Ive been friends with this guy for a long time. He goes to my church and my school. We're really fond of eachother. Well..i think he likes me..but i dont think he wants to say nething. Like we talk alot at church and on aol..and at our school dance.he asked me to dance. Well my friends dont like the idea of liking him. They ask me all the time if i do..and i always say no so theyll stop bothering me. I think theyre jealous because hes a really cool and nice guy. But i think something will happen between me n this guy. What do i do about my friends.. i think theyll get mad? I feel bad..because it hink one of them likes him. Also how do i find out if this guy likes me?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? iSLAND_iNTHE_SUNx0 answered Monday May 16 2005, 11:38 pm: Maybe you should keep your friends out of this for awhile. Its your life, and if you have a thing for him, no one should discourage you for liking him. If you think you like him, then go for it. Maybe one day, casually ask him if he wants to go get food or something. Just be like "Hey, wanna get some food after [church]?" and if he says yes, just hang out with him. If you feel comfortable asking him if he likes you (in private, on AIM, etc.) then ask him. If not, just ask him if he wants to do something later, or whatever. But don't worry about your friends. If you like him, then it shouldn't matter what they think.
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bandgeeksunite answered Monday May 16 2005, 10:43 pm: Tell your friends the truth, especially if your other friend likes him, cuz then you hav 1st dibs!! l o l but anyway, then you can go and hang with him without feeling guilty or having it hang over your shoulders. Plus, if they r really your friends, they like you for you..not who u have a crush on! [ bandgeeksunite's advice column | Ask bandgeeksunite A Question ]
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