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Guy trouble.
Okay, well i like this kid named Ben. And i babysit his little sister, so I get to see him a lot. Well she knows i like him, and im almost 100% sure he likes me back. But, i was filling a myspace survey out and it asked if i was single, and i said yes and she gasped and i was like what, and she was like you and Ben. And i was like well i date someone that doesnt like me back, and that we arent really dating just because i like him. And she was like but he likes you. And i was like no he doesnt, and she says yeah he does, hes just not going to tell you because he knows im going to tease him, and so i was like yeah then how do you know, and shes like im his sister i think i would know more then you. So I want to know how do i get him to tell me he likes me? And do you think he told his sister he likes me? Because two weeks ago i was over there house and we were all sitting in the living room and me and Ben were kind of staring at eachother, and she was like he likes you. So i know he does, but how do i get him to tell me without being shy, or having me have to tell him i like him?
Sorry its so long.
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You can just flirt with him when you see him. That'll give him a hint that you're interested too and he won't be so shy. Or you could also talk to his little sister and say "talk to Ben for me and tell him that i like him and tell him that he shouldn't be so shy around me"... or something along those lines. If you don't want to do that, you can just act casual around him and be like " I heard a rumor saying that we are the next hottest couple. have you heard it?"
yeah so just act casual but still in a flirty way to get him to see that you're interested too.
I hope I helped!
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PS: sometimes you have to make the first move if you want things to go faster...
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allright well first off, i'm pretty sure his sister knwos, it sounds like it anyway! && you could get ben to tell by sayign a stupid flirty question like, "UGH, i'm so mad! all the guy at school, think of me more as a sister than a girlfriend." or say, omg! your sister said the crazziest thing, she said you like me, is that true or we she just joshing me! and if he still doesn't say it, then maybe he likes you but doesn't want to have a realtionship, or just being the average guy, which is...SHY! well i hope everything gos good! :D ily, morgan!
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well if he already knows theres no point in not knowing if he does or doesnt like you. if it were me i would just ask him up front. cause obviously everyone knows already. but if you arent brave enough just flirt a little more now and then. force him to like you more than you think he already does.
hope this helps!
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