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well my x boyfriend loves to talk a lot of crap about me and laughs when i get hurt but some of his friends tell me he still likes me but i do not know whato think please help me sincerly confuse! (link)
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well first of all i hope that if he does make you feel sad and treats you mean that you wouldnt think about getting back with him. i hope you think more of yourself than to put up with that kind of behavior. i wouldnt care if he said he wanted to marry you that is not how you win a girls heart by being mean, you deserve better.
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Hey yeahi am 13/f and I still like my ex-boyfriend 13/m a whole lot but like his ex-gf out of nowhere cause came back to our school and now he is acting all strange around me now that she is back but before she was here we were like the best of friends but now we have drifted apart and I have told him how i felt about him but he always changes the subject like he is avoiding it what should i do? (link)
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well i myself wouldnt want to be around someone who just blew me off. sounds like he is still likeing this other chick. but hes 13 so who knows, to be honest he will probley like a new person next week. that is how boys that young are, and they really dont change all that much the older they get. so i wouldnt stress over it, maybe you should be looking to hang out with someone who will give you all the attention you want. good luck.
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i heard that giving compliments is the best way to meet the guy you like. what kind of compliment would be the best if you're giving it to a guy, and you're a girl? "cool shoes?"
anything that doesn't strike the other person as weird that i'm noticing their shoes or whatever.. please help! (link)
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well does he play sports, if so, go to a game and afterward tell him how good he was, or notice a day he wears cologne and tell him how good he smells, just casually not making a big deal, and smile, my guy friends have told me that that is the # 1 way to get a guy to notice you is to smile at them alot, and appear happy and approachable.
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Ok, I don't want any smartass answer but my friend ask my crush out. I know that guys hate it when a girls friend askes them out. But I couldn't stop her! I asked her what he said and he just said " I don't know." I really like this guy. But I don't want him to think I am a baby and can't do things myself. So what can I say? I really need. Help. (link)
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if you get a chance to talk to him let him know you didnt want her to ask him, you wanted to do it yourself. then i would have a serious talk with my friend and ask her why she thought she had the right to do that.
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someone please help me i dont know wut to think..me and my bf have been going out for 2 months and now all of a sudden hes been talking bout this gurl name brittany(shes my friend)he asked me wut her last name is and he wants to c her myspace and all that.well normally when we r talking he says i love you before i do and wen he has to go he says i love you to me first,but today he didnt say i love you first,and hes talkin bout my friend brittany, but he sed the only person he will ever like and love is me and that will never change. and i think im thinking he kinda likes her but normally i would never think that cuz me and him are in a deep love relationship and we both love eachother SOOO MUCH but i dont know what i should do.what should i do,think, or say?someone please help me i never felt this way about him b4!someone please help A.S.A.P.(sry about it being soooo long)i rate very high (link)
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well it sounds like you need to talk to the both of them, sepretly though. if you guys have been together for only 2 months, theres probley alot you dont know about him. how old are you by the way. im asking because when you are young it seems like there is no one else in the world that you could ever be with than the one you ae with, when in reality two months is not a very long time to know someone well enough to say there is no one else for you, get what i mean. i not tring to be mean, belive me i felt the same way once, there is just one thing you need to know about young men, they tend to like more than one girl at a time, its kind of like an oppertunity thing if one comes up theyll snag it. does your friend talk to this boy, without you around. does she ask about him. i would just sit back and watch, if this girl is a good friend she shouldnt step in on your boyfriend, and if she did she probley wasent a good friend anyway, and he starts spending time around her, or acts like he wants to i would say it is time to find a new love of your life.
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I'm sorry this one is kinda long, but I reallly need help.
Okay so there is this kid, and i used to go out with him. He broke up with me and went out with this girl for a while. Then he broke up with her and a few weeks after he asked me out again. When I said no then, he went out with another girl and they broke up a few days ago. Well me and him both went to a new school this year (the same one) and I have been hanging out with him a lot more and I think I like him now, but I don't want to. I know it sounds weird but its true. And I think he likes his old ex because like everyone knows she still likes him, and the way he acts around her makes me thing he likes her too. I don't know what to do, should I act on my feelings, or should I just keep quiet until I'm sure. (link)
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i would make sure before i acted on anything, you may tell him then you get hurt because he decides to go out with his ex.
