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Theres this girl. We were dating for a year( i know thats preety sad) Now i want to break up with her. How do i brake up with someone without hurting their feelings?

if u break up w/ som1 ull be hurtn their feelings...especially if u dated ehr for a year/

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My ex-boyfriend cheated on me, twice. When we broke up, I had no idea he had done this and when we got into a huge fight he told me. I feel so hurt, worthless and betrayed. He was the only boy I ever truly loved and he had told me he felt the same. We've been talking now, and he says he still loves me and wants me back. His sorry's aren't taking away the heartache but I still love him more than anything. I don't know if I can trust him yet and he's cheated on other girfriends. Do you think he could really mean it this time? I can never seem to move on from him and he regrets cheating completely. What am I supposed to do or say?

say no...if u cheat once, ull do it again...so avoid the heartbreak again and tell him no

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I am 14/f
i like this guy but i am afriad to talk to him becuase i dont think he will like me back. I also think he still likes his ex-girlfriend. Do you think i should talk to him and if so, how do i talk to him?

yeah, wats the worst that can happen if u talk to him? nothing

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Please, do the people on here a favor and type correctly, instead of wrtin lyk dis cuz ppl lyk muh cnt red dat. No offence, but save the lingo for Instant Message.

Thanks loves

thank god som1 says somthing.

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ok theres this guy that's really cute and i'm cool with him but sometimes he just looks at me really hard and smiles and i smile back at him when he does that. Do you think he likes me.

flirting maybe so.

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Just out of curiosity, what does "hooking up" mean to you? It seems to mean something different for everybody...

to me...it means goin out...but to people who have been dating for a while, bangin

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I'm 16 and my boyfriend is 17. We've been together for 16 months and i truly believe that we are madly in love. I somewhat believe he is the one for me. He's a senior and will be graduating this year, I'm only a junior. I'm really scared of whats going to happen when he graduates. I've seen movies and shows where the couple breaks up because the one goes to college and never sees each other or whatever the deal is. He's not sure where he is going yet but i really hope it all works out. he mentioned something before like "if we're still going out next summer before i go away to college, i'll propose." It's scary how i feel like i could run away and get married with him right now. what do u think about this situation?

lots of couples go through this...if he goes to college far away, then yall wont get to c each other much...but if he goes close to home, then everything can work out.

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ok me and my EX boyfriend havent seen eachother since june 25...right thats along time!! well last night he saw a pic. of me and his cousin that we took like 2days ago at the mall and he was like "so who u goin out wit" i said "no one" and he said he wasent wit no one either!! then he was like "so when ya gunna giv me my pic?" and i was like o ya saw it and he said "yea u look fuckin fine in the picture!!" and he said he still loves me...sooo should i get back with him cz i still love him and umm... im gunna see him on saturday!!..help!!

no, i think that if it takes a pic of u for him to realize he misses u, then he just wants some action.

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There is this guy in my class and everyday he like stares at me for the whole period...but when i look over at him he looks right away...what do u think that means!thankx
alexa

hes checkin u out...mayb ehe likes u

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I went out with a guy for about 9 months last year and it was the BEST thing that ever happened he was unbelievable, and I can't even tell you why we broke up because I don't even know why, I was being stupid thinking I didn't like him when I did. I have a problem of deciding to start a relationship because I always am afraid I will meet someone else during one and I don't want to hurt my boyfriend, but it never happens..i dunno i am just paranoid? It's been abouttt..6 months since we broke up, do you think it's okay to get back together?

it would be if he wants to get back.

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I havent had a boyfriend in about a year and a half. My friends and family are always telling me i need to get out there and meet someone. The trouble is i dont really know where it is im supposed to go to meet theses said "guys".
Anyone have any suggestions on where to meet a nice guy?
Thanks :)

school, net

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Hi well see I met this guy from Paris, France, well he is sweet and everything , but my boyfriend dosnt like him , he said if I talked to him that he would break up with me , what do I do?Plz
help

ur bf shouldnt get jealous of a guy that lives in a different country...but u also shouldnt be talkn to him if u have a bf...

