my name is elizabeth. i love to have fun. i've experienced a lot for my age. i love too easily. i have goals for myself. i'm an open book so ask anything you'd like.
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okay so theres this boy, Ryan. and hes my next door neighbor. like next next door. and i went out with him in like 7th grade. i know its not really a relationship. but we just liked eachother and went out haa. but 8th grade he moved. i really never heard much from him. well, about a month ago he moved back into the same house! and its kinda weird because now hes a senior and im a sophmore. the age difference mattered more back then than it did now. so we just kinda started talking and what not. he siad he was single and so was i. well everyday he would ask me to come over and swim or just hang out. but i really never could. then i asked him to come to the movies with me and he said he couldnt. after that we really havnt talked and its been kinda weird. hes said hi to me a couple times and said sorry for not being able to come to the movies. but thats about it. then i find out that he might have had a girl friend from where he used to live. but i think thats kind of odd to ask out someone from his old school that he would never see again once hes already moved. so idk if he lied to me when he said he was single or what. i dont really have a spacific question but i just need some advice. my parents doesnt like him all that much. because hes into drinking and sex and stuff. and i cant really sneek out to his house sence he lives like right there. i know it sounds like it would be easier but it really isnt. so i cant really get involved with him but i cant really stop myself. and hes kinda flirty in a suttle way, which im not really used to. i just need advice on how i should talk to him. as a friend or be flirty? seeing how im kinda confused whether he has a gf or not. schools gonna be starting soon and ill be seeing alot more of him. so idk how things will pan out. but just how should i aproach things with him? (link)
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when you talk to him, start out by being friendly. if he starts to show more interest, then you could probably start to flirt a little, but like you said, be subtle. he probably thought when you couldn't hang out with him, that meant you didn't want to so he may have been hesitant to go with you to the movies.
as for the whole thing about the girlfriend, just ask him. if you're uncomfortable with that, try to work it into a conversation.
as for your parents, you're.. what? 15? they should be able to trust your judgement. i'm sure they know how you feel about not being able to help liking someone. just tell them he's a nice guy, and if you do date, or take things further, prove to them that he's a good guy.
good luck, hope i helped (:
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im 18 and i maybe gay over the last few months ive been hanging out a lot with a another guy and
weve become close and he started coming on to me
i wasnt sure if i gay but i really like him and he says he likes me a lot weve started touching each other and weve giving each other blowjobs
and the other day he says he wants to have sex i am bit nervous but i do want to have sex with him
so am i totally gay is that not weird is it?
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you may be gay, or you may be curious. just try to wait a little while before you have sex with him, just so you can figure things out in your head. it's not weird if your gay, things just happened to go that way for you and that's fine. i know it's been a few months, but just get to know him a little more and in a little while if you want to have sex with him, go for it.
good luck with everything.
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I said "one-time" because we only had sex 1 time. Through all of this, I realized how much I love my wife. I have not had a problem like this before and believe I will never again. I am just struggling with the thought of dropping this bomb on her. I have thought that maybe sometime in the future when this is way behind us. When we can look at this rationally and without the hightened emotions. Am I being too blue sky and will that open the wound again? (link)
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personally, i would tell her now, because if you wait, that would re open the wound. she will feel like you've been lying to her for a long time, and your trust will be questioned more than it initially would be. if you really are in love with your wife, and want to work things out, then i would break it off with the other woman completely. no phone calls, no visits, no letters, nothing. let your wife know that you are in love with her and it helped you realize your feelings for her. if you can, and will mean it, let her know it will never happen again, because you know what you have with her and your children is everything you could ever want.
good luck, let me know how things workout.