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So i'm not the type of girl who has gone out with a lot of guys in high school....actually i have went out with zippo boys....but recently one guy has been acting strangly towards me. He and his friends keeps telling me his phone number and acts somewhat flirty around me, but the REAL thing im confused about is weather or not it's some joke with his friends to see what i do.....should i call him or just forget it? (link)
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i would get him away from his friends and simply ask him tell him what you think about him and tell him you dont want to waste your time on a joke, and see what he says. if he acts rude well at least you know and didnt waste your time.
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i have a quick question. and i really want opinions.
ok so im just wondering, but would it be totally wrong to go out with your friend's ex boyfriend? i mean its happened to me a couple of times. I would go out with a guy, we would break up, and then he would go out with my friend. it hurt me a lot, but im over it now. Some people tell me its wrong to go out with a friend's ex, and some people tell me its alright to do it. aand im not sure. (link)
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i would talk to the friend, i guess it just depends on how close you all are. if you even get the slightest feling it bothers her i would definatly not do it. think of how you felt. alot of people will be like oh yeah im fine with it and it really isnt then it totally changes your friendship. and trust me no man is worth loosing a friend for, because when you all break up if you do then when you wanna go back to her and talk and be good friends again, she just might not be there for you.
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Ok...i waz goin out wit this kid named Ryan but he broke up wit like about 4 weeks ago.I have been tryen and tryen to move on but i juss cant.I have even tried to go out wit sumone else but it didnt work.We were in so much love i dont even kno wat happened.He told meh he wanted meh to move on and to find sumone better but i think thea is no one better than hym.It has seemed like he got over the fact that we are over bc he is already wit sumone else.I told hym i didnt like one thing about hym and it waz that he got stoned.So i talked to his best friend about it and i told her wat i waz thinken about sayen to hym and she told meh to do it bc if he realli loves meh then he wuld pick meh.So i told hym i didnt like the fact that he got stoned wen he waz wit meh so i wanted hym to pick meh or gettin high.And i even told hym mab he culd get stoned once in a while if i knew about it.And he told meh he had to think about it so i waz like ok and then he told meh his answer and he said i guess pot is more impotant.So i talked to hym about that answer and he said he only said it bc he wanted meh to move on and find sumone better.But i keep tellin hym over and over again that thea is none better than hym but he still wants meh to move on and to juss be friends,but i dont wanna be juss friends i still wanna be wit hym but i dont kno wat to say or do to get hym bak....i mean i love hym soo much and i dont realli think he knos it......plz help..wat shuld i do??¿¿ (link)
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well i think the thing that made him upsetis you wanted him to choose, men dont like altematemins. i dont blame you though, you were just caring about him and he didnt like it so he blew you off, you might be better off, it dosent seem like it now, but you are. if he is only 13 and already getting high, then who knows what he will be doing by twenty. i think you could do alot better, good luck.
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hi i think im beginning to have a crush on this boy Michael, Michael is a senior and I am a sophmore, I met Michael last year when my cousin who was a senior last year took me to a party at his house, it was in the winter and very snowy and we drank s we stayed there. everyone was downstairs playing beerpong and i was in his living room tired, about to passout and he sat on the other couch and talked to me, hes just naturally a really nice yet really popular kid. so yeah in school he usually makes eye contact with me but we havent really talked since last feb/march? so i went to the football game with a bunch of people and i saw him on the bus and he was lookin at me ( well i think) and so somehow i had balls today and IMed him saying "nice game last night" and he said "thanks, i still couldnt play though" and i said ohh yeah.. then we didnt talk and i dont want to IM him again, and he obviously knows who i am ( my sn basically says my name) i want him to kind of get the feeling i like him (rmember we dont talk) what should i do when i see him in the halls at school? thankss (link)
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i would just keep having short contact with him talk when you see him, smile alot, maybe some playful flirting. just act like yourself and let him see how cool you are. try and find out what he does in his spare time, and maybe happen to pop up at some of those event and make him see you are there by at least saying hi, the more he sees you, yhe more you will be on his mind.
