. After a bit of space, I feel a lot better and act a lot nicer. Explain your feelings to your boyfriend! If he's a good guy, he'll understand. God, I totally get where you're coming from, so please leave me a message or email me or something. It would be really great to talk to someone who understands where I'm coming from. x
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dont worry, your not evil....im a few years younger than you and had the same problem. the thing is, that you love the guy your with sooooo much that you want to make the other guys jelious. so you taunt them and make them wish that they were with you more. this isnt a big problem, its natural to play hard-2-get. i do it all the time, lol. just think to yourself, 'what am i proving to these guys by taunting them?' and just ignore the fact that they like you. you would actually still be playing hard to get even more if u ignored them;because of the fact that they WANT you to terrorize them. your not being a bitch, its just how every girl acts.
hope i helped! rate me please :)
-sAveD
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Well just STOP it.
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