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okay guys, i'm morgan, people call me mo though i lovee helping people, and will hopefully succeed as you ask a question! i really hate when people give me low ratings because i'm being honest, its really low of them! don't ask me a question if your looking for a compliment or advice that is sugar coated! i'm not like that, so please take me more seriose than that!xo_xoxx so giive all the problems you can think about! ily, mo!♥

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Me and my boyfriend have been dating about a month and a half. And I love him already. And I've never been in love. It's real. I haven't told him yet because I'm scared he won't say it back and that worries me. He almost told me that he did after like two weeks but then another guy kissed me and everything got messed up. But it's way better now that I mean it. I want to tell him, I don't know if I should yet. I mean I know I love him though.

i don't know how old you are so its harder, if your like 13-16 then just say it at the end of a convo one day! if your 16-whatever, you can say it when you guys are on a date, or just waklign somewhere, or when he drops you off at yoru house! make it sound normal and natural! ily, morgan!

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Im sorry, maybe your answer was too clear, but i couldnt get exactly what you mean. You mean, i should fight for my love, or i should go on with my life? Well, i have to admit that im going to ask her again for another meeting, and i hope this time for real. Is this what you mean?

i just meant that what you said is whta you belive! so you shoudl follow your heart, and if your hearts says you love her go for it! and you say your meating her again, so you now know how you are going to get through to her! because you have to have somthignt o talk abuot! if you don't get it, ask again! ohpe this helps this time! ily, morgan!

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By the way, can you tell me what does it mean "tormenting"? Cause in my language (albanian) it means both something disturbing, and something that hurts (feelings). What is the real meaning and when do people use this word?

tormenting means to hurt people (physically or emotionally) and it also means to bug the person over and over again! hope thuis helps! ily, mo!

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alrighty well...

this is your bestest friend ever

aww, omg! well, that sucks! and as bad as you want to know what he did with these girls when you were going out, you shouldn't hes moved on, and that means you shold be tough and show him that you can be stronnger then him! tell him that you know he cheated on you 3 times, but also tell him how you reacted to this, but don't ask question! he moight just come out and telkl you! hope this helps. but babe if you need anything, you know what number to call! ily, morgan♥!
p.s. i lovee you too

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Hi there. I have a kind of situation in here, which may need help.
I broke up with this girl from 2 months before, as she was having some emotional problems with someone else (ex, long story). Well, as i needed some answers of why, i asked her 3-4 times to speak to me, but first she told me she doesnt think so, then she told me she needs time, and than again she needs time and so on.
Last Thursday she sent me a message "i dont know if i should be telling you this, but i saw you in my dreams these days, tormenting me. Maybe because of the july, i dont know". (we used to knew eachother in July before 2 years). I told her that i kept seeing her too in my dreams and that is very strange.
Well, i dont know, this girl or is too stupid, or too smart :) yesterday, i told to her this other message "you know that i dont like superficiality. I know you thought a lot before sending me that message. If there is something to talk, lets talk.". And later she told me: "I just wrote some thoughts, thats it. There is no need to make it such a big deal. I didnt ask any answer in return, just describing some dreams. Goodnight!"
I told her this other thing: "I dont know why it was so important to tell me about those dreams, knowing the fact that im going to move on.
Dont put me in a game where you dont want to play". After that, i received this other one: "Hey, i didnt beg you for not moving on, or asked anything from you. I just told you some dreams, and your reaction is up to you. I am not playing, i never did.".

