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i have a quick question. and i really want opinions.
ok so im just wondering, but would it be totally wrong to go out with your friend's ex boyfriend? i mean its happened to me a couple of times. I would go out with a guy, we would break up, and then he would go out with my friend. it hurt me a lot, but im over it now. Some people tell me its wrong to go out with a friend's ex, and some people tell me its alright to do it. aand im not sure.
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it is really wrong and really rood to do that to one of your friends,because she used to like that guy a lot and go out with him and just because they break up doesnt me he doesnt still like her or she doenst still like him.just don't do it your friend would get mad at you and that would be really rood.
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it depends on what the friend thinks. and especially, how long ago they broke up. like if it was recently,like RELE recently, i definately wudnt. and also, if your friend broke up wit the guy,then i think it wud also be ok, but you shud talk 2 your friend first of all and c what she thinks.if your friend is RELE ok wit it,and not just saying she is,then it wud be ok.
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u have to decide wats more important the guy or ur friend
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just ask your friend if its ok. thats what me and my friends always do. and if they dont mind go for it. if they do...sorry find someone new
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i would talk to the friend, i guess it just depends on how close you all are. if you even get the slightest feling it bothers her i would definatly not do it. think of how you felt. alot of people will be like oh yeah im fine with it and it really isnt then it totally changes your friendship. and trust me no man is worth loosing a friend for, because when you all break up if you do then when you wanna go back to her and talk and be good friends again, she just might not be there for you.
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You have to know how your friend feels about this before you decide to date her ex or not to date her ex. If your friend is okay with it, I mean, REALLY okay with it and not just saying she is so that you can have what you want, I say go for it. If there's any doubt in your mind about it, you shouldn't. Look at it this way, if you dated a guy and then you broke up, wouldn't it hurt you to see that guy with someone else that's close to you? Bringing your friend's self esteem down isn't a thing you probably want on your shoulders.
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It really depends on what your friend thinks about it.
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Well, if it happened to you, then you know how bad it hurts whena friend does that to you. And do you really want to be like that? I didn't think so...
It's an unwritten law anyway that you NEVER, under ANY CIRCUMSTANCES, so you date your friends ex. Sorry, but this boy is off limits.
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NO,
do not do that. It hurts your friends the most and it upsets them for you going into their territory. its one thing if you didn't know but you do and that would be very wrong. whoever did it to you is not a very good friend. if a guy your friend likes ever asks you out say no because your friends should mean more to you than guys do.
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