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I went out with a guy for about 9 months last year and it was the BEST thing that ever happened he was unbelievable, and I can't even tell you why we broke up because I don't even know why, I was being stupid thinking I didn't like him when I did. I have a problem of deciding to start a relationship because I always am afraid I will meet someone else during one and I don't want to hurt my boyfriend, but it never happens..i dunno i am just paranoid? It's been abouttt..6 months since we broke up, do you think it's okay to get back together?
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it would be if he wants to get back.
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If he still likes you then yes. Don't be paranoid. It soujnds like you are afraid of commitment. If you like him, take a chance and ask him out. What could it hurt?
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Yah its fine to get back together. IF yall both still like eachother then why not! just dont worry about all that other stuff and enjoy being with him! Yall obviously have alot of feelings for eachother or you wouldnt have gone out for 9 months and then 6 months later still have feelings. So i think you should go for it!
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9 months thats a long time sounds like u both liked each other alot and u were being paranoid so wut it happens to alot of people i do think its ok to get back together because if u liked each other that much than u must be right for each other first start out by apologizing for acting the way u did and ask for another chance
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Well first of all you should never let your fears keep you from your desires and your happiness. You are only given one life and you need to make the most of it. It's okay to be scared sometimes and cautious, but don't let that keep you from having a healthy relationship. It sounds like to me you are not completely ready to have a totally comitted relatiionship with someone. And, that's okay. Do things at your own pace and within your comfort zone. I think a good thing for you to do at this point in time would be to just date different guys and just hang out with tons of friends like in groups or just hang out with your guy friends. This way you can slowly but surely become more comfortable with dating and being with people but you don't have to worry about someone else being an option and not being able to get a chance with them. When you finally find the right guy for you, you won't worry or wonder about other guys; he';; satisfy you in all aspects. If you and your ex were to get back together I would suggest to just openly date him, explain to him how you feel and htat you care but aren't sure you can't handle a full blow serious relationship. Just give yourself the alloted time needed and most importantly, HAVE FUN! :)
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Ok for starters:
gurl listen to your heart!!
he sounds wonderful! a whole 9 months is definitly worth another try!
Just tell him one day u need to talk tell him wats going on and how you feel!
hope it all works out
judith (the lil' helper)
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yea. i think it is. and your being a tad bit paranoid, but your realizing that there are otehr people in the world, which is good. some girls get stupid and think that they're going to marry their boyfriends from like 7th grade.
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