lor..i dont kno wut 2 do..he still didnt hug me!!ugh is it okay for me 2 make the 1st move if we never hugged?
It's always okay to make the first move it doesn't matter if your a guy or not. and its defonitly okay becasue you guys have been going out for a while... you should feel comfortable with him and give himl hugs nautrally not something you shoud say like " im gonna give him a hug today " you guys are just at an early stage even though it has been a while since you guys started to date. my opion- hes dieing to get a hug from you- he likes you so much!! and he will wait for you until your ready. but your never gonna no anything until you try it. give him a hug x3
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Me and my friend are fighting a lot lately, and it's because of a guy or that she's depressed or whatever, anyway i think that its kinda making us less close. You know how fighting makes us closer, well i think it's the total opposite. this might not be true, but i think it is. Also, i'm sick and tierd of her complaining about being depressed and sad and "deep down i'm not the person who you really think i am" it gets soo ANNOYING!! i'm starting to feel i don't know my best friend any more. One more thing,i hate how everyone says their life is HORRIBLE && it sucks and they say that they are depressed and crap like that, BUT THEY ARE NOT! it bugs me. umm, thanks for the help. i think i really need it. =)
it seems to me you guys are real close..which is good i wish i had something like that. when your in a fight it is hard to believe that fights are good because its showing you have something in this friendship, its showing you two are so close you'll go through stupid fights like this. Guys should never split you guys apart but sometimes you just have to ignore it. if your friend is saying she is sad and stuff she jsut wnats you to notice her. it's always normal to do that. as you grow up and meet new people your friends will change. change can be good and bad but you have to face the bad and live the good. Its so hard sometimes but you ahve to remeber at least you ahve a frined like this. when people get upset they can say stuff you they dont mean. its not alwasy a NOT good idea to tell your friend that. lol i hope i help but if you still need more advice im year keep me posted ;]
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I realllllly like this guy named Ryan.. I've liked him since last year.. but anyway I cant stop thinking about him i keep dreaming about him and i always shake when im around him and it hurts to the point where i don't wanna live without him and I know he doesnt like me but I can't help it... what should i do?
I think what you should do is just talk to him. I am very shy myself so i no how you feel but i think you should get more involved for him to notice you more and to see what a great person you are. try to show your personalitly towards him to show your interested. try not to worry as much, calm down and just forget you like him and forget all about that stuff. if you have a lot of classes with him try to be next him and just flirt ;]
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okay so, me && my best friend like the same guy, which totally SUCKS i know, anyway, he likes both of us, but he likes me more. i kinda feel bad for my friend cause shes jealous that he likes me more. & i dont want our friendship to end cause of him. but anyway, okay well we went to see flight plan && during the mvoie we kept on whispering to each toher, && you know when a guy streches && puts his arm around the girl!! well OMG he did that but to my movie seat!(lmao) && then i said im cold && he said ill keep you warm && hugged me!! then we went back to my friend karries house && he was staring at me like a lot lol soo thenn karrie has these seat things that turn into couch thing && he was laying on one with me!!! && he was lawyas making us laugh!! soo then one time we were outside && there were only four chairs soo jenny got on(karries sis) then dill then karrie then me && andrew was left out,, soo i said you can sit on my lap! && he did! then he got off .. then when he got home that day he said we have to do that again, i reaalllyy like him i really wanna go out with him too. but my friend would be heart broken && i dont know if she really likes him. i need help.
Wow, this sounds like a hell of a situation if you as me! lol well it sounds like he really likes you, which is sooo great! You can also tell you really like him, which is just awesome. But you said that he likes your BEST friend too? Well you are right, boyfriends come and go but friends stay forever. But i wouldn't just let this chance slip away. Have you talked to your friend about it? How much does she like him? How much do you like him? It's not right to go out with your best friends crush, but if she was really your friend she should understand how much you like him and tell you it would be okay to. It's not right for her to stop you for going out with someone you like so incredibly much. But you shouldnt let one guy totatlly ruin your friendship that you had for a long time. If he liked you he will wait for you, waiting is very hard and both of you can't wait forever. But I think the best thing for you to do is defonitly tell her exactly how you feel. If she is a good friend as much as you make her shound she will let you go out with him. It might be painful for her but she'll she its for the best. If the converstaion goes bad, let loose for a little with he flirting with him and stuff. Don't let this guy that might not last that long as your boyfriend ruin something that can last forever. Keep me posted and tlel me what happenes so i can help you more about what happenes after the converstaion you have with her.
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okay. i dont know if i should make the first move. we have hugged and my friends told him i liked him and he had a big smile on his face. and we talk alot..
so..i want him to ask me out. Is there any more flirty thingys i can do? or should i just ask him out?
i jsut dont know...
please just tell me what you think...
It's always okay to make the first move!! But if you feel totally weird asking him then i would just flirt with him a lot more to show you are really interested. Then he'll definitly ask you sooner or later ;]
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ok, ive been friends with this girl gabi since 1st grade. were both in 8th grade now. were best friends but sometimes i feel left out because she always goes out with her other friends and never tells me. weve been getting in a lot of fights lately and the past few have been really bad. i want her to be my friend but im not sure if she still wants to be mine. as we get older our interests are differing more and more. so basically my question is: Should i break our friendship or give it another chance???i give 5s, just so ya know
I think the best way to solve any of this is to just get her to hang out with you one night and just talk, talk about how you feel and how much you really care about her. Talk it through and fill your emotions so she can no exactly how you feel. I know how hard it is to lose a really good friend like you make her sound. If the conversation goes bad, just give it time and do soemthing special. Get a box, Take a picture of yourself of with your arm around "a invisable shoulder" in the place she should be there. Get ANYTHING you can get or think of in that box that you two ever did together. Pictures, memories, and so much more. Give her the box. How do you think she will feel?
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