Question Posted Wednesday September 21 2005, 8:01 pm
(SORRY IF THIS IS LONG ILL RATE HIGH) well there is this kid who i think he might like me like he really acts like it sometimes.. like sometimes he'll come over to me and just like kick me just kiddingly... or like he'll tackle me and make me fall into snow also just kiddingly (when there is snow obviously) well i dont know because a lot of my friends think he likes me because the way he acts around me.. and i asked one of his friends and he said he acts flirty and smiley.. which he does around me i thought thats just the way he was but i guess not... but he told one of my friends that he only liked me as a friend... is he lying? does he like me or just want to be friends? help please.. ill rate high!
SwingxLifexAway answered Wednesday September 28 2005, 6:30 pm: ive been in similar situations. i wouldnt jump to conclusions. i'd give it more time. and have one of HIS friends find out if he likes you. he may not admit it to YOUR friends. just give it time see what happens and what he does.you nevr mentioned if you liked him or not,by the way.if you rele do like him and u rele think he likes you, then maybe,only if you want to,ask him. im not positive if he does or doesnt like you. but like i said,i wouldnt jump to conclusions. [ SwingxLifexAway's advice column | Ask SwingxLifexAway A Question ]
x0xVivaLaJeniix0x answered Saturday September 24 2005, 8:57 am: same thing happened to me this boy flirts with me alot too and fools around like hitting me etc. i assume he likes you but i am not certain to me it sounds like it ...but i have the same problem so there is a possibility he doesnt..maybe he thinks of you as a nice kind friend he can talk to and play around with
Belladonna answered Thursday September 22 2005, 6:33 am: Sometimes, when a guy knows a girl likes him, he start to flirt with them and "lead them on" so the girl continues liking him. Having a girl like them is like an ego boost to them and they appreciate the attention. He may have figured out that you like him, and want it to continue, but may only see you as a friend.
Saying this, though, he may have lied to your friend about liking you. He may not want his feelings to be made public as we all know how fast goss spills.
Your best bet is to find out how he really feels yourself, and it's better to do it soon. That way you'll know whether you're wasting your time on someone or not. Good luck. [ Belladonna's advice column | Ask Belladonna A Question ]
TaintedPurity answered Wednesday September 21 2005, 11:48 pm: Some people are just flirty by nature, it doesn't necessarily mean they have a crush on you. Also, sometimes people treat their closest friends like they have a crush on them but really it's just due to their flirtatious nature. If he told one of your friends that he didn't like you, that means he probably doesn't like you and he doesn't mean to send you the signals that he does. Or your friend may be lying. [ TaintedPurity's advice column | Ask TaintedPurity A Question ]
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