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i think i'm in love... for the first time..
there's a guy named logan. and last summer, we started hanging out even more and got really close.. most would have even called us "lovers". we both said we liked eachother.. and i waited for him. he never asked me out. 7 months of waiting, i went on to another guy. that didn't work out and i realized i still wanted logan. he and the guy i was dating didn't get along and were both jealous of eachother so i had to confess to both of them. (**he just called me :)**) but yeah logan was upset about it and the other guy didn't mean anything to me... so back in march we were coming home from a party and we ended up telling eachother we loved eachother.. and i believe we do. after almost a year of pretty much being together just not TOGETHER i think most people would be. he pushes my buttons, knows what ticks me off, but still leaves a smile on my face. i just know what its like to be IN love and i'm scared i might be for the first time.. we;ve been hanging out alot more again now and alot of people are thinking we like eachother again. i think we do, and i'm scared cause i don't want to wait for him again.. i just CAN'T do that & i've told him before that i couldn't just wait. most people think we act like a married couple too :) we're cute but i just don't know what to do to not have to wait.. and if i'm in love... HELP!
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Don't wait! Ask him out! NOWWWWW lol
Honestly the stigma that says guys must make the first move is okay if your guy is outgoing but if they're shy or shy with relationships it's just stupid. Some of the best boyfriends are too shy to ask anyone out. Or either that or they're a little clueless, and need someone like you who knows how they feel to help them out. This situation sounds promising. Go for it and you'll be glad you did. Because even if it happens to be he doesn't feel the same way (and there is what, a 0.1% chance of that happening?) it's worse to have to wait and wait and wait until the chance is gone forever and you're bitter about what could have been.
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Ok, well, that's pretty much like how I was until I realized I had waited too long and just moved on. The guy I used to like, I liked him for about a year and I'm pretty sure he liked me back too. We were really close friends. I waited 6 months for him to ask me out. 6. And when he finally did, I finally knew I didn't like him anymore (I had been questioning it beforehand). If you don't want to wait, ASK HIM OUT YOURSELF. That's where my problem was. I didn't have the nerve. Just do it. Yes, I know it sounds really really easy, but it's freakishly hard. I know. Even if it takes a month, do it.
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haha...i totally agree with the previous answers...but to give you some confidence ill tell you a personal story of how easy it is for a girl to ask a guy out. im a guy. i liked this chick for a while. she confused me because she always talked about stories with others guys and stuff so i thought she didnt like me back. for a whole month we talked every day like that. then a couple nights ago she said "im trying to figure you out" and i asked why, and she said "cuz i wanna know when the hell your gonna ask me out" so i did and we are together happily. she knew i liked her but i didnt know she liked me. moral of the story, tell him you cant figure him out, when he asks why, say why the hell wont you ask me out. if he doesnt ask you out still or he says "idk" then you say "fine then I'll ask you out" and if HE says no....thats just sad.
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There was the wonderful movement, not too long ago, that made it socially acceptable for women to ask men out. You are torturing yourself by waiting for him when you are completely capable of making the first move. Go for it.
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