What can I say? I'm fourteen, freshman, currently located in Alpharetta, GA. Born in Orlando, FL, I live for excitement. My greatest passion is singing. I don't really follow the asian sterotype, except sometimes. I want to go to FIT in NYC or Parson's New School. Most of the time, I listen to MyChem or HSM or techno. All I watch on TV is Disney Channel, Fuse, and Charmed. I think the strangest thing about me is how I dress. I can be classic: long skirts, trench coat, high heels or boots, etc. or casual: jeans, t-shirts, heels, sweaters, etc. or other: band shirts, converse, studded belts, black jeans, eyeliner, etc.
I usually focus on love life questions, but I can do everything. I guess I'm better at love life because I don't have one of my own =P
You can ask me for advice here, email me if you want, whatever. I'll answer. Promise =]
Yeah, I'm crazy. But you learn to love me.
E-mail: potobubbletea@gmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: Orlando, FL
Occupation: Student; Singer, fashion designer
Age: 14
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can you french kiss with braces? i met this guy i really like and i think were ready to take it to the mext step. (link)
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Yes, but if you both have braces, be VERY VERY VERY CAREFUL not to touch teeth. Have you seen the awkward movies where this happens? Yeah, I don't think you want to be calling someone to help you. If you both have braces, I'd just recommend being extremely careful about where you put your mouth
if only one of you has braces, it's more enjoyabble because two sets of braces makes it uncomfortable to french with
Hope I helped! =]
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18/f
so theres this kid who ive been talkin to and he has a gf but last month when we were txting back and forth he told me he liked me. but now when we talk its different and i cant tell if he still likes me. how do i know if he still likes me without actually saying do u still like me. (link)
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If he's still talking to you and stuff, chances are he still likes you. It probably feels different just because you know. That always makes it a little more awkwarder.
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Ok, so my name is Mandy and my boyfriend is Evan (not our real names). We've been going out for two years, so everyone knows we're like the "class sweethearts". But anyway...
Today in science I was flipping though my book (which stays in the desk and is used by whoever sits there each period), and on one page someone had written: "I love Evan Smith - and I'm not Mandy!" And then someone else wrote below it: "Me too! And I'm not Mandy either!"
Arggh! It made me soooo mad! So I wrote: "I love him too! and I AM Mandy!" (but then i crossed it out because I thought that sounded kinda rude, like haha I'm going out with him and you're not).
But anyway, I cant stop thinking about it. I mean, I know a lot of girls think my bf is cute and funny, and some probably have crushes on him... but they actually LOVE him?? Enough to write it in a book for anyone to see?? And what are the odds of it being two people who sit in the same seat (and MY seat, at that)? That must mean half the school is in love with him!
Now I know he really loves me, so I shouldn't let this bother me so much... but it really does. Because now I'm thinking that everyone I pass in the hall is secretly in love with my boyfriend, and behind their fake smile they're really glaring at me with jealousy. And I hate feeling so paranoid and suspicious! Ugghh.. what can I do to stop feeling so upset about this?
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Just because some say they "love" your man, it doesn't mean they actually LOVE him. They might just think he's really hot or something, because I do that too. And even if everyone in the school really are secretly in love with your man, don't let it get to you because he's yours and you should trust that. =)
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I was going out with this guy for 6months and he was my first serious boyfriend, tho he wasnt just a boyfriend he was my bestfriend, i then found out that he had cheated on me like a month ago, so i broke up with him, we were still meeting up, and we were acting jsut the same as usual and he keep saying how he loved me and i was his soulmate and he wuld do anything to get me back, i was jsut about ready to give it another go when i find out he has another girlfriend. It has emotionally killed me. I cant stop thikning about it, The injustice of it all makes me sick and i stil love him and cant move on.
can someone please tell me how to get over him?
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This probably won't help, but this is my thinking:
If you can't get over him, there's probably a reason why. When it's time for you to move on, you will. Give it time.
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Hi i am a 17/F i have been a bisexual for 5 years now and i want to tell my parents but i dont know how? im afraid of their reaction. also People give me and my gf shit all the time how can i deal with out kickin ass (link)
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1) Do you know your parents general view on bisexuality? Try to find that out first before deciding because if they're extremely against it, you might have a problem. If they're not, just sit them down one day when BOTH of them are not busy and tell them (It's probably best to tell them at the same time). They're your parents and should love you no matter who you love.
