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Me and my boyfriend of almost 3 months had sex on monday, for the first time. I love him so much :) , but then someone told me that if you have sex that soon, then you get bored of each other and you stop talking and just have sex. Is this true? I want to be with him for a long time.
Tell me what you think, thanks. (link)
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not if you have a good relationship. my boyfriend and i had sex with eachother for the first time 4 months in, and our year and a half is on wednesday. you just can't let the sex be the defining factor in your relationship
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Okay, so my brother has a friend who has a friend named Bobby. My name is Ashley. One day I needed money for lunch, so I went up to Bobby and said, "Can I borrow some lunch money." He said yes and just told me to give him back the change. Good. End of day. The next day I try to hand him the four dollars that I owe him and he won't take it, so I shove it into his locker. The next day I find the money back in my locker. The next few days go something like that. I start to like him, and he starts to like me. I told him to go to the football game that I cheer at and he did. The next day I give him a ballon with the four dollars in it. He greatly takes it and I thought that was it. Next day he comes to school with a cute present bag all girlied-up with the four dollars in it. Then I make brownies and put the money with them. Today he comes to school with a cake. He still hasn't made a "move."
Do you think he likes me? & What should I do to the money next? (link)
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Get a chocolate bar and put the money under the wrapper. If you want to be a little more romantic, put the money in between the petals of a rose :]
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i just got a haircut and its really short. Its like an inch under my ears but i still think its really short. I have heard that guys dont like girls with short hair and im going back to school soon so i dont want to look like a boy. Is it true that guys dont think girls with short hair are hot? Thank you :) (link)
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Not at all! Look how many guys are obsessed with Hallie Berry, and her hair is almost non-existent!
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so i've been going out with my boyfriend for 11 months today. anyways our town has a festival every year in august. it started yesterday. well he had to work yesterday till 11:30 at night so we didn't get to go to the festival together so i went with my friends. while i was hanging out with my friends my ex-boyfriend was there also. him and i are friends but my boyfriend doesn't like him. anyways him and i were talking when we looked around and saw that my friends had left. so we went looking for them just us two. well my cousin is best friends with my boyfriend and he saw my ex and i walking alone together and told my boyfriend. so now he's mad at me and i tried explaining to him that we were looking for my friends and he offered to help. so now my boyfriend is all pissed and everything.
what i want to know is it okay for him to be mad when my ex was just helping me find my friends?
sorry so long. thanks for the advice. (link)
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Okay.. everyone else that answered this question kinda took it to the extreme, especially the first one.
Your boyfriend is jealous. It happens, and in this case I think he has a reason to be. You were alone with your ex, and it makes him nervous. It would make me nervous. I would wonder why you were paying so much attention to your ex that you didn't notice your friends left. I just think you need to reassure him that he's the only guy in your life that really matters. Make a night for him, like invite him over and make him dinner and cuddle up for a movie. That night apologize for making him uncomfortable, and tell him that you'll understand why he would be and wont put him in that position again. Ask him what you could do to make it up to him/make him more comfortable in the future. Good luck!!
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ive been going out with kid for only a week and a day. when he asked me out, it was really random and stuff(i didnt really like him) but as the week went on, we talked on the phone and in the halls and my best friend and her boyfriend said us 4 should hang out at her byfriends house. so i was really excited the whole day. so we got there and said hi and kissed and then the 4 of us made it to the couch. he kinda had his hand over my boob and suff but not like a prev grab kinda way, like i didnt mind it. so i felt weird making out in front of my best friend and her bf( they have been going out for a year and obvii are experienced a lot and stuff) so i kinda just laied in his arms and i knew he wanted to make out. well my friend and her bf left around the corner to do something and we made out really quick and he was soooo bad (it felt like in the movie blades of glory) but you know i still went along with ituntil they came back. well 2 other times the same thing happened and by the end of the night i just wanted to leave like i was totally turned off or whatever, and it was really akward when im with him or on the phone. this kid is really nice and sweet though and my friend really thinks were a goood match and the awkwardness will ware off but i dont know, like i even asked her not to have him hang out with us again tonight! just cause i dont want to make out with him again ( i mean i was expecting to be in the moment and butterflies in my stomach) so now i dont know what to do ( i dont wanna break up with him beore christmas cause i would feel bad and stuff) (link)
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The first time I made out with my current boyfriend it was absolutely TERRIBLE. like, "wow, please don't eat my face," but after a while of kinda avoiding it, I took charge of a make-out session, and ever since then, we've been aaamazing, and have been going out for 7 months. My advice is that before you break up with him or anything like that, be a little assertive, and lead a make out session. It'll give him a change to see how YOU like it, and then he'll be able to learn. If it still isn't good, break up with him because no matter how compatible you guys are personality wise, if you're not compatible sexually it probably won't work out very well.
