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WHY!!!!!!!!!!!
I been dating this guy for 2 months and it was going really good untill I found this letter that he wrote my best friend ( that he like befor) he wrote that he really like her and everthing.When I saw that I was going to die.I need help!!!!!! I'm tried of getting hurt. WHAT DO I DO!!!!!!!!
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OMG!! thats messed up .. i would so slap him!!!! and break up with him ... hope i helped ... Love, Maura Ann
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You definitely need to talk to your boyfriend and ask him why he is writing letters to your best friend. If he's doing this, it means that he really doesn't care about you and you need to dump him and find a better guy who wouldn't do this to you. If you're tired of getting hurt by this guy, then you definitely need to dump him. Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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Try talking to him or her.
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Charmed-Cherry21
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I'm going to answer this two ways because I'm a bit confused. If he liked her and doesn't have any feelings for her anymore, he's really not doing anything wrong. Just tell him you know about the note and have a little talk about it. If he just wrote this while you and him were together, dump him. You don't need to be treated like durt. Beleive me hun, there's better guys out there then this one!
♥ Krissy
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hmm, im sorry to hear that. i think thats happened to alot of people. all i can tell you is try to find guys you can really trust before you put your heart out there to be broken. he's a loser for not just being str8 up with you anyway. he shoulda just told you. hope things work out with you and hope i helped..lotta love
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talk to him about it tell him if he likes her soo much why is he goin out with her or just tell him ur tired of getting hurt and your not in the mood to get hurt again ! n talk to your bestfriend about it n if she knows about that then she aint a real friend for not telling you ( i hope i dont sound meann lol i dont mean to sound mean) .. hope i helped .. tell me how it goes hunn ..
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I'm confused- did he write the letter before the two of you were going on? Did he start going out with you because he thought he could get closer to your friend?
There are a lot of questions that I think that you have for it. It all depends on how you found the letter though, when you approach him. If it was just out where anyone can see it, then you need to ask him about it. You have to be honest and not show that you're really hurt. You want to be as intellectual as possible- so that he knows that he doesn't need to make you feel better. I think that the both of you need an honest discussion with each other, with at little reactive emotion as possible. (have the discussion in a public place so the both of you are more likely to not over-react, especially him).
However, I still think that there might have been an ulterior motive in his dating you (however, 2 mos is a long time). Maybe he liked your friend, started dating you, and then really liked you a lot more? I know that you must have given him your heart, and you feel that he didn't protect that enough. I can only say that you need to have hope and faith that one day there will be a guy who will accept your heart, protect with his soul, and be thankful everyday that you're in his life.
Yours,
Arun
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Well first off I think that you should kick him to the curb!! He doesn't deserve you at all. But if you still want to have a relation ship with him then you could talk to him. Now your friend on the other hand isnt a very good friend if she hasent talked to you about it.If she is just hiding it from you then she isnt a good friend at all. Hope this helped!!!
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omfg....That'z so rude......just sit down and show him the note and talk bout it! But if he still has signs bout that dump him! no gurl desvers to b treated like a fish on a plate!
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o0 wow thats rude! i think you should break up with him because you dont deserve to be treated like that! try talkin to him about it or something ! x0
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He shouldent be writing lietters to your best friend* saying that stuff. He obviosuly does not care for you and you deserve so much better. Break up with him!!
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ask him about it!!! you need to know about what is going on behind your back!!! if i were you i would break up w/ him!!!! hope this helps!!!
~Alyssa
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