my name is lana.
i have had a LOT of problems in my life,but so does everyone. and it can be hard a LOT of the time. if anyone needs help i would love 2 help 2 the best of my ability
E-mail: lanarahal@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: cranford
Age: 13
AIM: penguincityusa
Member Since: September 26, 2005
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Ever since my friends birthday party she has been acting different aarounf me and not doing anything with me.. she like is being retarted!! idk what to do!! or say to her but i dont want to be her friend cuz its been going on for awhile!! (link)
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talk it out with her.and think about it. is she rele a close friend?has she been acting like a friend lately?if not then i guess you shud end the friendship.but give her time 2 explain herself and her actions.
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(SORRY IF THIS IS LONG ILL RATE HIGH) well there is this kid who i think he might like me like he really acts like it sometimes.. like sometimes he'll come over to me and just like kick me just kiddingly... or like he'll tackle me and make me fall into snow also just kiddingly (when there is snow obviously) well i dont know because a lot of my friends think he likes me because the way he acts around me.. and i asked one of his friends and he said he acts flirty and smiley.. which he does around me i thought thats just the way he was but i guess not... but he told one of my friends that he only liked me as a friend... is he lying? does he like me or just want to be friends? help please.. ill rate high! (link)
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ive been in similar situations. i wouldnt jump to conclusions. i'd give it more time. and have one of HIS friends find out if he likes you. he may not admit it to YOUR friends. just give it time see what happens and what he does.you nevr mentioned if you liked him or not,by the way.if you rele do like him and u rele think he likes you, then maybe,only if you want to,ask him. im not positive if he does or doesnt like you. but like i said,i wouldnt jump to conclusions.
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Me and my best friend had a stupid argument. What shall I do, I was alittle harsh on her, but I didnt want to stop being friends what can
i do?
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i get into fights with my friends ALL the time, the problem that happens with me is that about a day later i feel horrible and wanna make up. talk 2 ur friend online,call her,or email her. i dont know what exactly you fought about, butjust tell her how u were feeling that brought up the arguement.or try 2 find some way to make it up to her. hope i helped
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i have a quick question. and i really want opinions.
ok so im just wondering, but would it be totally wrong to go out with your friend's ex boyfriend? i mean its happened to me a couple of times. I would go out with a guy, we would break up, and then he would go out with my friend. it hurt me a lot, but im over it now. Some people tell me its wrong to go out with a friend's ex, and some people tell me its alright to do it. aand im not sure. (link)
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it depends on what the friend thinks. and especially, how long ago they broke up. like if it was recently,like RELE recently, i definately wudnt. and also, if your friend broke up wit the guy,then i think it wud also be ok, but you shud talk 2 your friend first of all and c what she thinks.if your friend is RELE ok wit it,and not just saying she is,then it wud be ok.
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when i talk to people i cant keep a conversation going or even get a good one going.. what tips could u give me for this? (link)
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i have trouble with that 2.. but sometimes you just gotta ask things like" what did u think of that math test we took 2day" or "did you watch Roseanne last nite?" just simple stuff that you could build off of afterwards.
ex: did u watch roseanne last nite?
"no"
"o well it was RELE funny.. such and such happened,ect"
hope that helped a little
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some good books are ummm.... well i dunno how old u are but some books I rele liked were The Devils Arithmatic, Bridge To Teribithia, Sisterhood of the Traveling Pants,TTYL,Just as long as We're Together,The Christmas Shoes, Theres a Boy in the Girls Bathroom, and Loser.
if there ARE guys in the book club, then 4get about sisterhood of the traveling pants just as long as we're together and TTYL
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ok so theres this guy... were rele getting to know eachother and well...i RELE like him..but he likes one of the popular ppl. but EVERYONE sez that the relationship would NEVER work out with those 2. i just cant stop thinking about him.were rele good friends... but i wish we cud be more. and its making me feel bad just cuz hes SO nice and the girl well...isnt. shes always gossiping and stuff. and he cud do so much better.and the girls relationships NEVR last long. it hurts me 2 c my friend after someone like that because he KNOWS shez not gonna like him. i just...dont no wut 2 do. but theres no way of talking someone out of liking someone. (link)
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hangout with him some more and get to know eachother more. afterawhile he may c that this girl isnt rite 4 him. and if you are always there for him, he may start realizing something: how YOU were always there for him. not that other girl. and if he DOES ever go out with her, it cant last FOREVER. if u do hang out wit him more and keep up being a good friend, he will realize someday who was there for him, and who wasnt.for now...just thinkk that its a good thing ur friends, even though,i no, its hard.but one of these days, he'll give up on that girl.
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Whats the best way to approach a guy your wanting to ask out. I don't just wana go up to him and say " Hey ya wana go out?" Thanks in advance! (smartasses get 1's!) (link)
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well first of all, you have 2 get to know him and be friends first. after that, you cud try writing him a note or something.sometimes notes are a lot easier than talking to the person.
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This sounds like a really childish question but is it normal to not know what feelings you have about someone?
I know this guy and everytime I see him or think about him I get butterflies (cheesy much?) but when I think about it, I don't know him enough to LIKE him so..yeah.
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ive had the same feeling...a LOT. you may just have a crush on him. i think you shud get 2 know him and start talking to him. and the more time you spend wit him ull realize if you rele do like him or not.
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