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Okay tonight there was a dance and the boy i seriously fell in love with (we went out 3 times before) was there because he told me to go. When he got there he said hi and gave me a hug and we talked for like 3 minutes. Then a girl he was recently with came and then she was ALL over him and the girl hates me. So whenever i looked over toward them she'd like hold onto him and start makin out with him! it was totally rude and after I saw them holding hands and stuff I got really dizzy, i stared into space half the time, i was mopey, and ididnt wanna talk to anyone and i felt like i was gonna throw up. I dont know what to do now because I seriously love this kid. 5 for answer to what i should do (but 1's for queer ones.) k thanks (link)
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sounds like that girl was really trying to mees with you, shame on her for that, sounds like maybe she felt threatened with you around. i would suggest try and stay friends with this guy, let im know you are there for him and leave it at that if you are a good friend and dont try and press any dating ideas i belive he will come around after he has been with duds and realise who truely cares for him, if not his loss at least you could still have a good friend.
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ok so this guy who i L-O-V-E !! found out i liked him by my friend (i wasnt mad or nething cause i KIND OF told her to). he told me he knew nd i was like yea bla bla bla. then he said i think for rite now we should b friends cause i dont kno ut hat well. so im like ok about a week l8er he told me i should kinda of get over it because he wasnt going to ask me out netime soon (that may seem harsh but im not adding EVERY single detail, so trust me it was fine ). i told him i kinda got over it that week. he said ok good bla bla bla. i rlly wasnt over him at all thou. i tried to b nd tried to like someone else, but couldnt. but now he, like a week l8er weve become real close and stuff and he flirts with me like CRAZY!!!! its sooooo much flirting! lol and i flirt back and all. were turning into "cute" friends.
so should i see if he likes me by asking him, having a mutual friend find out, leave it alone, give it more time (ahh the hardest thing ever) which?
thank you so much. c ya
btw-im a girl in 7th grade nd hes a guy in 7th grade whos 9 months younger than me (link)
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i would give it time since he has already said what he did about taking it slow. when you are in 7th grade you change your mind about every 30 min, so just when you think he likes you and he probley does, but then a buddy could ask him to play ball with him and he will go not say good bye, and most likely mean nothing mean about it, its just how 7th grade boys are. at that age girls are not a priority at all, girls mature alot quicker so they are just getting those emotional likeing boy feeling. so i wouls give it time and not get to upset when he seems no so interested.
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Ok so i have a friend Maria and i have a crush Adam. I have liked Adam for so long and one day Adam telles my bestfriend Maria that he likes her. I am totally emotianal. What should i do? I need serious advice on this one.
~Andrea~ (link)
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i would talk to maria, she is supposed to be your best friend so i am assuming she knows how you feel for adam. unfortunatly we all cant help who we like. so does she like him??? i do know i would not let a guy interfere with my friend, unless of corse she has been doing some flirtingback and disreguarding your feelings. so i think i would just get all the facts before i got to upset and then talk to maria. probley the best advice i have ever been given for the many times i was in your same situation is, you cant make someone like you, so dont let it hurt you when they dont.
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ok i really like this really hot guy and i used to think he was an idiot. i have now realised he isnt an idiot and actually has a lot in commen with me. i think he likes me because not only does he always look kind of pleased when i laff at his jokes but he sometimes tries to hard to make it look like he doesnt like me. like, i will ask him what he got on his math test and he will say "96" or something and i will be like, i got 100 and he just sas "i dont care what you got" like he is being defencive. i tell another guy what i got on the same test and he will be like, omigosh you got 100!? he has a kindof hard imige where you dont let annything out but he told me he sometimes watches sunsets off his deck and i should see it. i have never asked a guy out before but theres a first for everything so i was wondering if you guys could help me know what to say? thanx i rate high (link)
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well first of all i think you should try to be as alone as possible when you do ask him that way its less pressure from othrs around you, and definatly dont write a note and ask. i would suggest doing somethying really casual with him where it wont be the two of you and thats it kind of make it like a hang out as friends thing, then you can see how things will be from that first friendly date. if he acts really into you, and directs all of his or well say most of his attention twords you then i say hes hot for you. all my guy friends have told me they love when a girl asks them out, they feel less nervous, so bonus points will definatly be earned there, good luck.
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Okay guys! I've been dating a guy for 3 months and I love him more than anything in the world! He promised me he would never leave me and for once in my life, I BELIEVE A GUY.OKay well we're both virgins and I think he wants to boost it up a little.How do I prepare for all that? If anything happens anytime soon...I want to be ready and things to go really good.Help!
