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describe myself hmmm well im a wild out going girlie!
im from england, i've been through a hell of alot with parents... counsellors... social workers... sex...pregnancy... relationships.. long distance love... all that so you can ask me almost anything!
my friends say im good at advice but i dno lol i do try my hardest if i dont know what to say or the best option i dont say it saving people getting annoyed with me lol hehe!
drop messages in my inbox im more likely to answer then on the site :) xXx
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Alright I'm 15 and I'm a male. My girlfriends birthday is comming up really soon & she won't tell me what she wants for her birthday. I have no idea what I should get her. She's going to be 14. If anyone can give me some ideas it'd be greatly appreciated. I'll rate you on it too. I really need some help. Thanks (link)
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omgosh i know the cutest thing!!!
an ID bracelet u knwow hat i eman right? like a chain but a plate on the front and like put her name n the front and on the back put i love you or with love (your name) or something like that your own words just something sweet and nice! x
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Please help,
I broke up with my girlfriend about 6 months ago, and I have been depressed ever since. About 1 month ago I ran into her and I have made numerous attempts by calling her way too much and going over to her house to try and talk to her but she does not want to see me. "I broke off the relationship". She is seeing an older man in his late 50's I am 31 and she is 36. What should I do. (link)
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im going to start off bye saying what the people under me are saying its going to be VERY hard and you probably have already realised that! my boy friend split up with me on thurs i was with him for 13 months he was literally everything to me and we split up because of his religion and his mum made him choose between us. we still love each other but we cant talk to each its breaking my heart to pieces and i cant imagian the rest of my life without him im just trying to say i know it was very hard!
Right stop and think why you broke up with her in the first place, did she understand the reason? did she know how u felt and did she know how u felt? if yes think why is she not talking to you.
maybe try writing a letter to her and i would write it all on the computer that way before she opens it she doesn't know it's you. write down how you feel and that your sorry and its like 6 months on and its still destroying you. make it really cute and deep.
if you tried that and it didnt work
have you tried talking to her friends see how she feels explain to them what the situation is for you, how you feel. friends listen to each other and when her frend next see's her it will all come out and she will understand. tell her you understand she's going out with another person and that you understand you probably wont get back with her but say can't you still be friends and at least end it on a happy note not how it is now.
hope that gives you some guidelines to go on x x x
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hi, i need some advice, i gave my now ex boyfriend a lend of some money& said he would pay me back , but hasnt yet/ i dont want to get his parents involed/ i need to know how to get the money back soon. (link)
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yeah im in the was situation my boy friend of 13 months didnt have much money and i had to lend him some for all different reason he says he'll pay me back my £40 if you really need it back say now im in a struggle with money could i have it back you could just say that was my money could i have it back?
if he doesnt have it maybe then you could threaten him saying you'll ring his mum if its alot! i knwo that not a nice idea but it could bring him back with the cash x good luck x
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there is this guy that i like and he says he likes me to and we have been talking for about two months and we act like we are datin ans everyone thinks we are but were not. why hasent he asked me out ?
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maybe he doesnt want to ruin the perfect relationship of just more then friends. maybe he thinks that he dont want to like put his hole life to someone so quick maybe he needs more time to think things other.
maybe hes had other g/f's and he feels people act different when there over friends then going out, maybe hes been told he changes and he just doesnt want to hurt you. if u can try talk to him say we act like were going out so what is stopping us, if u really are meant to be together it will be ok and he will say what you want to here back.
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14/f so i've been with my boyfriend for half a year.. and umm we made out a little i guess... so we were lying on my bed...watching tv and whatnot. his hand was on my pants playing with the belt hoops and suddenly he put his hand down my pants slightly...then he went farther and i kinda jumped...and told him no so he was okay with it...soo its a couple of days later..and i'm hanging out with him... he has his arms around me from behind and then his hands drop around my stomach and lower..then he puts his hands on my legs and he moves his hands... brushing up against /there/ and then he suddenly moves his hands to my stomach again...then few minutes later he puts his hands against THERE again...and i kinda got stiff...and i told him not to do it again.. i dunno.... so im just confused. in my mind i wouldn't mind if he did it but my parents said that im too young to do anything below the neck so.. yea and thats stuck in my head so i'm just stuck in middle of wondering what to do.. so..
the next time he does that..what do I do? break up with him or seriously tell him 'NO'. yeah..
lately hes getting a little weird..or horny i guess? cuz when we hang out...he's always behind me pushing my ass into him and whatnot... or like..he pushed me up into a table and talked to people while he was between me..then he would come closer and kiss me while leaning over the table a little too much.. almost like the missionary position. yeahhhh. i dunno. i'm just..blah right now. i don't want to have sex because that ruins a relationship...if you dont get enough or if you do it too much. gah. i dunno! (link)
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who says hes asking for sex?
