Well, there is only one thing to do. Find out, be his friend and see if his in a relationship. If he's not become more close to him then soon he'll start liking you. Remember this though. He might not see you as a GF but only a friend or vise versa. Hope I've helped. (:

I also had a "thing" with my Best guy Friend-12/m.-me-13/f, and it went on for 2 months. I was being stupid, cz I was sorta dating well, not really we took a break....but I ended it quickly with Best Friend cz my BF and I got back together. I was so hurt cz he realy hates my BF, so I sed i cudnt go on cz my BF and I r back together. Then, he sed fine whatever. I screwed up I cried for weeks cz he wudnt talk to me and he saw me break down wehn one of my friends asked me if i was ok, i wasnt and cried my eyes out. He was also dating, but he dint like her like dat and it was ok Anyways, we're ok now and I'm single.:) happy to be single. just ask him out no one'll think ur intruding its her fault for not being a good GF. lol. just go for it
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I know what you're going through. I'm also 13 and a female, and there has been a time where I find a really crazy cute hot guy at school my age or 14yo. Anyways, seriously, you keep chhanging your personality like that and that guy apperantly asked about you, each guy will SAY DIFFERENT things about you!! Then, HE'LL BE FREAKED OUT. Just try to get him alone, or start by smiling at him as you pass by the hallway to start getting noticed. You do that for a while, he'll ask you a question, or if he smiles back at you that's when you talk. Anyways, that's what I do all the time, I'm always myself and no one says anything differnt about me when a guy asks questions about me wit me exes. I've only had 2 boyfriends since I was 11yo. Just be you. If he doesnt like you for you, then he's a jerk and you deserve someone better. Be you and talk to him. Don't be shy you be the first to break down the wall, then after that he'll help you break it down too.
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It kinda doesn't make sense why would her parents take her cell away if she's 2o years old unless she is younger than that. Anyways, I think you should preoccupy your mind and study. Set a goal, what I do when I like someone I write what I have to do until I'm willing to focus on it. One time I wrote "I need to study." on 3 loose leaf paper back to back until I started studying because there was a big quiz coming up, and it worked. Try to put some pictures of her away and think about you and study. Breathe and study.
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honey, you're 9 years old. You need to be talking to your mom about this. Why and when did you start caring about your boobs?? You're like 9 years old, and I'm pretty sure your boobs aren't as big as they seem. I've met other 9 year old with the same chest as me, and I'll admit, they are a bit small for my age I'm 13/f. I mean, you mighht start caring because that's when you start wearing training bras. Sweetie, those aren't really bras, they are just like a tanktop only covering your boobs. Start being concious about your boob when your like in 5th grade because that's when you start wearing bras. Plus, you're not in love, your in love with the fact that you think a guy could feel you up. That is called lust. You shouldn't even worry about that yet. Some of my friends had sex and they are 13 yo like me!! They regret it because they were only thinking being felt all over the place. Only I know about it and the guy who my friend slept with. It's going to ruin your reputation and you're so young! Here let me give you a story. One of the girl in my Social Studies class let's say her name is Penny. So, Penny met this guy named Cain. He's 15yo. So, this all happened at a movie theatre where they show free movies. Well, one night and Penny are one of the lusty type of chicks. Anyways, a movie showed up, Cain came up to her led her to a dark alley behind the theatre and started making out with her. She was in love with the idea that Cain is touching her boobs, and grabbing her butt, she gave a guy a bad thing. She regrets it because EVERYBODY knew about it. She hate people caling her a slut, do you want to be called that?? I don't think so. See, you let a guy touch you he will spread it around and other guys are going to take advantage of you. So, focus on school and enjoy being a kid okay?
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I'm really sorry, but STOP DRINKING SO MUCH!! Don't you want to live a happy life. Don't even think, "no because my love life is over, I'm never going to love again!!" NO! Every person who's alive deserves to live life the fullest. Having 1o-12 large whiskeys daily to fall asleep is wrong. You're going to get way too toxicated and then soon become an alcoholic. STOP THIS MADNESS. I don't know if this is your first love or you lost your virginity to her, that doesn't mean your life is over! Everybody deserves to live and love. Don't let this bring you down. STOP DRINKING, STOP THINKING YOUR LIFE IS OVER, LET IT GO SLOWLY. Don't just drop everything. If you love her, apologize to her for whatever turned out when you lost her. You can't think straight and yyou think your whole life should be wasted so you drown your soul with whiskey and it's jacking up your brain. Please stop, I'm sure you're a wonderful person who is able to love and live, not drown yourself with whiskeys. Find new hobbies, take your mind off things a bit, just HAVE FUN.
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You are obviously way too young to have sex. Just because you might start ppuberty that doesn't mean lose your VIRGINITY! It sort of sounds like your doubting it which is good because when having sex at suuch a young age you will regret it. I honestly believe you have to wait until you feel you're ready enough by that I mean between the ages of 18-and up. We all have to enjoy our childhood and sex isn't part of it. WAIT WAIT AND WAIT. Trust me, if you lose your virginity you're going to regret it for the rest of your life. Good luck and make wise decisions.
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I honestly don't think that you can make yourself jealous. Someone has to make you jealous. Maybe, your calm because you really like this dude and that all you want for him is to be happy. Maybe, you're not at least a little jealous because you DON'T see them practically together. You could probably ask him if his girlfriend could come visit for the holidays and see if you get jealous when you see them together. You're not worrying because you have him and his girlfriend is somewhere far away. You'll be jealous when he focuses on his girlfriend more often. hope this helps.
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Take this slow. If you want him back accept his request. Then, start hanging out, if he confesses his feelings for you then he likes you. Try and flirt with him, but not too much, he'll push you away. Be yourself. Or you can play hard to get. Tell him you can be his friend, but when there is a group hang out pretend you don't see him just say hi's and hey's to everyone, but him. If he notices then, he likes you because he's watching whatever you're doing. If he texts you wait 3-5 minutes, then reply. Your reply should be short, that way he thinks you're doing something better. Then, if he asks you a question while you're talking to someone else, be all flirty, but don't say anything to him, pretend you don't hear him. REMEMBER, don't do this all mean, you're trying to get him back not push him away. Either way, hope this helps.
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I'm just a 13 year old who loves helping in need. Just ask me questions I'll try and answer them as best as I can deliver them to you also. Glad I'm helping so many people. XD

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