2) If they have something against you, that's their problem. Don't concern yourself with issues other people have. Focus on your life. Be comfortable your gf. People who give you shit won't be able to change who you are. There will always be someone prejudice about this sort of thing. But they're going to have to learn to deal with it because it's the 21st century.
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ok well me and my boyfriend of 3 months had our first kiss today when we were up in my room on my bed and we started making out right after the kiss and we had it goin on for a good hour and a half. and now we both seem to be addicted to it and we wanna see eachother and do it again because it was so special
do you think thats weird? (link)
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Nope, not at all. I did that once. Probably about the same amount of time, or a little longer. Except I only DATED the boy for 2 monthes so...it should feel special. Don't worry about it. Kissing is a special thing.
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ok, so i\'m 16/f. i have a boyfriend who\'s 18 and we\'ve been dating for almost two months. we both love eachother. i don\'t know if we\'re getting too intimate b/c we made out the first week we started dating, he gave me a hickie our one month, and now he\'s been grabbing my boob, but i would grab his hand and just hold it.b/c idk if i like it or not haha... but last night, we were at his friend\'s house who were out of town and we were making out, then somehow he was laying on top of me (all clothes were on) and don\'t get me wrong, i enjoyed it... but i don\'t know if we\'re going too fast because i really don\'t want to loose my virginity to him b/c he\'s graduating this may and going to miami for college but i do love him and i just don\'t know whats gonna happen. give me some advice?? haha, thanks!! (link)
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Given your age and stuff, I don't think you're going to fast. I suppose since he's 18 and a senior, he's probably used to moving a little fast. Do what YOU feel is comfortable. That's always the most important thing =]
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14/f
Okay, I liked this guy, let's call him G, for months and months, I really did love him, but he had a girlfriend. However, I always felt like we had a connection. Then, around three months ago, him and his girlfriend split up. Me and G got together about 2 and a half months ago. I was happy at first but... it just doesn't seem to be working. I can honestly say that I don't love him in that way anymore. I love him as a friend, but not romantically. It's got to the point where I feel as if we hardly speak anymore, but he told one of mine and his friends that he's in love with me.
I don't want to break up with him, because I feel really confused at the moment, and I'm the type of person that always wants what they can't havee. What if I broke up with him and then realised that wasn't what I wanted?
So I've decided to try and make it work, but so far it isn't going very well.
At the same time as this, one of my best friends, let's call her D, was dating a guy named R, who is one of our friends.
I'd always liked R a little bit, but I never thought anything of it because he was my best friend's boyfriend and I'm not single.
D had been unhappy in the relationship for a long time, she wanted to be single and was finding R a little too self-centered. So she started hanging out with him less, and last week R broke up with her. At the time she was happy because she had wanted the relationship to end, but just didn't know how to break up with him.
When D and R were going out, R had told some people he liked someone he shouldn't, and towards the end of their relationship, me and R started talking more.
The day after, I found out, due to a few close friends who speak with R, that R had told them he likes me.
Since they broke up, me and R have been speaking every night, hanging out more and flirting a bit at school. We've got a lot closer.
And I keep having second thoughts about G, because although I wanted it to work, it quite obviously isn't, and now R's in the picture...it's making me realise what I'm missing by staying with G.
However, R is my best friend's ex boyfriend, and recently she's been telling me that she's messed it up with him, she misses him and didn't realise how lucky she was until they broke up. She keeps mentioning certain people that have dated best friends and saying it's stupid, and I can't very well date her ex-boyfriend after she's told me she still has feelings for him and she misses him!
The problem is, every day, things seem to be getting worse between me and G, and better between me and R. I feel like me and R click so well, and I love being with him and talking to him. But at the same time, I'm scared of letting go of G, and I don't want to hurt him.
As far as I know, D doesn't know R likes me, and she doesn't know I like R.
I just don't know what to do.
What do you think I should do about G?
And what about R?
What if R is just a rebound?
And how could be me and R ever be together when him and D used to be an item?
Thanks for any help, I'm so confused at the moment.
xxx
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Al-RIGHTY then. I'm thinking you're having some ISSUES? Let's see what the Great Letitia can do:
So R likes you, you like R but you're going out with G but you don't like him anymore, and R is your friend's ex, but she's thinking she might like him again? Oh, the drama. I kind of had the same problem when I was dating my ex. He said he loved me and I thought I did and then I realized I didn't love him, and possibly never did. Anyway, I broke up with him and he was heartbroken and stuff, but I realized it was the right thing to do. By staying in that relationship, I would only hurt him more.