the first time he probably thought you were joking the second time now you said it more serious if he does it again you either seriously need to talk to him about breaking up because of it, if its making you uncomfortable then is it the best thing?
listen to what your parents say but then listen to what your heart also says.
your parents dont want to be thinking you being fingered or giving head parents only talk about the sex when they talk about teens. think what you want.
people say they feel like they wasted alot when they just have sex get fingered all that.
im nearly 15 been with my boy friend 13 months maybe too much info but he fingered me after about 5 months i gave him head after about 6-7 i tossed him off about 5 i suppose, we had sex about a month ago so about our year together. and i dont regret a thing. yeah my parents probably wouldnt aprove but then they dont know.
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hey this guy i know said that he loved me, but i never saw him before and know nothing about him..and after he told me he loved me i asked him if he knew anything about me and he said my name and then he said isent that enough..he was acting really retarded..and now every time i talk to him hes like hey babe, what's up sexys...should i go out with him?! (link)
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do you really like him? do you rally trust him can you trust someone that they love you when you haven't met him and do you think you wold ever meet him?
my suggetion is to tell him that you dont like him in the same way but if you got to knwo each other could you?
and if he stays around then u can think that hes genuin and if hes like fine then you cna tell he wasnt realy interested in you in the first place!
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well today is my bf's birthday so we are going to lunch at a nice (in other words, expensive) resturant with another couple. i invited him, so does that mean i have to pay for him? its a pretty expensive place and im 14 and he's turning 15. thanks! (link)
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yeah i think it does huni, i know he;s the guy but i think he would expect you to pay if he's a real gentleman he'll say oh i cant let u pay that and he'll pay msome or all which is good news for u :D
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im 16 years old and 8 months pregnant..my boyfriend ..which is the father and is 19..wont have anything to do with me..he wont even touch me anymore yea he comes over every now and then but he doesnt stay long..it breaks my heart because i love him so much..he says he loves me but it definately doesnt feel like it..what can i do? (link)
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awwwww huni!
try asking him why he wont talk or touch you? maybe he's just scared about whats going to happen in the next month! hes going to be a father after all its a big step for him, more you then him but you know hat guys are like, when he next comes round talk to him see how he feels and tell him how you feel. maybe when the baby comes along it will bring you back closer as there's a little bundle around!! good luck with everything hope the birth goes ok and if you like send me a piccie when s/he born :D
email me if u like sarahlouise_hall1@yahoo.co.uk xXx
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im 19 m and my gf is 18 and 7 months pregnant..shes emotional as hell and cries all the time..even when im with her..im away alot cus i play baseball and thats what i do for a living and she understands..waht can i do to makes her happy? please help me..thanks (link)
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being pregnant makes you VERY emotional over everything!!!!
is shes on her own see if she'll go on
http://www.babynamesworld.com/forum/forum7.html
theres loads pregnant woman and if u register you can talk to them its really good and you can see how other woman who are pregnant feel xXx good luck hun xXx
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my friends ken and sarah really like each other. they just started dating yesterday. the problem is, she lives an hour away from our town. they both love each other so much, but she is having a few doubts about the long distance relationship. i think LDR's are hard and don't usually work out, but i think these two can pull it off with their love. what do you think they should do? if you need more info, please tell and i will give it.
-me (link)
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if they love each other and they really commit and have the money to like go on the train or whatever to see each other it will be all worth it in the end! they do work out some can get hard but as long as u love and trust they do work!
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well i have a few questions.
1. whats the "easiest" way to break up with someone? (i know its not "easy" but i barely talk to the guy anyway and thats why im breaking it off)
2. how long should i wait before going out with one of his friends? (we were together for 2 months...theyre not close and his friends last relationship ended a week into mine.)
thanks & let me know if u need more info. (link)
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i would say i think it was better when we were friends and as we dont talk whats the point,
and i wouldnt go out with his mate!
if it was ok with the ex i would leave it about 3/4 months maybe!
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i dont know if someone already answered my ? but i cant find it so ill type it again. theres this girl that is 15 and she called me a loser and a freak a lot last year. now shes all over me. she squeezes my cheeks and she calls me cute and gives me a lot of hugs. shes goin away for the summer and she was sad that i was leaving. i think she maybe was crying. i dont know what to do. i dont want her to think that im a freak by askin her if i like her but all i think about is her. what should i do????? (link)
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awww thats cute!
i think you really do like her and even if you think its stupid you should tell her how you feel... its your last chance and i think you should take it!