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wow, well first thing is you need to make sure that you are truely doing it because you really want to , and not just because he does. i mean its a one time thing once you loose your virginity theres no turning bck, so reallythink about it. now if you are sure then, i would just make it very romantic, something to remeber forever, candles, music, the whole nine yards, good luck to you, and remeber.....PROTECTION!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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If you read this, Id like you to respond. And Id like you to post your age. Consider it a survey. Respond as briefly or as long-winded-ly as youd like, but please respond.
What is love to you? How do you define love? How do you tell when you are in love with someone?
Answer me these questions three and then we'll see what love means to thee! (link)
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i am 25/f
love to me is unconditional bond between two people, who are there for oneanother in good and bad times, who would sacrifice something of thereself in hopes of helping the other. i think you are in love when you get that kind of dizzy, silly almost uncontrollable feeling when the one you love is around.
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I've have a really close guy friend who I just found out is moving to another province.. We've been friends for almost 3 years and I know that he cares a lot about me. I'm 27 and feel that he may be the love of my life.
I'll be seeing him next week before he leaves, he's giving me his computer so we can still email each other.
What would be a good way to let him know that I am interested in him as more than a friend? I don't want to get too emotional or freak him out. But I feel like I am in love with him.
He's moving becuase he got a job in the Alberta Oil rigs and the money is too good to pass up.
Does anyone have any ideas? (link)
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if he is going to such great lenghts as to give you his comp to stay in contact then he probley feels the same way you do. i would plan a special "friend" evening before he goes and tell him just what you said, that you are in love with him and you will really miss him. then you can find out where the both of you stand. good luck.
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f/14. October 1st is my boyfriend and my four month anniversary. for stupid reasons, we never celebrated other anniversaries. so this is our first. i wanna do something specail for him. any ideas will help. i don't care how cheesy or lame it seems. we like doing that kind of stuff for each other.
i'd prefer ideas that didn't involve using money because we both come from poverty stricken backgrounds so we decided not to do anything like that. (link)
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go to a park and have a private picnic, or you can have a special movie night in really as long as you are together it will be special, i hope you have a great time.
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i've liked this guy for a long time and hes really nice and one day i went to his house and at the end he kissed me twice ...well later on in school he didnt really say anything about it but we were still talking and all and then i wrote him this note and i was all so what are we just friends of what plaease write me back... so then i gave it 2 him and he like ignors me and now (today) he came up to me and is likeim so sorry for hurting you , you have been so good to me and i've treated you so bad and im so sorry .....i mean it made me feel kinda bad but he still didnt answer my question lol and i do know what to do i dont know if i should ask again cuz maybe he just wants to be my friend and not be mean about it...its just i dont know what to do im so confused but i like him so much
please help me i rate rlly high
im sorry its so long (link)
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sounds like he is embarassed, sometimes we do things and dont think about them, not saying he didnt want to kiss you. but us as woman, i am the same way, if something physical happens between us and a man, we automatically think there needs to be a relationship title to us. well i know guys have told me that the title thing is not a big deal to them . like maybe he just wanted to kiss you and may want to again but might not of been prepared for you to ask him what it all ment. i think if you all just keep hanging out and you dont pressure him to make anything offical then things will just fall into place. as long as he isnt running around kissing everyone he sees or dosent dis you infront of other woman i think if you want to possibly have a chance to have more with this guy give him time to not feel like you are trying to get him to say something hes not ready to.when you guys are spend more time together and are more comfertable around each other, meaning you wouldnt feel awkward asking him a question like who am i to you, then i think that will be the right time to ask.
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well there is this boy and he always stares at me and i mean ALWAYS but in a good way but too much and he makes me laugh and is really nice to me..well today was picture day and there were 3 sections you can get your picture taken there were 3 girls taking their pic at the same time in different corners of the room ..well he watched me get my picture taken..and in spanish class our seats are in rows and we got to choose our seats and he chooses the the next to mine but ONE Down ...im suspecting he has a crush on me...what do you think.. im so0o confused (link)
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ask him, if you really want to know that is the best way to find out. then youll know, and you can flirt back.lol, good luck
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