If you KNOW you don't love G, I think you should end it. You'll feel horrible for hurting him so much and he'll be so sad, but you'll get over it. NOT in a mean way, just you'll figure out that that's how it has to be. AFTER that, then you can decide what to do about this R guy. See if D still likes him and how much she does. If she's a really good friend, ask her how she'd feel if you ever dated R. If she's not that close of a friend, things might get awkward between you two if you ask her that. But first things first, work things out with G. Then go on.
;) I like a guy who's name starts with R too.
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what are some kinky things to say to a guy?
anything. (link)
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"Isn't it delicious?"
-The Seven Year Itch; Marylin Monroe
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hiii
sorry its a bit long..
well i have liked this boy for about 6-7 months or more. i went out with him for 5 months and we broke up about 3 weeks ago. i still love him and i have never loved anyone as much as him. everyone can even tell.
i cheated on him at the very start that we went out and then i realised how much i love him and i regretted it; and he forgave me. but the whole time we were going out he would ditch me and he also lied to me about smoking (i didnt like smokers at the time) and he lied about not smoking. I forgave him for everythingg he did. then he did cheat on me, but he was drunk and the girl did stuff to him; it wasnt him at all .. so i forgave him..again..then we broke up because he kept flirting with these girls and it just got too much for me. And then about 2 weeks ago his best friend sends me a message saying all this threats and stuff and that if i ever talk to my ex again i will get bashed. I didnt really take notice of it coz he hasnt said anything to me about it. But last week me and my ex started talking and i asked him what he would do if his friend hit me and he said he would go crazy and be angry and stuff. Then i asked him if he ever thinks about me anymore and he said All the time. Then i was like Why arent we together yet.. and hes like Because my best friend doesnnt want me to be. .
and today i asked him why his friend doesnt want us to be together and he said I dont know.
So practically the only reason were not together is because of his best friend..and i dont know what to do because i have never felt like this about anyone; i actually think i love him.
Please help
thankss
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Alright poppet, you sound like you're in quite a rut so I'll take a crack at it:
I don't understand why your ex doesn't just talk to his friend. If his friend is really a good friend, then he should understand what you guys have between you two. Next time you see him, ask him if he could talk to him friend and see why it bothers him so much. If his friend doesn't change his mind, maybe he's not so great a friend.
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There is this girl at my school and she is amazing. She is always happy, extremely nice...and i swear she is friends with everyone! I'm really falling head over heels for this girl. I've noticed she acts a bit different around me now a days...and I was wondering...did i do something wrong? She always looks at the floor and has trouble keeping eye contact with me. Plus, she giggles a lot? Is she laughing at me..something I do? Anyway, it would help if I knew what these meant. A few weeks ago i started a secert admirer thingy. I've sent her flowers and wrote her short little love letter/poem things. Any chance she found out or something. Should I stop with the whole 'secert admirer'...do girls think that's lame? Well, anyways, I'm planning on asking her out, but I'm really nervous and I'm not too sure how to ask. I really like this girl, i want to impress her, put a smile on her face.
Any suggestions? Thanks in advance! =) (link)
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Dood, this chick LIKES you. Look at it, giggling? No eye contact? ACTS DIFFERENT? Those are all signs of űber-infatuation. She's got something with you. I don't think you really need to impress her. Just be yourself and see how she reacts. If you want to ask her out, just drop it in when you're talking. For example, steer your conversation into current movies, and casually say, "Are you doing anything this weekend? If not, we could go check out the movie." Something like that, I don't know. Work with it.
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16/m
My girlfriend always thinks I'm lying to her. For the smallest things. And I don't have a history of lying, so I don't know why she thinks so.
I'll say something like, "Today I went to the store and got skittles..." and she'll be all "stop lying to try to get attention." I don't know why she thinks I lie. I don't make a big deal of it though cause I don't want her to get mad.
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There are a few possibilities for this:
a) She's just awfully paranoid
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b) She's had a bad experience. This may be the case. When a girl gets hurt really bad, such as a guy lying to her and cheating on her, it really leaves an impact. Ask her why she's always thinking you're lying to her. If she gets defensive, chances are this is the case. Talk about it with her. Try to get her to open up to you.
