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heyy! my name is ariana im 13 and currently a freshman! i live in SoCal! and lovin it! hahah i love the beach! love swimming and vury competitive! im in swim team and water polo.. yup yup and uhhh.. yea i think thats it... im really go0d at giving advice for love and such

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Website: MySpAcE!!!
Gender: Female
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Age: 13
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i make such a big deal out of little things with me and my boyfriend.. he thinks kristin from laguna beach is so hot so we fight wen he watches it.. its not my fault im jealous, but what can i do? (link)
maybe you should tell him that you are jelous or thats his point when he tells you that she lo0ks hot hes probably tryign to make you jelous on purpose so try not to worry too much

*ariana*


My boyfriend and I have been having sex since late June. Last night he asked me if i got it yet ( i got it june 30th, after we first started to) and i said no but im not worried about it im going to wait a few days because my comes so randomly. and it never comes on the same date. he is yelling at me about he knows he asked girls, but i think i know mmy fuckin period and a bunch of girls periods come different times and late. he is really stressing me out, should i go to a clinic to see or buy a test now? (link)
i think you should buy a tes tand see how that turns out and than maybe a wait few more days and do another test just to be sure go0d luck

*ariana*


ok well i have a bf that iv been gion out with for about 3 months,im not sure wether to stay with him or not,i mean all of my friends are telling me to brake up with him and try out some other gies,but i love him and sometimes i dont i have no clue what to do,pleasse help me!!! (link)
well you kno my advice to you is to listen to your heart if you really love him than stay with him! dont listen to your mind or what everyone else says!!! well best of luck to you!

*ariana*


my friend likes me a lot.. and he told me he did and he told my friends he did.. and sometimes all he does is tell me how much he cares about me.. but then out of nowhere he stops calling me and ignores me and then a few days later hell call me again.. why does he do this? (link)
maybe he just doesnt really wanna seem to attached er stalkerish you kno.. i think its perfectly fine =]

*ariana*


hey does anyone know anything u can do at homecoming? bc i dont know how 2 dance dirty very well how do i move my arms and stuff and just everything? thanks (link)
well i say you just follow the beat however you feel like dancing just do it. just follow the music and be natural dont try to copy everyone ele or you just might make a fo0l of yourself so just be yourself or you can take dancing classes =] i wish the best of luck to you!

*ariana*


Hello,well, i have a boyfriend right now.And u see i can't have one right now.and i don't know why i'm almost 16.my mom doens't care,but my dad...oh..he's like SO jealous.he doesn't even want me to have friends (boys),and do u think this is right,what i'm doing? I hardly see him,well i talk to him everyday on the phone while my dad isn't looking.BUt i don't know what to do. thankz for your help.
Brenda (link)
well i dont think its wrong i mean you are 16! your parents should give you a break!!! seriously you deserve some fun and independance once in a while you kno!!! i think its go0d that you have a boyfriend your not missin out on anything! i think all this you are doign is absolutly riight so no worries! go0d luck with everything and take care!!

*ariana*


Okay, I consider myself kind of pretty. I have had guys admit to like me but I have never had a guy ask me out! Why will the openly tell me what they would like doing to me (sexually) but never have enough courage to ask me out? (link)
no hunnie i dont think you will be single for life i dont think anything would be wrong with you maybe its just the guys they are waiting maybe or waitign for you to make the first move? eventually someone will have the courage to ask you out and eventually you will fall in love too and love is the greastest feeling some one can have but than again at times love can be hell so no need to rush really go0d luck!

*ariana*


everything is goin great between us or atleast it seems like it...lately he hasnt been tlkin to me as much and stuff like that...i have a feeling sumthing is goin on but i need someone elses opinion

thx (link)
yea i think something is going on maybe you shoudld get to the bottom of things? maybe he doesnt like you the same way anymore... or he could be seeing someone else! so you better get to the bottom of this story fast before you regret that you never did anything

*ariana*


all my guy friends tell me guys like girls to take the first step with a guy. i like this one guy a lot. hes 19 im 17. so where would be best place to him out? and if i wanna hang out saturday night when should i call him?
(link)
well lets see... hmmm... i think it would be best if you call him on thursday.. its not too so0n er too late! so its fine =] hahaa try not to sound so nervous and yet try not to sound oh so desparate and also try not to make it seem liek nothing give him sum signs tht u like him but not overly obssesed go0d luck! =]

*ariana*


okay 2 yrs ago a boy moved to cali that i really liked and hes moving back!! i get to see him on wed. but i have changed and so has everything else so what do i do?

p.s i stil like him and iwant him to like me too!

