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ok well what would you do if your boyfriend told you that they though someone who is 4 years older then them(hes 15, shes 19) is "bangin"? with me it kinda hurts...but i dont know what to do about it. do i just ignore it or what? please help. it would be nice to have someone to talk to about it...thanks
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Well you can ignore it!! Thats what I would do.. Just because yall r goin out doesnt mean he cant think sum1 is pretty or in his words "bangin" lol! But as long as he doesnt try 2 hook up with them or flirt with them.. D0nT let it bother u!! If he does flirt/or try 2 hook up with her.. Which i doubt he'll succeed.. Break up with him!!! You dont deserve that! <3<3<3
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well, he is much younger than her, so he may be just saying she was hott. its like saying you think ..for example.. ashton kutcher is sexy. its just his opinion. or, he may like her, if you think this then talk to him, and tell him that you are uncomfortable with him acting that way around you.
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Ha! I used to say stuff like that all the time.
I know that I don't have a chance.
It's just something to say to get your goat.
There's no way a nineteen year old girl is gonna pick a 15 year old guy, so don't worry about it.
Just let him be an immature butt.
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My suggestion is to ignore it this time. If he ever says something like that again, just hit him. Don't hit him hard or on the face. Just sort of lightly hit his arm and give him a disapproving look. If he's says "what?", just say I don't appreciate that. That's what I always do. Demand respect when it's needed. Most likely he won't do it again. I hope that was helpful.
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Just ignore it. What the hell is a 19 year old girl gonna want with a 15 year old boy. He's just drooling over something he can;t have, don't stress over it. He's with you.
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simple, if hes like that about her hes probably doing the same thing to other people about you, dump him.
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Guys are just like that. They always say things like that. And yeah it does hurt. You should just tell him it hurts you when he says things like that. He would probably understand.
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Well, I'm a guy. And I might have a different view. A guy will look at a hot girl and say, damn. Or something like that. There is a very low chance that your boyfriend will ever even get to do anything with that girl, let alone while he is going out with you. You don't have to worry. Don't make a big deal about it, just ask him not to make comments about other girls while you two are together. If you have anymore questions check my column for my screen name. Peace up, a-town down.
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Boys are always gonna say things like that n they know its gonna get to u so what u do to show him that it doesnt the next guy that walks bye be like mm he is looking good.. or damn he got a nice car n he will see it dont get to u ! hope i helped rate me please
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If my boyfriend told me that some chick four years older than him was "bangin," it would probably hurt me, too.
Because I tend to be blunt, I'd say "you know, that kind of hurt my feelings..."
If it bothers you, which it obviously does, don't ignore it! Talk to him and tell him what's on your mind.
Always tell them if something they did or said bothers you. Guys can't read minds...They can't know it hurt if you don't tell them!
I hope I helped!
-Siren =)
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if he just said she was pretty or in his words 'bangin' and didn't act on it (like going up and talking to her) don't worry about it too much! but if it really bothers you then talk to him about it! if he really cares about you he'll understand!
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Its really no big deal, but I do understand where you would get mad, because I'm sure I would too!! I mean he is with you and not with her, he's yours!! lol. But, try talking to him and just being like "I know you think she's "bangin" but, don't tell me who you think is, because that hurts me when you do." Just say something like that. Hope that helps, good luck! If you still need help, just leave a message in my inbox!
xoxo Kourtney
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Don't worry about it, just because he thinks she's banging doesn't mean anything. He's going out with you, most of his focus is probably on you. If you need someone to talk to IM me at Butterflykizzxx3.
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