Question Posted Sunday September 25 2005, 12:05 am
hi i think im beginning to have a crush on this boy Michael, Michael is a senior and I am a sophmore, I met Michael last year when my cousin who was a senior last year took me to a party at his house, it was in the winter and very snowy and we drank s we stayed there. everyone was downstairs playing beerpong and i was in his living room tired, about to passout and he sat on the other couch and talked to me, hes just naturally a really nice yet really popular kid. so yeah in school he usually makes eye contact with me but we havent really talked since last feb/march? so i went to the football game with a bunch of people and i saw him on the bus and he was lookin at me ( well i think) and so somehow i had balls today and IMed him saying "nice game last night" and he said "thanks, i still couldnt play though" and i said ohh yeah.. then we didnt talk and i dont want to IM him again, and he obviously knows who i am ( my sn basically says my name) i want him to kind of get the feeling i like him (rmember we dont talk) what should i do when i see him in the halls at school? thankss <333
angelmcclain answered Monday September 26 2005, 11:41 am: i would just keep having short contact with him talk when you see him, smile alot, maybe some playful flirting. just act like yourself and let him see how cool you are. try and find out what he does in his spare time, and maybe happen to pop up at some of those event and make him see you are there by at least saying hi, the more he sees you, yhe more you will be on his mind. [ angelmcclain's advice column | Ask angelmcclain A Question ]
SevenLeggedDuck answered Sunday September 25 2005, 1:38 am: Being nervous and afraid gets you nowhere in life. You need to step it up and start actually talking to him. He's never going to get the picture if you avoid conversation with him, so just "get those balls" and get to know him. If you don't, be prepared to see him taken away by another girl. [ SevenLeggedDuck's advice column | Ask SevenLeggedDuck A Question ]
LoveableHottBaby answered Sunday September 25 2005, 12:38 am: talk to him more so that you guys get to know each other better because it seems that you guys dont talk much just look or stare at each other but yeah talk to him more and get to know him say "hey" to him in the halls and hopfully you guys start talking more at school as well as IM hope i helped! <33 [ LoveableHottBaby's advice column | Ask LoveableHottBaby A Question ]
rosebud_01 answered Sunday September 25 2005, 12:37 am: Just start small talk everyday like say "hi" or "hello" when ever you see him in the halls. Then after you get use to that then you can start asking him how he's doing. Then after a few days try to make a conversation with him. I hope that I helped but if not you can visit me at my column. [ rosebud_01's advice column | Ask rosebud_01 A Question ]
MummuM answered Sunday September 25 2005, 12:19 am: Well girl, by the things he's doing, as of right now, it seems like he may have some feelings for you also. He's been giving you a lot of eye contact, which is great. You also said that he was looking at you on the bus, which is also really great. These could be some signs. I know that you guys don't talk too much, but don't be so shy. Guys love girls with confidence. If you see him in the hall, don't hesitate to say a simple "hello, how's your day going?" or "hey, what's up?" That's a good conversation starter right there. You could also start talking to him on the computer more often. People become themselves over the internet. If you're too shy to actually go up to him in school, start chatting on the internet. Once you feel more comfortable with him, you won't be shy to talk to him at school.
♥ Krissy [ MummuM's advice column | Ask MummuM A Question ]
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