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hey, ok.... ive been feeling sad lately b/c my bf dumped me. we went out for about 3 weeks and then someone told him i was breaking up w/ him. that wasnt the first time it happened. we continued to have these problems until one day he told me he wants to be single anyway for the first marking period. i didnt know what to say so i just acted like it was ok with me but its really not. were still acting like friends but sometimes i get some clues toward thinking that hes with someone else now. hes asked my friends many times why i broke up w/ him. he didnt want to be with me then b/c he thought i couldnt decide whether i wanted him or not. i think hes moved on but sometimes thinks about me again. i wish he would really want me back. this guy is really important to me alot. ive only had like two bfs b4 him and this one means alot. i feel like ive lost something i didnt deserve to lose. every day i wonder if he will go out with me again in the second marking period like he promised. if he doesnt i dont know wht i will do. please if u have any advice let me know so i wont feel as depressed. thanx so much! ~tepy - 13 -female~ (link)
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dont feel depressed, i know that this is a difficult situation but either you can wait or move on. if he says he'll wait untill the 2nd marking period then wait till the 3rd if he still doesnt mention anything then maybe its time to move on. Guys can be confusing but they all are. need any more help feel free to IM me. xoxo
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Hi uhh see i really like this kid and like i met him at this party i went to and he was friends with my really good friends and i like was with him the whole time but im not going to see him until the next party that happens and my friend said he has a girlfriend but then why was he flirting with meee.. i cud so tell.. w/e what shud i do next time i see him? act normal or be different so that he'll like me more (link)
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What i would do is, i'd act the way i did last time. But ask about his life and things. like say to him DO you have a girl friend? or anything like that. if he says no then flirt all you want. but if he says yes then just be his friend. Good Luck with this. xOxO.
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I met a great guy. He is so sweet and made me smile everytime he said something...but there is always a catch isn't there!! A few days later he told me he liked this girl as if he had NO CLUE I liked him..sooo..what's the deal here? Should I just lay off and not talk to him now that he is with this girl? (link)
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Don't give up on him!!! I like this guy and he knows it, he likes my friend. but i STILL haven't gotten over him. there's always hope! if ya want any more advice feel free to ask. Good luck!
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well this boy i like moved to somewhere an hour away and no one knows i like him. he liked me last year but i dont kno if he still does. i dont kno what to do. should i call him? i tried to find out his sn but so far no one knows if he has one.
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call him if he still does like you maybe he'll ask you out. :) hope i helped
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ok..i asked u a ? bout my friend hoo liked me..well first he said no cuz we didnt go to the same school..then he came online the next day and said he thought we should go out..so i told him that the day b4 how mad i was at him..but then he askd me out and i said yes(lol)..this is mah first bf thats like a real one..and i think i may like a guy frum my skool..but i still like my friend..and im not gunna hurt him like that....help! (link)
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Liking someone that isnt at your school can be tuff but umm mayb you should just try to be friends for a little while and if you guys are really want to go out then go out! I hope i helped if u want more advice then tell me and ill try to help more. i hope it turns out good!
~Jess~
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My ex boyfriend whom I haven't talked to in a month just called me the other day. We went out for 6 months and he is 19 and im 17. Then for the last 3 or 4 months we talked like a couple times a month until last month when we didnt talk at all and during those 3 months i would always cry because i missed him so much and couldnt talk to him or anything. Then he called me a couple days ago and apologized for everything, told me he loved me and missed me and how much of a jerk he was and asked if i would give him anotehr chance. i really want him back but I dont know what to do i love him so much but I dont want to get hurt again but he is like the only person who truly makes me happy and makes me smile...I need advice quick! :( (link)
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Everyone makes mistakes so what?? Give him another chance if he does again dont forgive him. easy as that. hope i helped! If you have any other questions feel free to ask or IM me on JustASweetKiss76
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I know this is going to be long, so sorry. But I will rate you high even if you answer!!
Well, I have a feeling that I could be a lesbian. And it's really difficult and I know that I'm going to have to wait and see if I actually am. The thing is I feel so much more comfortable around girls, and I actually have my eye on this one girl from my school. But the thought of getting married to a girl and not a guy makes me feel sick. And I just get this feeling when I'm around guys like Wow i'm so embarassed/nervous, But then I get this feeling like ohh YAY i'm so glad im here when I'm with girls. It's just everytime I like a guy, I only like him for like a week. Is there a chance I could be lesbian, or do you think it's just a phase? Please help!!