Well, as i see, this one or is too stupid or is too smart. You break up before 2 months and you cant send your ex a message like this. I think this is not so normal, isnt that ? I think this is a way to keep me around, so i told her "its not a problem, you can share whatever you want, but dont tell me you werent expecting for an answer :)"
On the other side, i know she is with someone else right now (this ex of her, i told you before. i dont know how is going, but i dont think its going fine between them). What do you think? Was it just a "share of thoughts" or its like a playing mind games? What do you think about this one? cause every time i asked her what is up in her mind, she doesnt admit that she wants anything. Ok, i guess, and i know her enough to say this, cause in these kind of situations, she doesnt have the courage to ask me anything, or to make clear or admit that she wants me to take her back, cause she wants me to make this tought decision by myself. What do you think? What do you suggest? I want this girl back, i admit this. She has been my love, and i still love her, but i dont want to be hurt again, i mean, i have to admit that im a little afraid about her real wants and needs, and im afraid that im being a little pathetic and is only my mind who is making these situation, and i dont want to make a decision and ask her to come back, because of this. Or i should at least try? What do you suggest?

i think you just made your own decision! she might have been playing mind games, but maybe that is her way of showing how she feals for you! you said it yoruself you love her, just stick in what you believe in! hope this helps, ily, morgan!

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hey..

ive been with my guy for nearly a year now...

everytime im with him, if hes happy im over the moon, wen hes unhappy i always think there is something wrong. and the thing is i always seem to get really emotional wen im around him. i dont no y and i feel if i dont stop im gonna lose him. even just over the littlest things, i get upset so easily, even if he says something wrong, or doesnt give me affection... y is that? my emotions evolve around him! is it becuase im truely inlove with him.. wen im not around him i want to be and all that stuff.. we do tell each other that we love each other and all that, but i feel sometimes thats not enough. they say love hurts, and im thinking that it truely does. can someone give me some advice on how to be more stronger in a relationship, becuase im at witts end, i dont no wat to do.. how do i stop these emotions?

tell him yoru fealing these amotions! no joke! if you tell him he might feal that way too, and then you guys can wok it out! don't be afraid that your going to break up with him, if he breaks up with you for saying somthing like that, then its not ment to be, no matter how much you love him, and you need to face the facts that if somthing bad does happen, it might be one of the hardest break up of your lifes, but it was worth it because i quote, "im at witts end" , you won't feal that way anymore! hope this helped! ily, mo!

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hey 13/f

all my fiends that i hang out with have all kissed a guy at some stage i feel really left out and stuff sometimes and they treat me like a baby..i just want to get it over and done with but want to like the guy as well
Please help me!!!
thanx mwa

don't feal pressured by your friends! but honestly to me its just a kiss! i'm one of those annoying girls who say they lovee you all the time, just because i can! so, just go up to anybody and be like lets kiss! hah, i know it sounds GAY, but then when you meet a guy that you want to kiss it won't be weird! id really knwo you, so it might not help, because i don't know if your shy! but i know a lot of my friends who still didn't kiss, and i don't look at them different, so just wait because it matters what you think! and, maybe if one of your close friends is treating you like a baby then tell her or him that it bothers you, a lot! they might stop! ohh and about the additional info, sure i guess, you don't allways have to do what your frends aer doing, just try to see behind the guy a little more, to see if hes flirtiing with you or being friendly! sorry this is long! hope it helped though! ily, morgan♥!

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M/15- I'm in the middle of nowhere and i can't find any girls to meet. Only the ppl in my neiborhood and it is small and it seems like no1 here is my age. I want to meet some1 but i feel like there is nobody here 2 meet. What do i do?

[ i don't sugar coat answer!] well i'm sorry about that, it must suck! but don't think about meating a girl online or anything, because then your going to like not have any realation ship, a friend wuold be fine, but don't let it go any farther than that! and besides it will get like way better when you get in school, so just be patient! ily, morgan♥!

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Ok is it wrong to go out with a 17 year old guy if you are 14? even if you really know him because he is a friend of the family.

no, not if you really love him! you go gerrly! ha, ily, morgan

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is it bad to have just met a guy, and it was the second time we hung out at his house, and he fingered me and i gave him a hj? does that make me seem easy or slutty?
thanks for any help!=)

no not at all, it was a little fats, but your not SLUT! just be careful more, he might think a little different though now! hope this helps, morgan