13/f (link)
well maybe you should just be yourself and see the outcome and if he doesnt like you for who you are than screw it hes nt worth it theres other fishys in the sea my dear. when he comes back just bec youself and act normal and flirt like all girls do =] and see wha tthe outcome is

*ariana*


first of all i am sorry if this is long. Me and my boyfriend have been going out for a year and i love him with all my heart. But recently i get a call out of nowhere from this guy that i had a huge crush on when we were younger (i moved away so thats why nothing ever happened between us). So he calls and asks if i wanna hang out with him one day... so i did. Ok i havent seen this kid for about 11 years but when we spent the day together i dont know what happened but i really started to like him again (and i know he likes me he always has). Him and my boyfriend are two completely different people i find that when im with both of them i myself am two different people but i kinda like who i am better with the other guy. So i did the smart thing and the next day i told my bf about my feelings for this other guy and of course he was heartbroken and we broke up... for about an hour... then we got back together. Only the thing is the only reason i took him back was cuz i saw how hurt he was and i felt bad for him. I do really still love him but i dont know if i really wanna continue this relationship but i don't want to hurt him anymore...How do i do it? (link)
hmmm... this is intresting i think you should tell him that you love him dearly and you love him with all your heart but you have to let him go no matter how hard it is goin to be. because you really dont want to hurt him anymore than you already did and you dont want to risk anything too extreme as in hurting him even more

*ariana*


(13,female) ok so me and this kid were going out for 4 months and we're at 2 different schools but then he dumped me and said it was because we don't see eachother a lot but then i found out it was really for another girl...but then after a few months we went back out and hes asked me to makeout with him before but i'm kinda scared to cuz i don't want to mess up or anything i mean i'm going into 8th grade and a lot of kids makeout but like idk i'm just kinda nervous...i mean should i just makeout and hope i don't mess up or just wait..? (link)
well i say you just make out with him i mean no harm in that riight? just follow him hahah follow his tounge and let him lead you dotn really need to do much just let him take you just follow than all will be fine! =]

*ariana*


why is it that my friend one day hes all over me and flirts iwht me and the next he acts like i dont even exist then another day he goes bak to the fliritng self...ah it drives me crazyy i have no idea how to read this kid! (link)
well... lets see i say you just get oveer him hunn just move on thats kinda dumb if one day he treats you like an angel than the next liek a peice of shit that is just wrong and not riight because a girls heart is just not a thing to be toyed with... well maybe he likes you because guys are weird liek that very unpredictable and nott too understanding.... hmmmm.. i still say get over him and move on theres other fishys in the sea! tons of better ones too =]

*ariana*


Hey! Skool is about to start and i have a problem! Well I started dating this guy um.. 7-12-05 well he goes to a different skool and well i dont like long distance rel. b/c i always think they will cheat! Also now that we have been together for a couple of weeks he acts different then he did when we first started goin out like he dont care as much! And well i sorda never got over my ex like a year ago and i miss him i need to know what to do like i wanna break up with this guy but i dont know what to tell him! please help!!
ASAP
Love Kayla (link)
well i think that maybe u should tell him the truth say well.. lo0k im so sorry but i think we should end things i really still like my ex and i miss him horribly im trulyy sorry that im doing this to you but i dont really think that things could work out with us you kno... so yea maybe we can be betetr off as friends?
tell him that go0d luck =]

*ariana*


whats the best way to find out if the guy you like is interested? guys - what kinds of things do you do when youre interested in a girl? (link)
How girls flirt!

1 She makes eye contact and smiles at you.
2. She hits you softly on the arm & laughs when you say something funny.
3. She flips her hair when she's talking to you.
4. She touches your arm when she talks to you.
5. She says, "No, I'm not telling you who I like!" with a big smile on her face.
6. She asks you who you like or who you would go out with seemingly interested.
7. When you go to the movies with a bunch of your friends & she is almost always next to you.
8. She criticizes you on a girl you like.
9. You catch her staring at you.
10. She plays with your hair or tries to put make up on you.
11. Her friends outside of school & in school know about you, &
says she talks about you a lot.
12. She knows your phone number & address.
13. She will try and talk, & spend time with you as much as possible



