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I'm outgoing and I love to do outdoor stuff. Thanx for asking me questions and I hope u love my answers. I love pigs and cows. They rock all sox!=-)
~*nick name's*~:sammich=chelsea,and ham=amber
~*fav. movies*~a walk to remember=chelsea, slcpunk,donnie darko=amber
~*fav.colors*~green=chelsea,and blue=amber
~*ok since its 2 sn's then we have to do it in this section*~iDONTknow1792=amber yupyep05=chelsea
O and yall look at this poem and no I didn't write this one!:
Anna Joe
The kid no one really knows
Just sat
She was kind of fat
Every day people would critize
About her size
I was the only one who heard her crys
Her endless sighs
I never knew
What she was about to do
It was a misty Monday
I wish she found have found another way
We walked in
Right before she commited her sin
They laughed at her and called her fat
And there I sat
Wanting it to stop
I could have fought
Before I could think
In just one blink
She reached in her shirt
Everyone screamed as shots beamed
Up and down each row
Then it came to me and she said no
I was in shock
Then came a knock
Hurried,
In her head
There everyone sat dead
I burst in tears
Because I had no more peers
I could have stopped this all
I heard voices down the hall
Terrified yells
And there i was
Just because
I did'nt call her fat....
But I just sat
I let her cry,
wanting to die
And it just might be
Because of me
Everyones dead
And poor Anna shot herself in the head
advice
hey im 14years old.and my ex bf now,asked me out sometime in june he promised me that he would never hurt me and would love me forever and all that crap ummm hes 16 well everything was fine for a few months then like 2weeks ago he started calling me less..well my friend called me and said that he was cheating on me with one of my friends i had no idea she knew..i went crazy they were talkin about having sex and here im thinking u know his parents are going through a divorce maybe he just needed time i felt like i didnt something wrong i love him still and i know i shouldnt what do u think about this whole situation reply back i will rate good..thanx
dump his ass he dont deserve u u need to let him go befor he hurts u even more and if he cums crolling bak to u just say no nomatter how much u think u like him trust me its not worth getting hurt that bad again
(i'm a junior girl, the guy in question is a senior) Okay, so i went out with this guy for 3 months a while back, but i dumped him over the summer. I did it for lots of reasons- bc i didnt really like him nemore, it was getting too serious for me(mentally, emotionally, and i was a liitle worried taht it would become too much sexually although i know i could say "no" at any time and he would have totally been ok with it.) anyways, i also kinda did it bc there was this other guy i kinda liked. Afterwards, i totally regreted afterwards. He was so good to me especilly bc i was younger. We were both involved in the same extra-curricular activties. he has currently been flirting with me and recently broken up w. his g/f to try to win me back. idk what to do. i kinda want to go for it but at the same time i dont. hes not conventionally good looking but thats not important to me. he also used have a bad rep so ppl are kinda like what r u doing dating him? but thats why we worked! we were so different taht it worked! i never really trusted him fully tho. i just dont know what to do. we had so much fun.
help me!
Well, give him another chance since you guys had soo much fun together. I think it might work out. But this is totally you!!! Good luck with your decision!!!
~*Chelsea*~
Theres this guy I like and he likes me. I am 13 and he is 15 and hes liked me for a long time and same for me but we both just found out that we liked eachother about 2 months ago. Well he was about to ask me out but thought I'd say no b/c I was 12 then and there was 3 year age diff. He gots a g/f now and he says he still likes me though and he got kinda drunk one night and was all touching me and tried to get me to kiss him but he has a gf so I said no and he kept trying to covince me but I didnt want him to get in trouble by his gf so I refused but now I wish I had kissed him and he was pretty drunk but even when he isnt he still wants me to kiss him but its hard to know if hes joking or not because he has a big sense of humor and i was like are u joking he kept saying no. But how can I tell if hes joking? and would it have been wrong if I kissed him? Sry this is so long and I appriciate you reading this and thx for your advice in advance. As long as you answer i'll rate 5 unles ur answer is ridiculous. Thankz, luv ya!
Well, sorry to say this but u gotta go with your gut feeling. This is your decision.Good luck!
~*Chelsea*~
so is it okay 4 your boyfriend to call you baby but you wanna call him something other than "babe" but not like hunny, hunnybun, or other corney names?! like call him baby too or would that just be weird??
It'd be perfectly normal!
~*Chelsea*~
im going out with this guy since yesterday who i've never talked to. we're in the same health class. tomorrow his friend told me to talk to him. im really nervous because i dont know what to say at all. any ideas? also, how should i make it look like im not as nervous as i really am? thanx!
It just comes like bring up something he likes that you know some about too. That's what i would do. Then be like, whats going on in your life. that'll kick up a convo.
.::Chelsea::.
do you close your eyes when you give your boyfriend a lil' peck on the lips?! or even on the cheek?
Not everytime but sometimes close your eyes, but only for like a second.It makes it more romantic.
