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My ex...that I miss


Question Posted Sunday December 23 2007, 7:57 pm

I'm sixteen and since I was ten (young I know) I dated this guy. I was with him for a little of six years on and off. More on than off though. We dated for about a year straight the first time he asked me out. We were really young, but it was cute, ya know? So anyways as we got older we would take "breaks" and see other people. But then when I was 14-15 we went out for a year. I really grew to love him. And that's the truth. I am in love with him still even though we aren't together and he has a girlfriend. I wanna puke everytime I see them. And I cry almost everytime I see them together. I'm trying to get away from it, but it's so hard. I love him. I'm not one to throw out the "l" word either so you can trust me when I tell you I love him. I can't do anything without thinking of him. In a way I want him back so bad, but in a way I want to forget him. What should I do?

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Brandi_S answered Sunday December 23 2007, 11:22 pm:
It's no easy task to forget your first love.
The thing of it is, you just have to try to. He isn't available at this time. If you still feel this way about him and haven't moved on when the time comes that he is available again, then try to make something of it.
In the meantime, there isn't a lot you can do. You can't change your feelings, but you can't let it consume you, either.

ygs-29/f

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alwaysmile answered Sunday December 23 2007, 11:21 pm:
you're not going to feel any better until you tell him.
i just went through the same thing you did, and it sucks. you have to tell him. i don't care if he has a girlfriend. when you tell him, tell him you don't have the intention of ruining his relationship, but you had to tell him how you felt. you'll feel better, and if what you had was real, you'll have him. not right away, you have to be patient, but just tell him.

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