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So I'm screwed, huh?
There are a few things making me super nervous about meeting my crush this summer (at camp) and I need y'all to tell me if I'm screwed or if there's hope for me.
Alright, first thing.. kissing. I read somewhere that the first kiss means everything, if the first kiss isn't great most people will not prusue a relationship with that person. Will that's just great! Does that mean that even if I make myself super pretty, super funny, super smart - but I'm a bad kisser - I'm doomed? That's it! Everything I've worked for.. gone. The guy Ive dreamed about for 4 years now.. will not be mine, just cause I can't kiss? That blows!
I decided to write my second question in a different "question" because it belongs to a different category I think, but it will be under the label "voice = attraction" if you want to take a shot at it! Thank you!
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Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
When my current boyfriend and i started going out, our first kiss was absolutely HORRIBLE... like.. "wow, please dont' eat my faceeeeee." just plain BAD, but now, we've been dating quite a while and have an amazing relationship (kissing and all). I'm sure you won't mess up as badly as he did if you do, and i'm sure your crush will be fine with it, just as i was with him.
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lol dont worry about kissing its not THAT important for the first time. just worry about your actions around him. if you super pretty, super funny, and whatevr else u said, he wont care about how u kiss, he will just be happy that hes getting kissed.
peace
Seanx
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Hey, well thats not true. There is no wrong way to kiss, as long as your not slobbery. Dont worry about it. Kisses are suppose to come naturally and you usually get all worked up and nervous over nothing. Good luck =].
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That is total bullshit.
I had a relationship last two years, we were both 19 and had plenty of experience kissing, but on our first kiss, we knocked teeth a bit. HOWEVER, we both had enough kissing experience to know to just ignore it and keep kissing. That sort of thing happens.
The sinmple truth is, there is no one way to kiss. Everyone has thier style and often a first kiss isn't perfect, because you are only learning eachother's styles, and are probably nervous and over thinking too!
Don't put so much emphasis on the first kiss, what is important is creating enough of a solid friendship that there will be a second one too.
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