how guys flirt

1. He stares at you alot.
2. He hits you alot. (just play hitting )
3. He uses the first thing that pops into his head to start a converstaion with you
4. He yelled, "Hi!", to your mom that day she picked you up from school.
5. He blew off his buds to go see "a chick flick" with you cuz you couldn't get another girl pal to go & didn't want to go alone.
6. He tries to make you laugh, even if he gets hurt in the process
7. His voice gets softer ("Hey, you") when ever you two talk.
8. You hung up on him. He called you back.
9. You were invited by him to a group outing.
10. He called you to talk about nothing at all.
11. He imitates your laugh. OK, you do snort sometimes. Which makes you laugh even harder...
12. He remembers little things you mention in casual conversation.
13. He sometimes stares straight into your eyes.
14. He uses every possible way to touch you (your hair, face, butt, thighs, etc.)


*ariana*


wherever i go, i call my boyfriend before i go and tell him or he makes me feel bad

whatever i do, i call my boyfriend and tell him before i do it or he makes me feel bad

when we fight, i am given all the blame

if i want to hang out with friends, i can, but he makes me feel bad

if he is stressed out, i am feeling bad because hes telling me what i try is not enough and i should always put him before me

hes needy, and he knows it!

if im happy spending time away from him and im w/ friends, he feels bad and makes me feel bad

but he says nothings ever his fault, he cant help it if he feels bad

i am the one who has to do EVERYTHING!, because he used to do things for me in the beginning of our relaitonship but now if i dont do it, he makes me feel bad.

im always made to feel bad. (link)
i say that you should end things riight now because that is dumb ok why is he blaming everything on you?! i mean he has no riight to do that it doesnt seem that he really loves you or like you or is into a "real" or "true" relationship with you i say that you should break up with him riight now why wait any longer?!

*ariana*


Okay so i have been talking to this girl for a really long time and she wanted to hangout really bad so she came over one night. I flirted with her a lot and we had sex. And i know this girl likes me A LOTT. but the thing is i dont like her at all and i tottaly led her on by having sex with her so how do i make it as easy as i can on her without dating her? (link)
hmmm.... wow this is a toughy... i say you tell her that you are really very tuly sorry but you really dont feel the same way for her as she does for you tell her that you are very sorry but you guys would be wayyyyy better off as friends and nothing more go0d luck

*ariana*


Does everyone find someone that they love and that loves them? (link)
yep... well at least i think so it doesnt matter how long it will take you will find sum1 sum day you kno no matter how long it will take because sum great things in life takes time paitent =] well you will find your nemo in the sea but theres a lot of other fish so it may take time to find this so called nemo of yours go0d luck

*ariana*


ok i have this b/f and we've been together for a year and it was just my b-day and he got me this really cute bracelet and i love him so much and he loves me.... i think. and my ? is well for the past couple monthes we havnt seen eachother at all except for 2 times and i jsut wanted to know if i should dump him because i never see or talk to him. altho i know school is coming up but i still dont see him that much in school and i wanted to know if somone could please tell me like what to say to him and should i give my bracelet back? please help i'll rate high (link)
wow this is EXACTLY how my relationship is!!! hahahaha akward! well you kno if you really "love" this guy liek you say you do you should wait like i am because sumtimes sum great things in life takes time n paitient... well ive been goin through the same probs that you have i juss dunno wut to do nowa days... i stil llvoe him to death you kno even though i dont see him that much i stil ahve trust in him and i think you should stil lhave trust in your man... and if this is true love and you two were meant to be all this waiting would be worth it =] i wish the best of luck to you two =]

*ariana*


i am MADLY in love with my best guy friend. we're like brother and sister and i LOVE him. i dream about him, think about him.. i can't help myself, i've never had a guy be so nice to me. but there's nothing i can do about it because he's madly in love with my best friend and i've decided not to do anything about it. how do i get out of this hole i fell in? i LOVE him. i don't know what to do.. please someone tell me if this is ever going to go away :( (link)
well hunnie im sorrie but love is forever and once you fall in love you someone you are stuck lovin them forever and later on if you realize that you dont seem to "love" them any more that means that you never really loved him at all my dear some things are juss weird like that in life im guessinf you are going crazy over him and every second of the day he is on your mind huh? well i think you should tell him though you kno there could be a reason to why he is also oh so nice to you... well i wish you the best of luck

*ariana*




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