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i dont know what to do
I realllllly like this guy named Ryan.. I've liked him since last year.. but anyway I cant stop thinking about him i keep dreaming about him and i always shake when im around him and it hurts to the point where i don't wanna live without him and I know he doesnt like me but I can't help it... what should i do?
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I know exactly how you feel I've been there! Depending on your age there are deffrent aproches. BUT no matter what you want him to be a friend, start little by little and you'll get there. (be careful to not give it away that you still love him!!) After you have friendship think if you would like to take a risk...by that i mean freindship is proven to last longer than most loves so the next move is up to you if you want to be together (not with a lovelife together) if you want a love life with him just take a risk of both love and friendship. Also see how he treats his family after you know him greatly. if he is caring to everyone in his family it is most likily to work out between you two! this will be a long term project but remember if you feel the same way in 3-7ish years give it a try!!
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You definitely should forget the guy I mean what is the point about being interested in a guy who isn't interested in you,when you happen to see him just don't look at him no more just keep walking like if he wasn't there,time will determine when the pain goes away like it takes time for the mental to heal.Dreams are just illusions but you have to get him out of your mind otherwise you will be upset all the time,spent time with friends or family or doing activities or other stuff,try not to think of him.You could ask other people who went through that before to see that you are not alone on this.There was this one guy I liked a lot,took like three months that I stopped thinking about him,the pain was gone,I went on with my life like others do.If I can so can you.Don't feel sad,don't lose hope either there is some guy out there for you and have faith.
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I think what you should do is just talk to him. I am very shy myself so i no how you feel but i think you should get more involved for him to notice you more and to see what a great person you are. try to show your personalitly towards him to show your interested. try not to worry as much, calm down and just forget you like him and forget all about that stuff. if you have a lot of classes with him try to be next him and just flirt ;]
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u have to let him no how you feel about him truely and if he accpects then good for you and gud luck w/ ur relationship but if he be's a jerk and says no then tell him to fuk himself and move on!@!
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well if you know for sure he doesnt like you then theres nothing really you can do.but if you just THINK he doesnt like you then just go for it anyway...talk to him..go for the small talk first dont jump into a relationship right away you might scare him away...but yeah just start talkin to him and hang out with him for a while..then afterwards if you guys start to get to know eachother better and hang out more then ask him out..and if he says no go for the next best guy..dont base your life on one guy who might not even like you..and if he doesnt then hes not your type..hope i helped
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well.. i think that you should start to talk to him a little, get used to being around him so your not soo nervous..then get a little more flirty and if he flirts back then he might like you too...
hope i helped...
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ok in middle school i was almost the same way...just not as dramatic. I liked this one guy for like a little over a year and now i totally regret it because back then i was just HOPING he would like me and not making a move about it. so i would always be sad to kno he didnt like me. i say there are pretty much two ways to basically go with it....
1.)somehow tell him how you feel bout him, get one of your friends to help you,write a note---just dont be cheesy. Personally I wouldnt be able to do that unless i had more confidence, depends on how brave you are towards this situation
2.)Just move on--really liking someone that long and thinking they won't like you back is a WASTE OF TIME!! trust me!! i feel so stupid for ever even liking the kid i did in middle school. There are plenty of people out there and you could find one just the same as him except this person could like you back even if you don't think they'll be like him...i don't think its worth it to just "wait around" hoping he is going to like you, unless you make a move to show him you like him and see his reaction.
i hope i helped and good luck!!
*twizz
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