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all the boys i like r real cute but look nice and innocient and i know looks can be decieveing but im into the quiet boys. they are nice sometimes but when it comes to girs theyre mean can please explain y they probably act like that
thanku

okay, wow, i totally know what you mean! they act like that because they are together! guys are just gay like that sometimes, idk, maybe they think that there like cool when they do it, just point out to them that there not going tog et girl that way! they might take it as a joke, but theyll allways remember that a girl was the one who said it to them! hope this help! good luck, hah. mo :D

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ok so in 8th grade i went out with this guy and i really liked him. but then we broke up. well now we are juniors in high school and we are still friend but i still really like him, i never really got over him. he knows i still like him and somtimes it seems like he likes me back but other times it dosent and i dont know if i should let it go or keep holding on. please help!

this sounds ridiciulously easey, but umm hunny, you need to tell this boy you like him! i know you said that he knows you like him, but you need to put it out in the open and then maybe somthing will happen! if that still doesn't work! stop holding on, he seems like hes playing with your mind to me! sorry if my advice sounds harsh! morgan. :D

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ok so i really like this kid. and hes told me he likes me, too. we talk on the phone a lot and stuff and the more i hang out with him, the more i like him. but he has a girlfriend. im not sure if they are going to break up though/ how would i be able to show him maybe that i could be a good girlfriend, too. and how would i be able to tell if they're gonna break up? do people always act a certain weird way before they do?

i wouldn't interfere with there realationship! its bad enough that he says he likes you when going out with another girl on his hands to deal with! just wait for the "magic" to happen! they will probably break up! i would give you some sighns, but everybodys is different! so jujst look for unussalties, like not as much talking or somthing, sorry if this sounded harsh, i just don't sugarcaot things! ily, mo! :D

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Me and my boyfriend fight a lot and i hate it. What should i do, i love him so much but were always fighting...?

tell him your sick of fighting! nd everytime you feal a fight coming on, just stop and say somthing insne! like if you two make up a word like, onion, or train or somthing, and that word let you both know that your sorry for what you did, and you dont' want to fight! i know it sounds crazzii though! good luck

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when you ask out a girl what's a good way to do it, how do i ask her out, and when should i know i'm ready

your ready when you don't have to question it on this sight! when your totally and completley sure you like her! a good way to doit, is hang out with her one day! and while your by her sen dher a text that says "will you go out with me"! it super corny, but ti OMG so sweet! she'll die, and it will be had to say no to that! hope thats good :D morgan

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Okay, well i like this kid named Ben. And i babysit his little sister, so I get to see him a lot. Well she knows i like him, and im almost 100% sure he likes me back. But, i was filling a myspace survey out and it asked if i was single, and i said yes and she gasped and i was like what, and she was like you and Ben. And i was like well i date someone that doesnt like me back, and that we arent really dating just because i like him. And she was like but he likes you. And i was like no he doesnt, and she says yeah he does, hes just not going to tell you because he knows im going to tease him, and so i was like yeah then how do you know, and shes like im his sister i think i would know more then you. So I want to know how do i get him to tell me he likes me? And do you think he told his sister he likes me? Because two weeks ago i was over there house and we were all sitting in the living room and me and Ben were kind of staring at eachother, and she was like he likes you. So i know he does, but how do i get him to tell me without being shy, or having me have to tell him i like him?

Sorry its so long.

allright well first off, i'm pretty sure his sister knwos, it sounds like it anyway! && you could get ben to tell by sayign a stupid flirty question like, "UGH, i'm so mad! all the guy at school, think of me more as a sister than a girlfriend." or say, omg! your sister said the crazziest thing, she said you like me, is that true or we she just joshing me! and if he still doesn't say it, then maybe he likes you but doesn't want to have a realtionship, or just being the average guy, which is...SHY! well i hope everything gos good! :D ily, morgan!

