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Hey!!!! It's Alyssa!!! I'm currently a level 1 moderator!

[a]ge: 14
[b]irthday: March 27
[c]andy choice: CHOCOLATE!!!!
[d]rink of choice: Coke or Gatorade
[e]xciting things happening:Pennsylvania
[f]ood of choice: Chinese or Mexican
[g]reastest acheievement: superior @ theatre fest!!
[h]ottest guy on the planet: Sean Faris!!!!
[i]ndoor activity: dance
[j]unk food of choice: chips and dip!!!
[k]oolaid of choice: grape
[l]ove: GUYS!!!!! and Dance!! duh!
[m]usic of choice: POP!!!!
[n]icest friends: Chelsea!!!
[o]bsession: DANCE!!! duh!
[p]izza place of choice: Pizza Hut!!!!
[q]uestion most asked: about styles!!!
[r]adio station: 96.7 kiss F.M.!!!! duh!!!
[s]aturday activity: mall or friends house!!!
[t]ake out food: chinese!!!
[u]r favorite movie: Mean Girls!!!
[v]ery best friend: Chelsea!!!!
[w]hat you wear: everything!!!
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[y]our favorite singer: i have a lot!!!!
[z]odiac sign: ARIES!!!!!

I'm always here when you need me!! So ask me ANYTHING!!!

advice

Well my bf of over six months is leaving for the summer. Im not gonna be able to talk to him or see him all sumer till he comes back. So I'm thinking do we stay together or should I just tell him well see what happens when he gets back (not necciseraly breaking up)or should we just stick it out all summer and stay together. we both love each other very much Im confussed what should we do? I rate 5's!

I would just let things the way they are and if you guys still find that you are wanting each other, then get back with him. Hope this helps!!!



~Alyssa

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After my boyfriend & I broke up, I started hanging out with my guy friend a whole lot. We got really close & end up having sex a few times. He was pretty much my rebound guy and it was a huge mistake. He thought that it really meant something & told me he loved me. Now, we are just friends. I told him I was sorry, but I didn't like him like that & liked being single. Everytime I flirt with a guy, he gets extremely mad/jealous and brings up what happened between us. I could never tell him it was a mistake because he's too sensitive & I just want to forget it ever happened. How do I tell him I want to be single & flirt without him getting all mad and saying I'm a slut? (20, F)

Well first of all he needs to get the picture that your a young woman who needs to explore with other guys before she picks one. He needs to realize that he doesn't control you and what happened between you two is in the past. Hope this helps!! And if he's calling you a slut, then he's so not worth it!

~Alyssa

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Does anyone have a good idea as to what I could get my boyfriend for our 6 months? I want to do something semi-creative (as in not trite) and semi-romantic.

For Christmas, I made him a book of pictures and magazine cut outs that said sweet stuff.

I need some ideas. Good ones are appericated.

I'll rate.

Hmmm...maybe if you have some pictures of you guys you could make a collage and frame it in a big frame & at the top make a sign on your computer that says like "Together forever". Hope this helps!!


~Alyssa

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Ok I'm scared to kiss my bf. I'm pretty sure he wants to kiss me too, but we're both really shy. How do I get him to kiss me or gather up enough courage to kiss him myself?
I'm 13/f by the way.
Thanks I rate 5's

Next time you guys are alone somewhere, and the mood is right, just go in for it! Hope this helps!!!



~Alyssa

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ok well theres this guy and i think he is really cute and he likes me alot. well ive known him fot half of my life and hes like a brother to me. he keeps on askin me if i would go out with him and then i dont wamt to say no but i do and at the same time i want to say yes to him. i dont no what i should do plz HELP me

i will rate 5's to any 1 who awenswers

Well if you know him well than next time he asks I say go for it! Hope this helps!!!

~Alyssa

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T'm 14 and I'm a girl. I've never had a boyfriend I don't enen talk to guys. I'm really shy. I really want to have a boyfriend, but I know that no guy likes me anyways. What should I do?

You should get one of your friends to go around and ask different guys if they like you. Hope this helps!!


~Alyssa

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im 16 ...
i need a little help.. so their is this guy! ive liked for ever and i never thought he liked me so i thought i was over him but friday i went to his house to do some project an we ended up going in his room and hanging out and he went to kiss me and i pulled away because their was this guy i liked. an i told him why and he was liek im so proud of you an all this ( i kinda wonder why but w/e) well it ended up not working b/w me and the other guy and i really like the one i was with on friday. but i feel like i had my chance an that i prolly wont get it again. and i dont know what to do.

Well I think you did the right thing by not kissing him. If there's another guy you like and you kissed this guy, the kiss wouldn't mean anything and be wasted! Hope this helps!!!!

~Alyssa

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I am 15 and have been going out with the same guy for 4 years. I lost my virginity 2 him when I was 14. He is starting to act way to controlling and we have gotten into several fist fights and he forces me to have sex with him sometimes. I met a guy on the internet that lives 1700 miles away. We have been talking for a while and I think I am in love with him. Is it possible to love someone that far away? He also says he loves me back, and wants to meet. Thanks

Personally I don't think u should date either 1 of them! Your current b/f is a total jerk (no offense!) and the guy u met online could be some rapist guy that could kill u! hope this helps!!!!

