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okay im katy* and i reaalllyyy like tim*. we totally have a thing going. like everyone thinks we should go out. but idk i dont really feel like going out. i mean I LOVE HIM enough to go out but i dont know. and we always go to the movies. with other people too though. and he put his arm around me and idk what to say to do. im 13....and i dont want to like makeout with him or anything. i mean i WANT to but i wont. and i just need some advice. like i want to whisper to him or something. but I Dont Know what to say. HELP. PLEASE.

wow! im so proud of you sweetie! if that guy wants to make out with you, dont you let him if you dont want him 2!! dont move too quickly, you'll regret it later! maybe sometime you can ask him to the movies, just him and like your best friend and her bf. so it would be your bff and her boy, and you and tim. so you would be with tim the entire time, and things will happen slowly. DONT LET HIM MAKE YOU DO THINGS YOU DONT WANT TO! if he does something you dont like, anything sensual, that you dont like, feel free to get on 2 him. if you dont, he'll go further and further next time, and at that rate, u'll lose your virginity in 2 months!! i hope this helps! good luck sweets!!

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My boyfriend and I have been dating for about a week or so now, but beofre we started going out i barely knew him since he went to a diff school and i didnt even think he really knew who i was. I dont feel uncomfortable around him like other ppl when we first start going out but i feel bad when hes with me and my friends and i dont talk. I dont know what to say to him, i always ask him how his soccer game went but that gets really old kinda fast. Hes also not the most talkative around me even though when im not around apparetnly he cant shut up. well in addition to me not knowing what to say, we're doing something this weekend and i have no clue what to do, and when we are actually together i dont want it to be all these awkward silences.

well why did you agree to be his girl if you barely know him? you should go out with someone you really REALLY like, maybe even possibly like him a little more than just plain like... lol. maybe you should break it off gently and go to movies and stuff as FRIENDS and once you get to know him really well, then you will realize whether or not he's the right guy for you! if he is, then by then you will have TONS to talk about and memories to reminisce because you were friends first. if you stay with him, chances are that you wont get to know him well enough to truly like him! i hope this helps sweetie... good luck!

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I bet yall are thinking "Oh great ? Another guy question" I`m sorry, lol but I had to ask. Me and Zack went out for 9 months. ( Lol, we were only in 6th grade, but we went out for a long time cus we had so much fun going to movies and stuff ) But then he broke up with me. I was heartbroken and cried for days. I got over it and we became best of friends and I`ve even had a few boyfriends since then. But all along I`ve still liked Zack. I`ve helped him hook up with some of my best friends and every time I do I can't take it. I`ve told him i liked him before but we usually go into the ackward state were we just sorta ignore each other till I tell him I like another guy. What should I do? Were finally BFFs again and I don't wanna ruin it again, but I still like him. Sorry for being so long, thnks again and I will definitly rate high. xox

OMG!! I am going through almost the exact same thing!! I liked this guy all last year and he flirted with me a lot, so I thought he liked me back... We became BFF's by the end of the year, and I called him up one day and told him I had liked him for awhile. It was awkward for awhile, so I just told him I liked my male-neighbor, so now we're BFF's again. I've gone out with a few other guys, but I never really liked them. What I did worked out, so I'm almost sure it'll work out with you... just ask him who he likes.. Be like "Hey, I told you who I like, so now it's your turn!!" If he doesn't want to tell, ask him to give you clues (hair color, eye color, etc.). I know it sounds stupid, but your younger, so it should work for you too! If you match most of the characters, he's probably crushing on you, too! If not, then just kind of still flirt with him for awhile.. And remember, guys don't tend to really mature about the whole BF/GF thing until 8th grade, so he may secretly like you, but doesn't know how to tell you...
I really do hope this works for you! Good luck sweetie!!!

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