.::Chelsea::.
i have this gurl that is in love with me n we broke up a year ago n she is moving back n really loves me but i love some1 else wut shold i do
Tell her what you just told me and explain to her how you just wanna be friends. If she really loves you, she'll understand, trust me, it always happens to me!!lol jk, it only happened like 2 or 3 times.latas!!
.::Chelsea::.
can girls call boys their "baby" like they call us that?? what other names o you call them besides .. 'babe...ect..'
Ya!I alwayz do, it jsut comes out and then they get all happy cuz i say it. It's actually kinda wierd...... anyway,lol,there's:hunny,sugar lips,sugar,dumplin,cutie cakes,sugar pie. thats all thats appropriate,lol,jk i unno ne more.
.::Chelsea::.
Okay so I met this guy online like a couple weeks ago or so. And I really feel like I'm falling for him, I love him so much. Do you think this is crazy or actually possible that I can be in love with him?
Well i'm not real sure,it's never happened to me.Do you actually know this guy though, like from the past?Tell me what happens cuz i'm alwayz here for you!
.::Chelsea::.
What should I do? Me and my best friend let's call him Harry, are no longer friends, because I have a big jealousy issue, I hooked him up with my friend, while liking him. So it bothers me when they are together and I can't stand being around him knowing he's not mine. So I have been mean to him alot, and as a result of that, we no longer friends cause I kinda blew up at him with all my fustration and stuff, cause it was all built up inside... but now I feel bad know that our friendship ended up on bad note, and now I feel like we'll never be friends again. What should I do?
Apologize, thats the best thing u can do at this point. but make sure he knows ur really sorry about and never stop apologizing. if hes a good friend, then he'll forgive u
hope i helped!
.::Chelsea::.
Ok, so I'm a fourteen year old girl and to start off with, I have recently broken up with a boyfriend I had for over a year. I loved him very very much, and still do. He says he still loves me as well, but he moved and I never see him so it's too hard to be anything more than friends. Well recently, I've been hanging out with another guy a lot. He and I are both in marching band, so we see each other a whole lot. Well yesterday, we had a band compeition starting at eleven AM, and the bus got to the school at 1:30AM. Well at the compeition we were hanging out a whole lot, and on the bus ride home he started using me as a pillow again(this isn't anything new) and I subconsciously started playing with his hair. All of a sudden, my hand slipped into his and the next thing I know we're holding hands. See, what I'm wondering is, is it okay to be slowly falling in love with this new guy while I still have feelings for my ex? Is it fair to him? Help.
u can't help falling in love, it just happens.... like to me i like this guy named.... wait sorry back to u. i think there's always something u like more about one guy than the other i had to choose,... and im still together with him. just jot down sum notes of what u like best of both guys and see who has the bigger list. tell me how it works out @ cowsoink on advicenators or piggiessaymoo on aim/aol. i hope i helped in some way or another!!
.::Chelsea::.
im kind of going out with a guy now, but how do i kno when the time is right to kiss him first? Does anybody have any good ideas of when and where is the best time? lol Thanks alot!!
at night in the movies at a romantic movie :-)
My boyfriend told me he didn't love me but he likes me alot. He doesn't know that I love him and he keeps trying to get me to tell him but I wont, I think he's guessed. I just want to cry, I knew he didn't love me but when he told me it just made everything 10 times worse. I really love him, what shall I do?
In these situations, it usually takes time becuase guys that i know dont really like long time commitment. So like i said just give it time, and if it happens, it happens if it dont it dont. I dont mean to sound mean but thats the truth. i hope i helped u in some way or another!!
.::Chelsea::.
okay my best friend is a guy..weve been best friends for only like a year, and he usta like me ALOT..like really alot..so neway, he just gotta gf and theyve been goin out for 4 months. they realli love eachother, etcetc..his gf is my good friend..so neway, she like is CONVINCEd that he still likes me for some reason..but he seriously doesnt. he hasnt liked me in like a year.so theres alwaysss conflict now..like she gets mad at him all tha time if he ever talks to me on tha phone or hangs out with me on weekands..i mean theres nothing to be jealous of, me and him never even HUG or nething that regular guy and girl friends do. ive sat down and talked about this with her like 3 times, like GOOD ass talks..and it would seem like everything was okay, she understood everything, etc..but STILL, theres tension between us..i have no idea y..my friend says that its prolly cause she thinks im prettier than her, smarter, funnier, etcetc, but i dunno wtf to do..this stupid drama that shekeeps bringing up is SO OLD now..its just like give it up we DONT FUCKING LIKE EACHOTHER. plzz help me!!!
Well, if she really does love him then she should beleive him and since shes like ur bestfriend,she should MOST DEFINITLY beleive you. If she still acts wierd say,"look if u dont beleive me than thats ur problem and i know that im telling the truth and so is ________" and set it straight!!!!!