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i liek this guy a lot...and hes in like i dont think u shud call it "relationship" cuz him n this girl arnt going out but there going to homecoming together....wellll shes kinda my friend like were not the best but were good friends ya know? n e way shes kinda *slutty* like she let him finger her and told him she wud give him head on homecoming but he tells me n my friend how much he likes me and how bad he wants to get rid of the other girl and hes leaving me here hanging and idk wat to do...shud i wait for him cuz i really like him...or move on? HLEP PLZ! SORRY ITS LONG!

wait for him...unless he gets head from that gurl

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ok me n my x broke up i still like him and he acts like he still likes me. the prob is..he has a reputation of cheating on ppl before n hes sorta a player. anyway, hes wicked nice n we r friends but he invited me to go to the mall tommorow n idk if i shud go cuz ik wed just do stuff like other times and i wudnt wanna go just to giv him stuff..its not worth it. but i like him too..ikd help

dont go...if he has a reputation of cheating, hes prolly cheating on u too...

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Ok i made a big mistake by saying i didn't want to kiss my boyfriend just yet (he wants to) but i've just realised today that i really do! We went shopping after school today and i kept trying to get us into a situation where he could kiss me but he didn't take the hint! How should i let him know subtly that i want to?!

just kiss him...

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Ok there's this kid named Chris and he's pretty much all my classes. Sometimes I'll just glance over at him and hes like looking at me or staring at me. The thing is I never really talk to him or anything. I just wanted to know if he likes me? I don't think so but you can never tell! Thanks! I rate!

he might think ur pretty or somn like that...hes checkin u our ha.

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ok this may sound weird but oh well...My boyfriend used to kiss me alllll the time and like show that he cares for me. But now, it seems like he dosn't even care even though he says he dose. It seems like he cares about his friends more then me. I don't know what is going on but i need help. What should I do/ say to him?

its possible that he just has something on his mind...try talkn to him about it...ask him wats wrong and stuff like that.

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ok me and my boyfriend broke up and we still say "i love you" but then one day he got really mad at say he never wanted to talk to me again..but then he called me 3 dayz later and was talkin to me (that night he called and said sorry about sayin that!) then the last couple of nights he wouldnt hang up til we said "i love you" like he would just say "bye" til i said it then last night i said bye and he goes "bye shut up you know what to say" ...but then he used to tell me about missin out on some other girl...so whats his deal ..can someone tell me or explain his game to me!!...SORRY SOOO LONG!!

gurl u need to get rid of him...he just wants to be loved, and he doesnt care who it is that loves him...dont say it if u dont mean it...get rid of him.

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Okay Where do i start theres this guy(Johnta) who i have been goin off and on with for the past two years.. and recently i broke up with him because i started liking this guy(Steve) i met at the beginning of school, i mean yea me and Johnta went to the same school but he never walked me to class and whenever i did see him all he did was give me a handshake like he was ashamed of me or something, and people came up to me and was like "Johnta said yall dont go out" and we did.. so i decided that maybe i should get to know steve better and i did and he treats me with respect, he walks me to class, carries my bookbag, and just makes me smile whenever i am around him, But now Johnta and Steve dont like each other because of me the other day they were about to fight in school and they didnt but they were in each others face and the only thing that came out of johntas mouth was " Fuck You! You Fucked With My Heart!" and i felt really bad.. but steve really likes me and i can tell he acts like it but when me and johnta were goin out johnta acted like we didnt.. i just dont understand why ALL OF A SUDDEN johnta acts likes he cares.. I Cant break up with steve i've gotten to know him and I REALLY like him ALOT.. all my friends tell me to break up with steve but they just dont understand how i feel.. what should i do?

dont break up with him...get rid of johnta

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Hey I'm 14/m and i still haven't ever kissed a girl outside my family.... I feel kinda out of place here because I'm already in high school and ive never kissed.... is there something wrong with me?

no i was a senior b4 that ever happend to me...itll come sooner or l8r, nothing is wrong w/ u trust me

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