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There are a few things making me super nervous about meeting my crush this summer (at camp) and I need y'all to tell me if I'm screwed or if there's hope for me.
Alright, first thing.. kissing. I read somewhere that the first kiss means everything, if the first kiss isn't great most people will not prusue a relationship with that person. Will that's just great! Does that mean that even if I make myself super pretty, super funny, super smart - but I'm a bad kisser - I'm doomed? That's it! Everything I've worked for.. gone. The guy Ive dreamed about for 4 years now.. will not be mine, just cause I can't kiss? That blows!
I decided to write my second question in a different "question" because it belongs to a different category I think, but it will be under the label "voice = attraction" if you want to take a shot at it! Thank you! (link)
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When my current boyfriend and i started going out, our first kiss was absolutely HORRIBLE... like.. "wow, please dont' eat my faceeeeee." just plain BAD, but now, we've been dating quite a while and have an amazing relationship (kissing and all). I'm sure you won't mess up as badly as he did if you do, and i'm sure your crush will be fine with it, just as i was with him.
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15/f So my boyfriend just broke up with me on friday. He said the reason we needed to break up is because he needs to get his priorities straight. We live kinda far away but my neighbor is his cousin so we see eachother every weekend, and i just figured with summer coming up we could see eachother everyday like last summer. But his mom is making him get a job so he'll like never be over here..and thats another reason he broke up with me. So after that he basically said all he needs is some time and space. But its easier said then done..do you think i should just give him his space and basically give up until he is ready to go back out orrr keep trying? (link)
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give him space, but make your presence known. talk to him like a normal friend would. if he's ready and still interested, he'll let you know.
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I'm going out with a guy who pretty much used to be one of my best friends. Whenever he used to say something that'd crack me up, sometimes I'd say "ha, I love you, you're too funny." Well, that was when we were just friends.
We've only been going out a couple of days, but he's already telling me he actually loves me. I know I don't love him back just yet, so I don't want to lie to him. And I've tried to explain that to him, and he said he'll say it anyways. I just always makes me feel awkward when he does, so what should I say back? (link)
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Though you don't love him yet, I'm sure their are little facets of his personality that you love individually. So, when he says, "I love you" try saying something along the lines of, "You're adorable" or "You always know just the way to make me smile." It lets you show him that you do care without putting pressure on you to say "I love you" back to him.
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ok well basically theres this guy im totalli into and he liked me to but he never told me so i got w/his bestfriend but me n his bestfriend never dated but we were tlaking and then we stoped and one night we went to this cabin and we told eachother we like eachother and we kissed and he kept saying (his bestfriend) can never find out and blah then the next week until tuesday he ignored me.. then tuesday came and there was no school wednesday and it was my frinds bday party and we kissed again and now hes ignoring me again but i rele like him and people think its because hes afraid of his bestfriend finding out and i know he is.. but he totally ignores me but he tells me he likes me and blah and he tells his friend who he talks to abt it that he likes me but he shows no emotion .. but i realli like him and i dont know wut 2 do.. do you think he rele likes me and is jus scared of his bestfriend finding out or do you think hes using me'? HELP (link)
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Honestly, I don't really think he likes you if he won't admit it to his friend. Maybe talk to his(the guy u like's) best friend, and ask him, "Hey, i really like your best friend *name*...do u think it would be ok with you if asked him to a movie or something." That way you do not bring the guy you like into it. Maybe telling the guy you like his answer will allow him to be more open, and you guys can move on from there.