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i know girls like guys, but im in LOVE with every guy i know! it doesnt matter if he is the ugliest guy in the world, i would still like him! a while ago i had 10 boyfriends, i was datin 2 or 3 at a time, thats not includin all the "friends with benefits" i had too! im only 15 and im already a MAJOR PLAYER, but now im only with one guy, and i love him soooo much, and i feel like hez the only one for me, but....
i have become addicted to havin more than one guy to care about, and i really dont want to cheat on him cuz it would break his heart, and i would lose my best friend cuz she told me if i broke his heart she would break my neck! HELP!!!
i want to save my friendship and my relationship, but.....
how do i resist flirtin with other guys?

try not to talk to them as much! i know it seems IMPOSIBLE, but if you just try to igonre this phase, it might be better! things will get better! hope everything gos good :D morgan.

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when a girl says i just need time to get over him cuzz it wouldnt be fairr,i just need time to think'what does that acutally mean and how long do i have to wait to get my answer? i asked her out today.

wwo, touchy subject! if you allready asked her once, don't ask her again, because it will saound WAY paranoid, so hopefully she is a girl that moves on fast, if not you might have to wait anywhere beetween a week, to a month! i know its insane! it means that she just wants to wait so shes not hurting the toher guiys feelings! aparently shes a caring person! hope ervtything gos good! =D morgan,

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So I just came out of a 24 hour relationship...Amazing, right? Not really. This is probably my 10th boyfriend and all of the previous ones have been jerks too me, I was so tired of it. Then this kid Gary was talking to me, and he dropped a few hints that he liked me, and then I dropped a few hints that I liked him back..But see, we only met once, and then we started talking on myspace and on the phone..
Then he was going to ask me out, and I told him I didn't really know, because if he met me after we started going out, he might think of me differently...

You know how someone talks to you for a long time, and you get a picture of how the person is, and then when you meet them, they're totally different?

Well that's what I ment, and he told me it wasn't going to be like that. He also told me that he'd treat me right unlike my exes and he's a really sweet guy too, and even like my friends that know him say he's really nice too, even my stepmom knew who he was, and said he was nice.

So he told me to don't worry because nothing will change, so we started going out. The next day we went to the pool and we started to hang. Normally I'm shy at first and then I get a little more comfortable. I thought everything was going all right, but like later he dropped another hint that "maybe you were right about us thinking that we are totally different then what we expected."
So i'm thinking, crap...

So later that night he broke up with me.
Great, he lied to me. BIG TIME. Thanks to him I'm like not trusting any guys for now on, because i've had 10 boyfriends who've done the same exact thing, and it's ughh...horrible!

So yah, he called, and said he only sees me as a friend. I'm just playing cool cuz yah know it would be retarded for me to start crying on the phone...Then he said he still wants to hang with me, like that'll happen! Normally I come to a point where I only have people who bring something into my life, why would I still want to hang with him? I wouldn't want to hang with him and pretend like everythings "okay"...
So yah, we were still on the phone, and he got another call, and I wasn't going to wait, so I hung up and turned off my cell and I started to cry...Pathetic, I know. But, I mean it's just hard how he said he wasn't going to be mean to me and lie to me and crap when he kind of did.

Atleast he did it now and not later so everything would be like worse..

And now I don't know what to do. I tell myself I don't want to date anymore 'cuz it's hurtful and nothing ever good comes out of it, for me...What should I do? I'm a nervous wreckk...ahh god here I go crying again..

maybe you should lay off dating, but if you think that "right" guys comes, don't try NOT to like him just because of other boys! follow your instincts! :D -mo

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now that it's summer my bf and i spend a lot of time together. we don't have a lot of money, nor do we want to constantly spend it all...but we will spend it on things like movies and dinners. other than that, we stay at home and watch tv usually. it's pretty hot outside, so it's kind of limiting...but i'm still open to suggestions. basically- WHAT CAN WE DO? i love being spontaneous but he usually needs future notice, i'd like to plan a lot of things for us to do so i don't get bored just sitting at home. what's fun for couples to do in the summer thats not outrageously expensive?

well i know this sounds TOTALLY cheesy, but bake somthign together! its always fun, especially if you two have no idea how to make anything! hah. or make a messy craft! it seems pretty gay, but its actaully really cute! hah. :D hope it works, mo.

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