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It could mean your turning into a lesbian but also it may not. I feel nervous around guys and thats just becuz im shy around them but i still like 'em (not all of them though!! hah) give it time and dont be afraid of it if you are theres nothing wrong with being gay. hope i helped ya.any other questions feel free to ask, or IM me at JustASweetKiss76
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me and my ex boyfriend were one of those couples where we were exact opposites. he was kind of "Wigger-ish" and i was moare "Skater". he would even call me a skater .. and then he'd say how much he hates them. it always affended me so he would add "Except for you" but it didnt make much of a difference. when he found out my favorite color was orange, he got all weird like "Holy fuck, you're only supposed to like black". who the hell tells their girlfriend, let alone anyone .. what colors they can like? it really pissed me off, and we broke up later that night for other reasons, and he just moved here over the summer (thats how i met him). now hes going to my school where no one knows him, and he's going to be in most of my classes. i really liked him even though we were different. and im shy around guys so i probably wont talk to him. what should i do if i want to be with him again, but keep him from treating me like shit? (link)
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ask to get baq together only on one condition, if he doesnt treat u like shyt. ask me questions or IM me on JustASweetKiss76
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ok.....ive liked this boy for awile now and i think he was starting to like me but im not sure and now this really hot new boy came to our school and im really starting to like him ALOT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! but i have told my friends that ive liked this other boy for awile now and now ive told them that i really like this new kid and to make matters worse this girl that i told her i like him now"all of usudden" she loves him now and she wants to go out with him?????
wat do i do?
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get to yur guy first! this is like a race. any questions ask me or IM me on JustASweetKiss76
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ok well im 14 and a girl and ive been goin out w/ this boy for awhile now and i love him more than anything and hes so awesome and nice to me and cracks me up all the time!!!! but he has this friend logan that keeps talkin to me and like every1 knows he likes me and i like him but just as a friend!! just as a friend!!! hes so freakin halarious and is funny but sometimes he talks to me infront of my bf and i think my bf is startin to think i like logan more than him but i dont and i cant be mean and tell logan hey stop hangin out w/ me u kno!!! i mean i dont wanna make my boifriend mad at me cuz i like him more than any1 ever and then i also cant be mean to my friend logan wat the hell do i do im so confused this sucks!!!! plz help plz help!!! (link)
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just tell your bf, were only frends and thats all were going to be. and thngs like that. but also assure ur friend that u have a bf but say it nicely so he doesnt get mad. IM me at JustASweetKiss76 id u have any other questions.
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I met this guy, this AWESOME guy... I used to be one of those, daring girls, i would have turned really slutty and a rebel..huge if i didn't find this guy, this guy is a strong christian, he turned me around and got me help through God, he took me to church and everything and showed me how strong God is and how much I need him. He didn't like me after awhile. And that was my first love. im 14, who can feel love at this age, i know sounds stupid as ever. But this guy, had the greatest impact on my life, we're best friends, and he does this to every girl, just leaves everyone for a new one. Hes really good looking, and a really good kid. It's just, he was everything that I wanted. I've told him I loved him, he doesn't understand. I'd die for that kid.. Well, I almost did once, actually. He means everything to me. But recently we got into a fight that lasted for a month, that was the worst time in my life, it was the loneliest, coldest month of summer in my life. He forgave me, and we're okay now, but we're not as close. I want to be close, I told him I miss him.. But.. I'm still heartbroken and I still love him and I want to be here for him, even if it is just his best friend. But we aren't that close anymore, and I want to be that "best girl" in his life, the one who was there to wipe his tears and to hold him close when all was wrong. PLease help me..Just tell me what's going on... Please...
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(ok everyone else must not of read this through becuz EVERYONE!! she tried telling him how she feels!)
What you need to do is, just tell him what you wrote here. tell him everything. and maybe he'll change and want u to be his gurl. hope i helped. ask me something, its wut im here for lol. or IM me on JustASweetKiss76
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Hey guys! Well I'm new to my high school and there's this guy I think is sooooooo hot! We had never talked before and I didn't have any classes w/ him but he was friends w/ my newest best friend! He walked up and was talking to her but he smiled at me a lot! Then he was like "ur (my name) right?" And I was like "Yeah how did u know?" He said "o i went into a class after u and I saw ur name on a sheet u had signed!" and he was like grinning all big and stuff! Well then a few days later my best friend came up to me and was like "Omg omg omg! I told (Him) that u thought he was kinda cute and he said u were really really pretty!!!" And I wrote him a letter and gave him my number and everything. And she gave it to him and said he smilde really big when she said it was from me! Do u think that was okay? And do u think he likes me?