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I had an affair for a few weeks and we did have sex 1 time. It blew up horribly when my spouse found things. She does not know we were intimate and I really do not want her to know. She is a wreck and so am I. I am afraid that this will kill her - she is a little unstable right now. Why does she even need to know these details? I can carry this secret to my grave. If this were known, I believe we will end up in a divorce and our home w/kids will be destroyed, and I do not want that to happen! It seems like I remember Dr. Laura mentioned once that a one-time affair (not a long lasting one) didn't need to be disclosed. Why burden your spouse with this. Why dump these rocks on them. Its your burden to carry. Help. (link)
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if it's been going on for a few weeks, it's not a one- time affair. you're obviously not happy with your wife if you're going to someone else for intimacy and sex. she deserves the chance to find someone else so she herself can be happy.
it may be really hard, but you should tell her.
if she found out from someone else, she would be so much more hurt.
you may want to tell her, but make sure she knows that you want to work things out for the sake of your kids.
good luck, and i hope things work out for you and your wife.
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Okay I'm 14 years old and this summer has been like the crazziest summer. Okay these are the things I did just in 2 weeks
1.Gave a blow job in a public restroom
2.Had sex in a public restroom
3.Flashed a lot a guys at a public pool
4.Sent nude Photo's to atleast 7 different guys
5.Had a 3some (2 other guys)
6.madeout with a way older guy
7.Did a lot of ohter "things" in public places (link)
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you need to slow down.
if people aren't already calling you a slut, they will be soon. and i'm not trying to be disrespectful at all, but you need to look out for yourself. not just your reputation, but you could really end up hurting yourself; aka STDs, and then you'll be literally screwed. for the rest of your life. i'm not saying don't have a good time, but find one guy, and stick with him. if you keeps things like this up, guys will fool you into thinking they really like you, only they just want in your pants.
be careful and have more respect for yourself.
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heyy. so like .. i was hanging out with my guy friend, who i guess you could say is like a wanna be player. and we were sitting in his car & he kissed me. we talked after that and he told me he wanted to hook up & he seemed to be pretty into me.. and i realized that i wanted to also.. so about a week later, we hung out again and we hooked up. i wasn't sure about it before but now i feel like i like him. i wouldn't want to go out with him though because hes a player/ he can be pushy. we talked the day after we hooked up & things seemed to be chill between us but its been a few days and we havent talked. i texted him and he didnt respond .. i'm just in a state of confusion and i dont think i should like him but right now, i can't really help it. what should i do ? (link)
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i just got out of this situation.
honestly, he was just trying to get in your pants. if you know he's a played and whatnot, you deserve better. if it's been that long since you've talked, i don't think he was that into you ):
find someone better!
good luck.
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About 5 days ago I was will some friends and a guy that I had never met started texting one of my friends. He had seen me on Myspace on my friends page(They knew eachother from sports)And he started asking them if i had a boyfriend and me and my bf at the time had been fighting a lot (but the fighting you do when you care about someone a lot) and rarely got to see eachother anymore because he had been gone a lot. So they told him its complicated. I saw him later that night at a hockey game and then afterwards we went to a friends to watch a movie we ended up a holding hands but no big deal right?
The next day me and my bf got into another huge fight and me and the new guy had been texting all day. So me and my bf decided we should break up that night because of our frequent fighting. Me and the new guy texted the rest of the weekend, and on sunday night we hung out and we ended up almost making out, and we have plans to hang out tomorrow. Hes like the sweetest guy ever and I feel like we can talk about anything. My ex has been calling me a lot just to talk but we had agreed to be friends, so I understood why. Tonight hover he called me at about midnight to tell me that he missed me, i really didn't know what to say back but oh...
He told me hes still hooked on me and hes never been like that with another girl. Hes trying to change for me I can tell by his voice and what hes saying but who knows how long that will last. So now I'm tied between two...
An old caring love but with fights?
or a new love with what looks like a bright future?
Female, age 15 (link)
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if you're really in love with you're ex boyfriend, things with the new guy can't work.
but if your relationship with your ex was too damaged from all the fighting, trying to fix things with him could end up hurting you if he doesn't mean what he's saying.
you just have to figure out if you really love him and want it to work.
personally, i would see what happens with the new guy.
you aren't going to know what "love" is if you're just with one person.
