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Friend/Crush Problem!!! 911 HELP!
Ok so i have a friend Maria and i have a crush Adam. I have liked Adam for so long and one day Adam telles my bestfriend Maria that he likes her. I am totally emotianal. What should i do? I need serious advice on this one.
~Andrea~
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the same thing happened to me...I havn't told my friend that i liked him yet, but then she tells me that she knows that he likes her and she doesn't like him at all...then now im afraid to talk to him because i think that he doesn't give a care for me! are relationships hard or what? but listen, all that i would do is talk to your friend so if she finds out than she doesn't have to flirt with him because your frienship should be more important than his..good luck!
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o-m-g-s-h That happened to me like the SAME exact story!! Exxept myn was worse my frend and my crush got togther and i saw them making out.. I cried and cried and then i relized it is his loss!!!
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i would talk to maria, she is supposed to be your best friend so i am assuming she knows how you feel for adam. unfortunatly we all cant help who we like. so does she like him??? i do know i would not let a guy interfere with my friend, unless of corse she has been doing some flirtingback and disreguarding your feelings. so i think i would just get all the facts before i got to upset and then talk to maria. probley the best advice i have ever been given for the many times i was in your same situation is, you cant make someone like you, so dont let it hurt you when they dont.
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flirt with him a lot. and act like you know your sexy. play hard to get as he gets to like you. good luck
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Hey we have all been through this! Trust me, your friendship isn't worth losing over a guy. I know you liked him for a long time but sometimes things just aren't meant ot be. Thats happened before and i moved on and am already crushin on a guy named Michael! LOL How funny right? Well it wasn't your friends fault he likes her but try to move on and forget about the past.
Good Luck!
xoxo Lindsay
xoxo Madeline
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even though Maria liked him, dont blame adam liking her. Maybe they were meant to be. But who knows, it could always be a short relationshsip. Sometimes when you go out with a guy you thinkn you like them, and go out with them, but a day later its totally different. he may not like being more then friends with her. youll have other crushes, if this one doesnt work out...trust me.
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You can not change the way Adam feels, and you cannot blame Maria for his feelings. For now, all you can do is this. Make little voodoo dolls out of both of them, but don't actually bewitch them. Stab pins in them. Throw them at the wall. Smash them. Drown them. Strangle them. Beat them against the table. It's okay to be jealous (I get really jealous, really easy!!), but you must vent that jealousy in a healthy way. It is healthy to beat up fake voodoo dolls. It is UNHEALTHY to start a dramatic conflict and a couple of fist fights with the people you care about.
EDIT: I don't always bitch about this. Usually, I let it go. But why is that a ONE? I know exactly how you feel about this situation, I've been there...I AM there at this moment. I was telling you a way to deal with it, because it's true, you CAN'T do anything to change it...unless you want to hurt people in the process.
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Ah,
This is a hard one.
The best thing you can do is tell your mate how you feel - cos good mates lars a lot longer than boyfriends.
Other than than I can't really sat what to do.
It happenef to me when I was 13-14 and I was gutted thar rhis guy Chris liked my mate more than me, but I tld her how I felt and it all worked out.
There a very good saying "Lo que sra sera" Whatever will be will be, and everything happens for a reason honey.
Whatever happens make sure you don't lose a friendship over a boy - honetly in my experience - it's never worth it.
Mel
xxxxx
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