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Sorry this may be a bit long but I need the help. 13/f
One of my guy friends told my best friend that he liked me. She told me and he found out and was making a big deal out of me knowing. I told him it wasn't a big deal because I like him too. He kept asking me why I didn't tell him and everything. I just said 'I dunno.' I haven't really got to talk to him since all of this. I was on vacation and just got back and he hasn't been online when I have been. He was acting a little different but now that it's been almost a week since we've both admitted to liking each other, What do you think I should do when I talk to him?(online) Like flirt? Act like I normally would? Or do you think since he's had time time to think he'll ask me out? Or he won't like me anymore? Or if I should just wait and see what happens? Or AHHH I dunno?!? Someone help please!!
I'll rate for good answers. (link)
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Just act like you normally would. He likes you for that, right? Plus, if you just act like you, your able to follow his lead on anything "extra" so you wont scar him away.
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I really like my new boyfriend alot. He's my first & we have a great time together. However, I'm deathly afraid of a broken heart. I know I should live a little & not be afraid but I can't help it. Now I have the urge to break things off with him before he breaks up with me. What should I do? Can anyone who's experienced lend a helping hand?
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I had my first boyfriend 2 months ago. We really loved eachother too, and he broke things off. Dont get me wrong, it HURT a lot, but u know what shakespear said "It is better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all." And the awesome thing is that its true. I wouldnt give up one of the amazign memories i had with him just to stop that pain. Plus, if you brake up with him now you'll probably spend the rest of your life thinking about how things would have gone if u didnt break things off. So yea, it hurts...but the hurt is WAY worth.
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my boyfriend is the type of guy to cheat on his girlfriend. so me and him both have myspace accounts.. we both know the passwords to eachothers and everything. today, i was curious to see who he's been talking to because i don't really trust him. i saw him saying stuff to a couple girls and i'm really pissed. i don't know what to say to him, because i know if he found out i went on his account, he'll be mad at me. so what do i do? i can't just keep this in, and i know that i shouldn't of went on his name but i want to know if he's doing stuff behind my back.. help! (link)
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Just talk to him about it. You do not have to say hat you went on his account, but say something along the lines of "Look, i think we have to talk. A relationship takes a lot of trust, and right now i'm not trusting you very much. Can you just tell me whether you'd ever cheat on me or anything?" or something. If you dont find a way to trust your boyfriend soon, you'll always be worrying about that kind of stuff though, so if you dont trust him soon i think you may want to break it off with him and find someone better that you can trust and will treat you right.
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Well, I went out with this guy at the beginning of the school year, and things were pretty good, then we "went on a break," in which we've both dated other people. Now we're both single again, and we're talking again and everything. He's still getting over his last relationship, but I may be thinking perhaps we should get off of our break. Should I jump on the oppurtunity? And if so, how? If not what should I do?
Signed,
Second Thoughts (link)
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well i dont think you should JUMP at it...remember guys dont like a girl thats too forward...but you can give it a try. BUT if he's still getting over his other girlfriend i think you shoudl wait a while. Who wants to b some guys rebound girl? l o l ya i know, pretty corney, but im new at this!! l o l
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Ive been friends with this guy for a long time. He goes to my church and my school. We're really fond of eachother. Well..i think he likes me..but i dont think he wants to say nething. Like we talk alot at church and on aol..and at our school dance.he asked me to dance. Well my friends dont like the idea of liking him. They ask me all the time if i do..and i always say no so theyll stop bothering me. I think theyre jealous because hes a really cool and nice guy. But i think something will happen between me n this guy. What do i do about my friends.. i think theyll get mad? I feel bad..because it hink one of them likes him. Also how do i find out if this guy likes me? (link)
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Tell your friends the truth, especially if your other friend likes him, cuz then you hav 1st dibs!! l o l but anyway, then you can go and hang with him without feeling guilty or having it hang over your shoulders. Plus, if they r really your friends, they like you for you..not who u have a crush on!
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ok im always nervouse and shy around my boyfriend im just not comfortable around him yet and hes shy all togehter so how do we break the ice to were it can just be fun and relaxed to hang around him. (link)
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My boyfriend and I used to be the exact same way when we first got together, even though we had been bffs b4 then cuz he's a REALLY shy guy. The way we pretty much broke the ice was when I just came out of of the "o no he's my boyfriend and i dont wanna mess anything up" shell, and just did something wacky with him. Just try to be yourself around him...joke around, and tease him a bit. Hopefully that will make him feel more compfortable. Hope that helps!!!
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