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Approach A Guy
Whats the best way to approach a guy your wanting to ask out. I don't just wana go up to him and say " Hey ya wana go out?" Thanks in advance! (smartasses get 1's!)
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well first of all, you have 2 get to know him and be friends first. after that, you cud try writing him a note or something.sometimes notes are a lot easier than talking to the person.
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hmm.... i really like this guy and i want him to ask me out and soo i hint like HEAVILY flrt and hang out and then he will start likeing u
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be nice and be like hey whats up? and take it slow..the guy isnt going to get cupid struck
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You have to strike a conversation first. Then bring up the subject about going out.
Good Luck!
Crush Hottie
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well since you really like him of course your going to be nervous so what I would do if you see him when you walking try to make it seem like he bumped into you and youll guys talk after that then everyday talk to him more and more then dont worry youll know when the right time comes to ask him out. Hoped I helped, Good luck, and give feedback.
- The pinkprincess
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Hehe.. I would bring the guy to a romantic spot if you can. Start off with the casual "hi, what's up" If he asks why you guys are here, briefly explain to him how he is hot, how much you mean to him and stuff like that. After that, just try and say "so uhmm, can we go out and see how it goes?" It's worked for me.
If you don't know the guy and you're only falling for his looks, just get to know him at first. Nobody like a stranger going up to them and asking "hey wanna go out" Right???
Well, good luck!
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Firstly, confidence is the key. Obviously you'll be nervous doing it, but you've gotta ACT cool. Act like you're asking him what his favourite band is. Secondly, be casual about it. Start talking about your weekend, and say something like "There's this movie I want to see, would you like to come along?" Ease your way into asking him, but don't beat around the bush for too long or he may get angry. I'm sure he'll say yes, but if he doesn't at least you'll know hoe he feels and you can get over him. Good luck. :)
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I think it depends on if you're already friends or not. Is it a guy who barely knows you? A guy who you talk to sometimes, or someone who's a great friend? I believe all good relationships are based on friendship, so I'd try that first.
But if you don't want to go through all the hassle of trying to become the guy's friend...Asking one of your friends to mention something to him could help. Or you could write him a note just asking "Hey, what's up?" Then write some stuff and end like, "So what's new with you? How's it going with your girlfriend?" and if they write back they dont have one, ask him! just say "i think ur really cool. maybe we can hang sometime?" Good luck.
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Nay, don't pop out in the middle of his way and go "Hey, I like you, wanna go out?" Guys don't like it when girls are so spontaneous about things like that. It's not attractive and if he says no, you'll look like a fool. Instead, start a convo w/ him. Ask him about his interests and what he thought of the English assignment, etc. If the conversation turns out to be successful, you can turn it towards a more personal direction. Bring up crushes, and then conclude it by telling him you like him and asking him out.
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