Question Posted Tuesday September 20 2005, 8:40 pm
i've liked this guy for a long time and hes really nice and one day i went to his house and at the end he kissed me twice ...well later on in school he didnt really say anything about it but we were still talking and all and then i wrote him this note and i was all so what are we just friends of what plaease write me back... so then i gave it 2 him and he like ignors me and now (today) he came up to me and is likeim so sorry for hurting you , you have been so good to me and i've treated you so bad and im so sorry .....i mean it made me feel kinda bad but he still didnt answer my question lol and i do know what to do i dont know if i should ask again cuz maybe he just wants to be my friend and not be mean about it...its just i dont know what to do im so confused but i like him so much
please help me i rate rlly high
im sorry its so long
angelmcclain answered Wednesday September 21 2005, 3:10 pm: sounds like he is embarassed, sometimes we do things and dont think about them, not saying he didnt want to kiss you. but us as woman, i am the same way, if something physical happens between us and a man, we automatically think there needs to be a relationship title to us. well i know guys have told me that the title thing is not a big deal to them . like maybe he just wanted to kiss you and may want to again but might not of been prepared for you to ask him what it all ment. i think if you all just keep hanging out and you dont pressure him to make anything offical then things will just fall into place. as long as he isnt running around kissing everyone he sees or dosent dis you infront of other woman i think if you want to possibly have a chance to have more with this guy give him time to not feel like you are trying to get him to say something hes not ready to.when you guys are spend more time together and are more comfertable around each other, meaning you wouldnt feel awkward asking him a question like who am i to you, then i think that will be the right time to ask. [ angelmcclain's advice column | Ask angelmcclain A Question ]
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