.::Chelsea::. hope i helped:)
hi. i'm a 16/f and when i masterbate, i think of girls. i look at pics of girls. not guys, girls. but i still like guys!! am i..gay?
ok well u like gurls and stuff but u say u like guys to well u have to find out ur deffiniton of like,guys mite turn u on like if u think gurls r hotter and they turn u on i think u or iether gay or bi and u have to figure it out urself u cant just have other ppl make ur desision for u hope i helped=)
~*HAM*~
my boyfriend and i have been datin for 3 weeks and my mom still doesnt kno(she doesnt care i have a boyfriend but doesnt want me to have one ...shes odd).my boyfriend hates hidin things from people and wants me to tell her but im just not ready to tell her yet. i honestly want to but i dont know how to come out and say it
ok well u dont actually have to tellher the compleat truth like u go like this ok u go up to ur mom and say mom is it ok if i have a bf bc i like this guy and he likes me and he asked me out and i told him i had to ask my mom first and he said ok i will wait for ur answer see say sumthin corny like that moms love that stuff and just pretend like its ur first date or sumthin hope this helps
~*HAM*~
my names samantha and im 16 b-days in september baby but any way! my question is? ok me and my boyfriend travis just broke up! i dont know why i broke up with him relly i think its because i was a little jeliouse that he talks to my friend mallory a lot! and then ok im pregnant to buthe already knows that! and when we had this fight he started drinking again and ya he kept saying he was gonna sleep with this other girl and then like a couple of days later he called me and he said he was sry and shit and that nothing ever happen!! but today i found out that he relly did sleep with this girl named jennifer...what do i do i mean i love this guy to death but i mean he never told me that he did this and that he slept with her he LIED to my face. and his friend matt had to tell me bcuz he wanted me to know...BUT WHAT DO I DO? hes the father of my baby and u i dont know wheather to like cut him off form talking to e or if i should get back together with him or what!???? im so confused PLZ i need a lot of answers if u guys can help that would be apreciated a lot thanxs.....samantha
ok i think u should ask him how would he feel if u did sumthin bad like that like get an aborshin or sumthin equally bad u know and dont take him bak u need to kick him to the curb and make him pay child sapport and make him buy the kid pritty shoes i hope i helped
~*HAM*~
OK heres the thing me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost a year, and hes a grade younger than me, so next year ill be in a different school an im wondering if othr people are goin to make fun of me and stuff, i rlly like him but im afraid that it might ruin my reputaion, also im afraid wht will appen if he was to brake up wit me? will my reputaion be ruined forevr? PLEASE HELP ME!! I RATE HIGH!!
Don't worry about your rep, that doesn't matter as long as u like urself, atleast that's what i say. I think you should try and stay together, but if there's no time to then, i think u should go ur seperate ways. I really hope this helped!!Latas!!!!
.::Chelsea::.
okaie...well i had a question on here b4..about this guy named Miguel..and well he called me 2dae..and was really nice!!..he sed he was gonna buy me a Tigger doll..(my fave!)..and its for a birthdae present..bkuz my b-dae was yesterdae..and well wen he called..he had asked me 2 go 2 6Flagz wit him and his sis this weekend...then my sis came home..wit my digital camera..can hes ugly!!..and he is supposed 2 call me back 2marroe..2 c if i can go 2 6flagz or not..ohh yeah!..his is a LIL PERSON..and i am kinda scared of them!!..please help me!!...my sis saes not 2 b mean and rude 2 him and it duznt hurt if i am just friends wit hi..but man! i dono wut 2 do...HELP ME KAIE?!
you need to get over your fear of lil people.lats
Okay Im almost 15....a little over 3 years ago i met this guy...we went out fer a few months but then i had heard that while i was on vaca he had cheated on me with this other girl....i dumped him...he denied it all...then we went out again...and we went out for about a month...then i had dumped him because tha school year was about over and i had also found out that he was playing me with one of my freinds. Then tha next school year i didnt talk to him at all. He only stayed at my school for about 3 weeks n then moved. I was sooooo happy!! but i was bff's with his cousin and she had persued me to write him a lil note tha day he left. Then about 2 weeks after he left he called me..we talked for a few hours...but then i had gotten mad at him bc i think he was being a jerk to me online. Then tha summer before...8th grade i started talking to him and we became REALLY close. we went out but only for a week or two bc we were going out behind my parents backs bc i didnt want them to know i was seeing him again bc they didnt like him bc of what had happened b4...well later i told my mom everything and how he had "changed" and we went out for about a month or so...but then we broke up bc things just werent going good...our timing has always been wrong..but now...this summer my summer b4 ninth grade we have gotten really close. We talk all tha time online n on tha phone...we flirt n yeah. Its soo nice bc today he told me that he missed me n that he really wanted to be with me. He said he really wanted to work things out n us to be together. I'm suppose to go to his house tomarrow but im not sure if he really wants to be with me n has changed this time or if he just wants me for sex. The problem is we r both going to tha same highschool. So chances are i will see him around. And i am TOTALY crazy for him. What should I do??Plzzzz help im soo into him but im not sure if hes real!!! Thanx lots of luv*
I think you should see him but don't do anything you'll regret. Just remember to have fun, that's the most important thing to remember! Latas!
.::Chelsea::.