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should we stay friends?
ok, ive been friends with this girl gabi since 1st grade. were both in 8th grade now. were best friends but sometimes i feel left out because she always goes out with her other friends and never tells me. weve been getting in a lot of fights lately and the past few have been really bad. i want her to be my friend but im not sure if she still wants to be mine. as we get older our interests are differing more and more. so basically my question is: Should i break our friendship or give it another chance???i give 5s, just so ya know
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I think the best way to solve any of this is to just get her to hang out with you one night and just talk, talk about how you feel and how much you really care about her. Talk it through and fill your emotions so she can no exactly how you feel. I know how hard it is to lose a really good friend like you make her sound. If the conversation goes bad, just give it time and do soemthing special. Get a box, Take a picture of yourself of with your arm around "a invisable shoulder" in the place she should be there. Get ANYTHING you can get or think of in that box that you two ever did together. Pictures, memories, and so much more. Give her the box. How do you think she will feel?
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I think you should talk about it, and have a break if you have to, to realise how you feel about your friendship. At the end of the day you guys became best friends for a reason, right? There was something that drew you together even despite your differences. Its good that you see the signs, and I think you shouldn't break your friend ship. But take a break. Becuase I think that the reason she has other friends and you dont is that you were hanging on to her and didnt want to make other friends, so hey, you never know until you try, maybe you'll find someone you'll get close to as well and you'll both be close but not best friends, it could be better that way.
But dont lie to yourself. Fights are normal, by the way, they are a part of life but if they're getting too much then its time for a break. Good luck with it all, I hope it turns out well for you.
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I say try to make it last, but if you think it's becoming obvious that things aren;t going to work out, just end it. it doesnt have to be an "official" ending, like you daying it, but just dont hang out as much and you will grow apart.
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wow well thats hard. i know what it feels like i had a friend since kindergarden and in 6th grade we broke our friendship...now that i look back i am actually glad though she isnt nice shes mean cuses makes bad decisions cheats on friends soo wow am i glad i am over her! but maybe you and gabi should stick with just friends ....you no say hi in the hallways and hang out sometimes but she doesnt seem like a best friend for you. well hope that helps!
xoxomadeline xoxolindsay
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Follow your instincts girl.If you rekon your wasting you time move onto someone whos likly to be your mate and not treat you likr trash.If you feel uncomfatable in where you stand chance are its gonna stay like that.Just talk to people and try to make new friends and and then see what happends from their.hey good luck ok.
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If you really like her you'll talk to her tell her how you feel, you can't end your friend because the last couple months have been bad because friends get in fights and you 2 will probally be friends longer than most of her other friends.
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know people always say they have been through that situation before but i have (and it has just started) anyways I think you should give it another chance. Just go with the flow. See what happends!
Signed S.L.
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