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PROM HELP! I NEED A WEB SITE FOR PROM HAIR OR ANY TYPE OF CUTE HAIR DO!please help me i rate 5s for any1! any web sites!? (link)
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walk into a salon and they have LOTS of mags to look throw with great hair! i think it's better then the sites! and if you have a nice hair dresser she can experiment what will look best on ya!
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Ok. Well I met this guy online about 7 months ago-We've been talking ever since the night we met. The thing is he lives in Tennesee and I live in Alabama. We met in a chatroom. I kinda like him and vice versa with him. I would go out with him but I would feel very stupid becuase I don't need an internet relationship. We could see eachother sometime because he travels with his family to auburn to watch their football games and I go with my father. I'm so confused and I have no earthly idea what to do.
Signed,
Internet Lover (link)
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i would meet up wih him first before doing naything get to know him and see what he really like people r so different go witha friend though or make sure ya dad stay with u, i remeber meeting my guy couldnt get any friend to come with me so i took my mummy she was there for like a second but it made me feel all that much safer good luck chick!
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Okay well i got a my bf jacob a few days ago and i already have regrets about it. Its like, when i am talking to him, i like him but when im not, i dont like him. I kinda wish i would have never said yes. What do i do? wait a while then break up with him or like see what happens? (link)
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think to yourself what makes you go off him when your not with him, ther must be some kinda reason,
if u cant think of anything i would break up with him but i wouldnt give it too long as he may get hurt!
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Ok latly my boyfriend has been coming over to the house im 13 and he is 14. But the point is... my brothers 8 and everytime where around him or he follows us and he sees us kiss he like starts to choke my boyfriend until he stops! its so annoying and when we try to get away from him he just follows us help!!!! (link)
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tell ur mum to talk to your brther about it or just dont go to your house, the park?
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I went to the movies with my guy friend who I'm really starting to like & a bunch of other people a day or two ago. I want to suggest that we go again but just the two of you. How should I talk to him about this? (link)
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just say hey i really enjoyed it at the cinema with the lot of us the other day but fancy going just the two of us see what he says :P good luck!
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Alright this may seem pathetic.. but I just realized I don't like my boyfriend that much anymore... I just can't dump him because I.. don't know I juust can't do it! So I was going to try to get him to dump me.. the only thing is I don't know how!! The one thing I don't wanna do is cheat on him! So does anyone have any ideas on how I should go about doing this!? (link)
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i would tell your boy friend about this gilr and say i dont wonna feel like im using you becaue of what she said so can we just be friends and if your boy friend cares he'll stop this girl because thats just stupid!!! shes telling u to use him!
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I broke up with my bf about 3 weeks ago and within that time he started going out with a girl but she broke up with him. While he was with her he was being bitchy and plain out wrong with me but now that they have broken up he regrets everything he said and did and wants me back.When we broke up I cried and was hurt for a LONG while but now I am dealing with it.Well he wants me back and I don't know if I should give him a chance part of me says yes but the other says no. I don't know what I should do but sometimes I just feel like calling him just to hear his voice but then again I don't want to get hurt again. Pleace help me out! (link)
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u said it yourself you dont want to be hurt again..
from your own advice i wouldnt go out with him again
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okay. so i dated this girl for a while. and we seemed to have a really good connection with each other. we were into the same things, we were both sarcastic smartasses, and we both liked doing the same kinda stuff. and well when i met her she was in the process of breaking up with her boyfriend. and so i was more of the friend to turn to than anything else. then slowly we started to date like after they broke up. and for about a weekend we were very into each other, and things seemed to be wonderful. then as the weekend ended she said she didn't feel the same way about me as i did about her. and so i decided to sit back and wait until she was really ready for a relationship because after some talking we kinda realized she needed some time to get back into the swing of things. and it was during this time that she began to change. she became mean, she began just totally ignoring me for days on end. the phone calls ceased. there would be whole days when i'd hear nothing from her. then i'd talk to her a bit and that was it. and now finally i come home to find out she spent the last couple days drinking, partying, and hanging out with sleazy guys. and i instantly became very mad and jealous. and i just wanna know. is it wrong for me to be mad? for me to not want her around? for me to tell her she's changed and become someone i don't know anymore? i told her not to contact me any longer, and that she had become someone else, someone i didn't know or love. and now in hindsight i kinda wanna know: was it wrong? (link)
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i dont think what u said so wrong, at least you didnt go to her level and change everything you were too, i think you really care for her and tht the only reason u reacted like that was because you were in shock the girl you liked/loved changed infront of you, what you did wasnt wrong, but i think you should give it time to settle and if YOU think it was wrong, which i think you do because your regreting it now, maybe you should txt her or something say something sweet like as long as shes happy your happy and u'll always be there as a friend if he needs help she can go to you just so she dont shes just lost a close friend..
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