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im not a guy, but i think that he has feelings for you. ask him out or something, i think u have a pretty good chance cuz he smiled at u when hr got ur phone #. IM me on JustASweetkiss76
or ask me a question on this
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ok me and my boyfreind have been going out for over 2 months now and we are truely in lovewe both think. and he promised he would marry me.. but then he was just on vacation like 1 week ago and when he got back i told him that i would nevr break up with him no matr what and then he tells me when he was on vacation some girl started puttin her hands down his pants and gave him a handjob.. and then he asked her out when she was done with the handjob and he sayd ok (not saying yes or no)..and then later they were on the couch and she was all over him and hes like what are you doing and shes like ur my boyfriend and hes like no im fucking not and then she called him when he got back but he just hungup on him... I SO NEED HELP! really really i do !!! i rate really really high!! ~thanks~ (link)
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I wouldnt get upset over that, if he backed away from her i think thats a good sign. although he did go out w/ her in the first place. My suggestion is that you talk to him( if what happened bothers u) and say i dont want you doing that and someting like that. but he didnt cheat on u.ask questions or IM me on AOL, JustASweetkiss76
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I've been in love with my best guy friend for years. We tried going out when we first met but he didn't have strong feelings for me, so he dumped me and later on we became really tight. I'm still deeply in love with him and he has a GF who I'm close with too. No one knows how I feel and I know for sure he does not feel the same way. How do I get this wonderful, funny, perfect guy out of my head? What should I do? (link)
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You could maybe hint that u like him or just be his friend
any questions, ask me or IM me on AOL, JustASweetkiss76
~Jess~
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my boyfriend after 4 years of dating...that the whole thing was a bet to see how long he could play me!!! wtf is up with that?!?!?! (link)
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he is an a$$ hole.
any questions ask me or (aol)IM me on,
JustASweetkiss76
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why did i just get really grossed out when my boyfriend told me he had to go take a shit? i mean i love him and we've been together for 15 months, shouldnt i already be over the "omg eww he goes poop" stage? lol (link)
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cuz its disgusting!
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yesterday i told *him* i liked him. after i was finished talking, *he* said "cool." then nothing happened, and i had to go to the bus. ok, yeah, so my question to you is...how, on monday, can i bring this up again with him without sounding awkward/pathetic/desperate. he's my friend, i have lunch with him, and he rides my bus, if that helps. (link)
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you could say something like," so what was your reaction when I told you that i liked you?"
or "so... what do ya think??" (if ur already on the subject.
or maybe, "im sorry if i put you in an awkward position the other day its just that i thought you should of known that." i hope it works out good! rate me please and thank yous!
xoxo, ~jess~
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ive been with this guy for 8 months and just last month i got a fone call saying that he was cheating on me. when i tol him about this he just said oh babe dont listen to her she just hating. befor all this shit happend he would call me like 9 times a day and now after all this drama he only calls me every 4 days but sometimes if im lucky he'll call me for 2 days straight and then he will stop and go back to the 4 day thing...i love this guy alot but im so confused i just dont know what to do...i need help...PLEASE!!! (link)
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try to catch him in the act. talk to ur friend and ask him/her when/where it happened and investigate. hope i helped you and good luck
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ok this is the same person who wrote the question about how i dont know how to tell my mom i have a boyfriend.....well she caught us together.(we werent doin nething but we sat close)...well i went for a walk and he met up wit me so we made out then sat next to each otha watchin the sun set...when my mom pulls up and asked me if i was ok and asked who was that kid sittin next to me....i told her he'd fallen off his bike and was hurt so i just sat and talked to him......she gave him a ride home but still didnt think of me likin him........now i definatly cant tell her bc now shes gonna think i go for walks everyday just to see him....now how do i tell her that i have a boyfriend?
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Go for a walk and meet him, get him sn and phone# then after a while tell your mom
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If a guy that you like gets mad at you.. even for something stupid.. this happened to me during the school year.. and he was playin mad and stuff.. what do u do? cause like i always got close with a guy and we'd joke around or whatever and then he'd like get mad.. but not seriously mad just this like 'im not tlaking to u u said this " or whatever.. what do u do? (link)
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Let him be mad at you for a little bit. Then after a while try talking to him and say ur sorry, tell him you only meant whatever it was as a joke. hope i helped!
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