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Ok so there is this boy lets say bob, and i for some reason feel really attached to this kid but i dont know him that well ive only known him for maybe 4 months, and he's all i can think about, and i dont even feel like i like him as if its involentary and ive tried to like other people but he always comes right back up, hes my brother's friend and if i got together with bob my brother would be pissed. i know that doesnt matter but my brothers approvel matters to me a lot. anyway bob is an ok kid, i guess, he flirts with me sometimes, well i think? I get confused on how you can tell if someone is flirting with you haha. anyway any advice hear? what shold i do? do i really like him? am i tricking myself? what? HELP! thanks :] (link)
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Try talking to your brother about it. He might understand, you'll never know. I think you do like this boy, if you've dreamed about him and he's all you can think about. Then again, since you've known him for such a short amount of time, you might just think you like him, but you really just wish you were better friends with him. That happens to me a lot. I'll throw myself at a guy I've just met because I think he's totally awesome, but really, I just want to be better friends. First things first, try to sort out your feelings and figure out if you really do like him. Only you can figure it out because it's your brain. After you figure that out, go from there. But if you really do like him, talk to your brother and see what he thinks about it. If you're close with your brother, that is. If you aren't, it might make things a tad awkward...
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my boyfriend is coming home in the beginning of november, hes in california and im in texas (hes 18 and im 16) weve been dating for 3 months and we started dating before he moved back to california (its a really long complicated story) anyways, i really want to do something special while hes home, i know were going to spend alot of time together the 2 weeks he's in town but i dont want it to just be like watching movies and stuff like that. i want to do something thats memorable. we're both virgins so everything of a sexual nature is definately excluded, i mean something thats totally creative and especially sweet. i also dont have much money i can spend because im going on 2 trips this year and im saving up for them. any ideas? i can use all the advice i can get! thankyou so much! (link)
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Maybe one night, go out to a field or the park or something and just lay there out under the stars. It's really romantic
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im in seventh grade and a girl. well theres this boy i like a lot and ive liked him almost the whole school year. we used to talk and laugh all the time in the beginning of the year when we sat across from eachother in science but since then we barely talk. im still in lovve with him tho. its the end of the school year and im woondering if i should tell him how i feel? im afraid that if he doesnt like me back, things will be awkward then. should i tell him? (link)
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I think you should just drop some hints that you like him and if he doesn't show anything about it, back off. It WILL make things awkward so be careful how obvious you be.
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there's a guy named logan. and last summer, we started hanging out even more and got really close.. most would have even called us "lovers". we both said we liked eachother.. and i waited for him. he never asked me out. 7 months of waiting, i went on to another guy. that didn't work out and i realized i still wanted logan. he and the guy i was dating didn't get along and were both jealous of eachother so i had to confess to both of them. (**he just called me :)**) but yeah logan was upset about it and the other guy didn't mean anything to me... so back in march we were coming home from a party and we ended up telling eachother we loved eachother.. and i believe we do. after almost a year of pretty much being together just not TOGETHER i think most people would be. he pushes my buttons, knows what ticks me off, but still leaves a smile on my face. i just know what its like to be IN love and i'm scared i might be for the first time.. we;ve been hanging out alot more again now and alot of people are thinking we like eachother again. i think we do, and i'm scared cause i don't want to wait for him again.. i just CAN'T do that & i've told him before that i couldn't just wait. most people think we act like a married couple too :) we're cute but i just don't know what to do to not have to wait.. and if i'm in love... HELP! (link)
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Ok, well, that's pretty much like how I was until I realized I had waited too long and just moved on. The guy I used to like, I liked him for about a year and I'm pretty sure he liked me back too. We were really close friends. I waited 6 months for him to ask me out. 6. And when he finally did, I finally knew I didn't like him anymore (I had been questioning it beforehand). If you don't want to wait, ASK HIM OUT YOURSELF. That's where my problem was. I didn't have the nerve. Just do it. Yes, I know it sounds really really easy, but it's freakishly hard. I know. Even if it takes a month, do it.