~Alyssa

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so about a year ago, my dad and my step mom got a divorce. It really suc'd like any divorce, but my stEp mom blamed it on me...I still belive deep down that it was my fault, but everyone tells me it wasnt. Ive been through so many consolurs and crap, but i still don't feel good about it. I still rember the last night we talked...she told me how much she hated me...((the mom i had for the last 12 years just told me she hated me))then she refused to talk to me for the last like month she lived with us.
well my real mom's really f'd up, and my former step mom wont talk to me ever again..and i realli dont like my dads new g-f..i need a mom. im a teenage girl...my dad doesnt always get it..Where should i turn? I mean i can talk to my freinds...but i would love more then anything to have a mom...should i try apologizing to my former step mom, or call my real mmom...ee..lost

this is a really tough question. well what i would do is maybe talk to a friends mom or an aunt that you have! you would probably feel more comfortable w/ your aunt cuz it's one of your family members but your friends moms are willing to help! i promise you that they won't turn you down! hope this helps!!!

~Alyssa

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ok well friday was the dance and a guy I like told me that day that he was going to try and make other gurls mad by asking someone that he doesnt look good with out..well he hooked up with this gurl named miranda but i wasnt there b/c i had a social dance now im realy bummed out what should I do and do you think they'll last??

i think you should just wait until they break up and then talk to him and stuff!!! that's what i would do!!! hope this helps!!!!

~Alyssa

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i know a lot of people are asking you these questions..but here it goes

vday is MONDAY! and my bf derek..weve been going out for a year and like we usually get eachother ..50$ stuff but his family is kind of low in money and i dont want him to feel bad like cause hes getting me a 20$ gift and i said i was guna get him like 40$ and he got mad but anyways i dont want to give him a photo album..cause i read peoples answers.. i already got him a necklace and braclet and cologn..i was guna give him my diary to read that ive been writing in for a while but i DEF. need something else so dont just say only the diary please. i dont know what else to get him. like tshirts are hard to find for him and yeah. please help! thanks

everything you r giving him is really good enough! if he really is into u, he won't care wut u get him!! hope this helps!!!

~Alyssa

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okay like im a freshman an im 15 an my boyfriend is a senior 19 but we dont go to the same schools. yeah i always get talks about how hes dating me...a minor...an how its wrong and everything so yeah dont repeat plz. well today he asked me if i could go to this really formal dance at his school and i wasnt so sure becuase my mom of course doesnt know about him and she definitly wont let me go and i dont really know anyone else that goes to his school. i really wanna go but yeah i KNOW i cant. so if anyone has anything about what to tell him that i cant go or ways that i could probably can go please let me know. thanks

i hate to be the one to tell you this, but you daying a 19 year old when your under the age of 18 is illegal. you need to break up w/ him. he'll end up using u for sex or something! sorry! hope this helps!!

~Alyssa

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ok so i go out with this guy and lately i've been getting jealouse of other girls becuz he lik flirts with them rite in front of me and i feel like we dont even go out and i dont wanna brake up with him like right be for valentines becuz he has like this big thing planned...what should i do..o ya i like this other kid ( i have for a long time)HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!!
// Jealouse \\

just when he does that get all up close to him & stuff so that way the girls know that he's taken! hope this helps!!

~Alyssa
P.S.-it's a good way to piss off girls that you don't like that he's talkn to!

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wut turns a guy on? like any tips i can use while makin out witha guy? like where are their sweet spots?!? or any suggestions on sumthin i can say that would really turn them on and wanna make out??

when your makin out, i heard that they like it when you hold their face in your hands! hope this helps!!!

~Alyssa

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ok, the guy I like has become really hard to read. Last week, he was always finding ways to be around me and I could always catch him looking at me out of the corner of my eye. I was starting to think that he liked me back. But this week he's not acting the same. He doesn't always come over, but I still catch his glances sometimes. I don't know what he's trying to say, or what to do about it?!?! HELP!!!

jst ask him why he keeps staring @ you! in my opinion, i think that he likes you! if he's all around you one week, and nervous around you the next, he might tknow that you know that he likes you and he might be emabarassed to admit it. he's a guy, think about it!! hope this helps!!

~Alyssa

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How do I get over a boy that I really like? I really need help on this one does anyone know any thing i can do?

you really have to just let time let you take your mind off him! that's what i always do. it might hurt ot think about him, but it's the only way! sorry! hope this helps!!

~Alyssa

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i asked a girl out and she said yes ok im 13 she 13 and i want to take her some where but i dont know how to go any where because her parents dont know and i dont want to go with one of her friend unless i have to.i have a older brother and sister that can drive so how do i go some where with her???

tell your mom that your going to the movies w/ a friend, get your brother or sister to drive you to the movies, and just don't tell them. get her to tell her parents the same thing! hope this helps!!!

~Alyssa

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I been dating this guy for 2 months and it was going really good untill I found this letter that he wrote my best friend ( that he like befor) he wrote that he really like her and everthing.When I saw that I was going to die.I need help!!!!!! I'm tried of getting hurt. WHAT DO I DO!!!!!!!!

ask him about it!!! you need to know about what is going on behind your back!!! if i were you i would break up w/ him!!!! hope this helps!!!

~Alyssa

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What is your Top flirting tip? thanks xx

making a guy laugh at stuff you say and laughing at what he says (if it'd funny!!) hope this helps!!

~Alyssa

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Ok, I have a friend that is going out with this guy that my other friend likes. The girl that he is going out with is named Michelle. My friend that likes him is named Kris. One prblem I'm like madly in love with the guy that michelle is going out with. But I cant tell Kris.She doent know that I love him.I cant tell her cause she is going to then hate me!!!! What do I do?
Help Me Please. I rate people pretty high.

Well, what i would do is get Michelle and Kris in the same room with one another and get them to talk about it! as for you liking him too, maybe yu could just keep it to yourself until your sure that she doesn't like him anymore! if you still like him then you can tell her! hope this helps!

~Alyssa

P.S- Is this Chelsea?

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