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this week im telling my boyfriend that im leaving in June to move from PA to Kansas. he already knows there is a high chance but now im officially telling him. its gonna be really hard and i want to write a poem (i love to write) but idk what to write about. how i love him, how i wont forget him, or how im so, so, so sorry. can anyone please help me and maybe give me some tips on telling him. thanks so much :) (link)
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try to make it about all of that. how youlove him and hate to leave him, but can't pass up the opprotuinity that's been presented to you. how he made a big impact on you and he's someone you'll never forget.
make sure he knows you love him,
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i want to make a nice mix cd for my boyfriend with romantic songs. i know the songs will be better if i think of them myself, however, this will be the fourth cd i have made for him and i'm running out of songs. i would like to have this done by valentine's day. does anyone know any good love songs? i would prefer alternative and rock songs, but any would be greatly appreciated. thank you in advance. (link)
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oxygen- new found glory
you had me at hello- a day to remember
i miss you- blink 182
brighter- paramore
thunder- boys like girls
parkinglot romance- a day away
dark blue- jack's mannequin
i'll catch you- the get up kids
your guardian angel- the red jumpsuit apparatus
bike scene- taking back sunday
until the day i die- story of the year
addicted- simple plan
of all the gin joints in the world- fall out boy
first time- life house
she is- the fray
ha, there's a few.
i think it'd make a killer mix.
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I'm sixteen and since I was ten (young I know) I dated this guy. I was with him for a little of six years on and off. More on than off though. We dated for about a year straight the first time he asked me out. We were really young, but it was cute, ya know? So anyways as we got older we would take "breaks" and see other people. But then when I was 14-15 we went out for a year. I really grew to love him. And that's the truth. I am in love with him still even though we aren't together and he has a girlfriend. I wanna puke everytime I see them. And I cry almost everytime I see them together. I'm trying to get away from it, but it's so hard. I love him. I'm not one to throw out the "l" word either so you can trust me when I tell you I love him. I can't do anything without thinking of him. In a way I want him back so bad, but in a way I want to forget him. What should I do? (link)
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you're not going to feel any better until you tell him.
i just went through the same thing you did, and it sucks. you have to tell him. i don't care if he has a girlfriend. when you tell him, tell him you don't have the intention of ruining his relationship, but you had to tell him how you felt. you'll feel better, and if what you had was real, you'll have him. not right away, you have to be patient, but just tell him.
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I am an intelligent junior in high school and as of now i have yet to have a real boyfriend. i look at other girls walkin around w/ their guys and i get so left out. i dont know what i m not doing. i mean, when i like a guy, its pretty frickin obvious but i can never get them to notice me like i want. and if they do its one of those "courtesy talks", like they'd rather be doing something else.
i will probably graduate 1st in my class, as much as i m working now...
but my lovelife has yet to begin and i feel like i m working so hard, but still not feeling as satisfied/happy with my life as i want (link)
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this sounds just like i was in junior high. you have to learn to relax and not care as much about school work. i'm not saying don't do your homework or study, but just be a kid for a while and don't worry so much about school. the way i see things is i would rather have awesome memories and decent grades, than amazing grades but have no fun. once you loosen up a litte, boys will be coming up to talk to you. i promise.
just have fun!
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My boyfriend and i have kissed before, but we are both pretty inexperienced. what are some good ways of kissing....in other words, what are good movements to do with your tounge and what should i be doing?
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if you're both really inexperienced, it really won't matter. making out is kind of something that just comes to you. when you're kissing him you'll know exactly what to do, how to do it, etc. it's fun, but nothing to fret about.
have fun :]
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i love you so much (link)
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talk to me?