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Okay so i am hanging out with this guy i really like today. I know he likes me back and last time we hung out (sat) he kissed me.. with toungue. I want to make a move on him if he doesnt make any move on me today. I dont know how i should do it. What is a cute way to just.. kiss him without being like ackward? Also, i am worried about doing it cause maybe he just kissed me that once and thought" Hmm that was nice" but didnt plan on doing it again. I dont want to make it seem like im expecting it from now on (though it would be nice) hah
any answers would be appreciated/. =)
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Well, my thought is, if you're walking by each other, just grab his hand. If he's surprised, he'll probably look at you, like he didn't expect it. And that when you can *PLOP* one right on him. It can be on the cheek, you don't have to have a huge make out session right there. But it'll ease into something. And then you can look like you were all shy about it. If he doesn't look at you when you grab his hand, that doesn't mean you can't kiss his cheek anyway. THEN he'll probably look at you surprised. You can kiss him again if you feel like it :P
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I love this guy. He is my world, hes my best friend and we've known each other forever. He knows how to make me happy and can always tell when there is something wrong. He goes after the guys at school who talk about me, and stands up for me. He knows that i give in easily and he knows how to hurt me. the thing is...He says he loves me, but i dont know if he does. He flirts A LOT. but he always hugs and kisses me and it seems like he only cares if Im happy. But the problem is that, he goes out with all these girls, once they break up, im his rebound girl. then he finds another girl and forgets bout me. it really hurts me. I dont know what to dooo (link)
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Ok then, you know what you should do? TELL HIM. STAND UP FOR YOURSELF. I know you love this guy and everything and that doesn't have to change, but you HAVE to tell him that you're sick of him always going to you when he doesn't have anyone else. Like you're his side line person. Tell him that you don't want him to do that anymore. If he really loves you, he won't.
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i like a guy who is 17..and i'm 14. he will turn 18 3 days before i turn 15..is it like not illegal with parents permission (link)
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Well...unless you guys are going to get married or something, it's perfectly legal
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hey thanx for the help. yea he kindo of does that to me. he puts his head on my shoulder sometimes if we're sitting sometimes even when we're standing and of course i dont mind ;P heh. and today he was standing behind me and was hugging me from behind but not on the waist just on the shoulders. hes such a nerd and most people still like him. and hes so full of himself but what can i say somehow i still like him? i dont know haha. hes even friends with our english teacher and i stay in with him afterskool in her class just to be with him. haha. i was thinking about maybe if we're sitting close i could grab his hand instead of him always doing it. maybe as a way to drop a hint maybe? what do you think?
i think that you probably do have feelings for W and you do want to get back with him. a part of the story i never mentioned is that i used to like this guy too! and it was in january but he didnt like me at the time and v-day was terrible because everyone felt bad that he didnt like me. i still dont know how the whole 8th grade found out about this oh well. point being i liked him he regected me because well lets just say he "couldnt" like me...and we just became friends again. i mean we've known eachother since 7th grade but only after that insident we became best friends. i told him i didnt like him anymore but the feelings came back. maybe they never really went away. the point is if hes a good friend of yours then you probably really do think hes very special and you have so much in common as friends so as a couple you'd be great. and most likely W still likes you since you were the one to break up with him.
Are you guys going to the same school for high school? me and my guy arent but he promised to keep in touch. school's out on june 22nd. grad nite is june 8th. and the same day we also have an informal 8th grade dance. i live in Los anglese California. how bout you?
sorry bout the essay haha. but at least someone understands me. hope i helped you out a bit. confessing you like ur best friend is not at all easy i know haha. bye
SAM (link)
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Man, our life story for everyone to see. Sorry I haven't answered in a while. I kept forgetting to get on. You probably should lean your head on his shoulder too or grab his hand instead of him always doing it. I've been thinking a lot about guys lately because it's summer over here and it's sooooo boring. I don't really think I like W. I think I'm trying to (partially) get myself to like him because I think we were so great as a couple. And we were. We're all honors classes next year so we have all the same classes exceptfor different choruses. His friends are pretty much my friends and vice versa. We're both going to National Beta next week and that's where it all started last year. But I think I really don't like him anymore. After I broke up with him, he started being really cocky. More than he usually is. If I'm repeating myself, I'm sorry, I can't remember what I said last time. But now there's this other great guy, S, who I met this year and we're like, best friends. He went out with my other best friend in March or April. They broke up within a month. I don't know if I like him or not because I really like our friendship and I don't want that to be ruined if we break up. My friend G, the one that went out with him, is on a on/off hating him kind of thing. But I saw how he was when he dated her. He gets a little...too into the relationship. And when she broke up with him, he was tragically ridiculous the next day. He's over her though. I don't really know what I want. Maybe it's the cause of summer that I just want a distraction. And as for W, we'll just see how things go at Nationals.
I live in Alpharetta, GA. It's by Atlanta. Hey, do you have a facebook or myspace?
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