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what to say
My boyfriend and I have been dating for about a week or so now, but beofre we started going out i barely knew him since he went to a diff school and i didnt even think he really knew who i was. I dont feel uncomfortable around him like other ppl when we first start going out but i feel bad when hes with me and my friends and i dont talk. I dont know what to say to him, i always ask him how his soccer game went but that gets really old kinda fast. Hes also not the most talkative around me even though when im not around apparetnly he cant shut up. well in addition to me not knowing what to say, we're doing something this weekend and i have no clue what to do, and when we are actually together i dont want it to be all these awkward silences.
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Try asking him questions about himself like what his hobbies are and this may start up a confosation which could lead to a better relationship together
chloewizard
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Questions are always the best approach. Questions keep a conversation exciting.
-What other sports do you play?
-What do you enjoy most about them?
-Do you have other hobbies?
-What's your favorite movie?
-What's you favorite kind of music?
Same goes for the lack of things to do. Go places exciting and full of life so you can continue talking. Theme parks, big cities, and concerts are great places to start. Also, going dancing is a great way to stay social as well!
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well why did you agree to be his girl if you barely know him? you should go out with someone you really REALLY like, maybe even possibly like him a little more than just plain like... lol. maybe you should break it off gently and go to movies and stuff as FRIENDS and once you get to know him really well, then you will realize whether or not he's the right guy for you! if he is, then by then you will have TONS to talk about and memories to reminisce because you were friends first. if you stay with him, chances are that you wont get to know him well enough to truly like him! i hope this helps sweetie... good luck!
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