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16/m
so i dated this girl Ashley about 4 months ago and we broke up. We went out for a little longer than 4 months and i even told her that i loved her which is a huge deal to me. She was my first really serious relationship and i thought that we were perfect for each other. We then broke up bc we went to different schools and we realized that i wasnt working. I thought i had moved on since then but i havent had any serious relationships just like hook up kind of things. I recently found some pictures we took together (just normanl ones) and all of a sudden i cant stop thinking about her and i keep thinking that i made a HUGE mistake breaking up with her. Im scared to call her again but i really want to talk to her. Is this normal? should i feel this crappy? (link)
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it's normal. you're heartbroken. my advice? call her and talk to her like you're friends. talk to her a few times and if the subject doesn't come up, like if she doesn't bring it up, ask her about it. tell her how you feel, even if she has a boyfriend, she needs to know how you feel, and for you to feel better, you have to tell her.
good luck.
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soo I have this amazing girlfriend and she really means the world 2 me. I can never stop thinking about her...EVER! She tells me that she feels the same way. We've been going out for 3 months and its been great! The only problem is that my parents caught us having sex for the first time....a bit embarrassing i must say my dad was understanding but i lost my mom's trust..but anyway we loved the experience while it lasted and I wanna know if we should try it again? what about my parents? How do I know if she is really the one? I keep having dreams about marrying her...dreams are ALWAYS about her. (link)
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you should talk to your parents, tell them that you're sexually active, and you should use protection [wear a condom and have her take birth control]. it would be helpful to know you're age, but i'll guess around 14-16? if that's your age, you really can't tell if she's "the one" sorryyyy. you're young. you're going to have sooo many girls you "love" and 3 months isn't too long, but if you have strong feelings for her, then who knows.
good luck
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how do you makeout? thanks
14/f (link)
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it really doesn't get tiring, believe it or not. it is just a thing of instinct. like.. things will just happen, i promise. if you want to stop, slow down a little, stop using your tongue, and just kiss him softly and slowly and pull away a little.
have fun (;
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what are some things you can do to make making out more exiting (link)
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staddle/ get on top of him or her. change speed, like go really fast, the slow.. uhmm..do it in different places. let your hands wander. have fun with it (:
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i'm 15 and have a boyfriend of a year and 2 months. i love my boyfriend but i also love it when other guys look at me. like, i have no intention of thinking of them in romantic ways, or even knowing the person, i just like being looked at. is that wrong? (link)
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not at all.. you like to be noticed. there's absolutely nothing wrong witht that. as long as you don't want them in a romantic way, let them look allll they want.
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Okay this guy from my old school starts talking to me on msn so i invited him to my bithday party he came we had a blast he started hanging with me even though he knew like alot of people there and starting flirting with me. He was really nice and he said i was the most prettiest girl he's ever met. But thenthe next day he starts texting me all of a sudden sayin hey supp and makeing conversation. So then i got intrested so i told him he said oh well i do want to be with you but we don't see eachother if we start to see eachother more and more then their should be a chance between you and me. But it summer and in one week he's leaving for vacation so how can i show him that we can work even if we don't live near eachother in 7 days? i mean ofcourse he'll want to spend time with me but he probabaly would rather spend time with his other friends for his last week here... and when he comes back thats going to be way too long and i reaally like him...
i can invite hime once out of that 7 days but i don't wanna seem desprate :( what should i do?
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if he likes you too and you invite him over, i promise you won't look desperate. have a talk with him and just explain that you really like him and tell him how much you think you could work.. bring up the fact that you both have phones, you can text, call, email, and when he gets back he can see you. you should be fine, just ask him to hang out and have fun with him.
good luck (:
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Hey im in a dilemma lol
Tomorrow is my graduation. I just happened to like a boy today. Im not going to the same high school as him anymore and hes moving out of this area. I really like him and if i spend more time with him this summer, im just going to get more attached and it would be harder for me to let go. What should i do?
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if you really genuinely like him, then keeping in touch should be no problem when he moves. i'm assuming since you're graduating, at leadt one of you can drive. you can see eachother all the time during the summer. talk on the phone, email, even go old fashioned and write letters. haha. i'd say, keep talking to him, hang out, and have fun with him. see where things go.
nothing to lose, right?
good luck, have fun (:
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