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OK my best friend is going out with my ex and i think i still have feelings for him. They are trying to help me through it but nothing is working. Can you help me? (link)
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The best thing to do is try to forget him. Find someone new and just move on!
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Well I started dating this guy and we've only been dating 4 like 2 weeks but we talk less now than we did b4 we started going out and I hardly ever see him..and then theres this other guy I like and talk 2 like everyday and I see him more than my bf so I'm thinking about dumping the first guy 4 the 2nd one...but how do I let him down easy?? or should I just stay with him and see what happens??? Thanks! (link)
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Well really the choice is yours yes i no this is ADVICEnators but you need to really decide what is best!
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I am 13/f
i have problems makin out with guys or even getting them close to me and i wanna make out nd have a relationship how???
do i ask him out??
wut do i do? (link)
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First of all your only 13. Dont rush you got your whole life ahead of you to make out and start a long lasting relationship. If you ever want to make it for a whie with a guy and have a great relationship wait till your older and you know alot more!
Advice grl!
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i am 14/f
there is this guy that i like and he knows i like him. but i don't know if he likes me, i still have to ask. i know how to do that part, but there is this other guy i just met and im always partnered up with him in health.
the question is, should i like the first guy and forget about (not completely) the second guy, or should i find out if the first guy likes me and still like the second guy anyway, or should i do something else. i need some guy help. thanx. (link)
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ASk the first guy if he likes you if not go for the second one you have a back up plan!
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this guy (chris) and me kinda were going out... (too long to post here sorry.. try to fallow..) and it got broken up .. a few times... but not by us... (im 15 and hes 18 but love knows no age, and we live a state apart..) and than i had to go and take care of my problems and he waited for me... well i by the time i got back and relized he was waiting... i was in a relationship.. and so i dumped my bf.. (it wasnt healthy anyways thats another story..) but when i was talking 2 Chris and i told him than i was singal he was like.. "ohh well now i found someone.." so now im sitting here and i think about him all the time... and im waiting for him... but is he a lost cause...? am i letting other hunks slid cuz im waiting... i dont know what to do... help please!
thanks millions
xoxoxo (link)
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This guy chris is so not worth the wait. if you are passing up all of these hunks then there is something wrong. yeah i no its cool to be going out with a highschool guy but dont let al these other guys just slip away from you!
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13/f
wow.. after our break up and it was almost our 3rd month i love him alot. and next thing i know it im going through a break up and hes ignoring me like a mother freaker. i hope he regrets it. seriously, i havent gotten any answers yet.. like why cant we just be friends? why didn't he tell me he wanted me to change instead of saying "its over." and leave me there thinking why. idk what to do.. he looks happier than i am.. which makes me more sasd. what am i supposed to do... leave him alone give him space and let him hate me? it was one little break up.. and it turns to something serious. my friend says if i like him alot.. and its worth it, go after him.. but im not the one supposed to go after him. I want him back, and i promised that i would change just for him. But then.. he wont listen to what im trying to tell him or say to him.. its either hes ignoring me or he reads the question or stuff im sending him but doesn't reply.
PLEASE HELP. i have alot of shit in my life now. (link)
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Ok first of all CALM DOWN!!! Thats the first important thing. second of all this guy is not worth it. if he cant be friends with you and he didnt tell you what you did then something is waaay wrong. usually when a girl and a guy break up they say lets be friends and then they talk but dont hang out. i mean if you really really like him still send him a note on paper asking him what you did and why you guys cantt be friends and if he ignores confront him and say "ok what is wrong? why did you break up with me what did i do and i know your gonna ignore me but i still really like you and if i need to i can change. please answer my note!"
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hi...ive recently jus started goin out with this guy, and i realli love him.
the problem is .. he isnt the type of guy (looks wise) i wudda gone for .. the only reason im goin out with him is because of his personality and caring side...is this stupid?
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That is not so stupid. The only reason you go out with a guy is because you dont really care about looks but there could be another guy out there cute great personality and caring.
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about a 6 months ago i caught my b/f cheating on me. we were going out for about two years before that and i thought everything was perfect. no warning signs or anything. it hurt me really bad. after that i wouldnt go out with anyone because im so afraid that they'll hurt me like he did. i guess i have a huge trust problem. now theres this guy i like but i just cant go out with him. i know i should because he seems like the perfect guy, but so did my ex. thats my first problem. the other one is that i saw my ex a couple of weeks ago and that brought back old feelings. and he started to call me a few times too. i thought i was over him but now that hes made an appearance im not so sure. he says that he thinks we could patch things up and go out again. i told him that we could never because i wouldnt trust him. he says that he made a mistake and that hes sorry. its like i like him but i hate him. i dont know what to think anymore. (link)
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Just because he says sorry doesnt mean he means it! He cold do it again if he felt like it and after ruining all the years and months you were together i wouldnt trust him. Just keep moving on go out with the other guy!
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Alright, so I've liked this guy for most of the summer, but when he actually started liking me, and wanted to start "going out," I wasn't really sure if I wanted to do the same. I mean, I'm going into high school and I guess I don't really want to be tied down by some other guy. So, anyways, I did say yes to him about "going out" and now I think I made the wrong choice. I want to tell him that I think we should just be friend's 'cause I don't want anything to be awkward. Because now that we've started going out (about 3 days ago) he hasn't even called, or talked to me. I'm going to try and tell him that I think we would be better off by not going out and just being friend's, but I don't know how to make it so it doesn't sound mean or rude. I still like him, but I don't want to be "going out."
By the way, I'm a 14 year old girl. (link)
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Well what i think you should do is call him up...im saying call him because its easier over phone. But anyway call him and say before i say anything i just want you to know i really do like you then say but i dont want to be going out because im afraid it will be really awkward and i want to be really good friends just not boyfriend girlfriend kind of thing i really hope you understand!
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This guy liked me for several years. He told me and asked me out several times. I started to like him too. We decided to try it out, and for several months we were blissfully happy. And then it all went wrong. I got mad about something I heard about him cheating on me, he got mad I didn't trust him and dumped me on the spot. First issue in our relationship and we're over. He then expected me to be friends with him but I said screw you and blocked him.
My mom reckons he was just using me. I just can't understand why he would, but then why would he give up on me so easily? I know he had liked me a long time yet one bad thing happens and it's over. Just like that. No attempt to work things out.
I tried to make a complete break of him and get him out of my life and for a few weeks I didn't hear from him. Then he messaged me out of the blue and we started talking. And we discussed where it all went wrong, and he said he had been planning to do it for a while but he was going to do in person. Then he said "let's meet and work it all out, perhaps get back together, at least let's be friends" and agreed and went up to him the next day, and he made me feel like a fool by saying there was nothing else to work out. He said he only wanted to be friends again. So I yelled at him that night and said I no longer wanted to try and be friends and he said I was a bitch because we had been friends for so long and I was throwing it all away. I told him it was no longer my concern and if he wanted to work things out, he had to come up to me and do it in person and he was the one who gave up on us so easily. Haven't heard from him since. The truth is, I didn't wanna be friends because I couldn't get over him that way.
We work together so I see him all the time. And I can't get over him even though he's such an asshole and he's probably over me. What should I do? Am I a bitch for not being friends with him? And why would he give up on us so easily if he had liked me so long? That makes me so mad.. I wanted to work things out and he didn't.. I can't figure it out.
thanks. (link)
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Ok it doesnt mean he was using you. When he said he liked you for a looooooooong time that is a while, he could of been getting over you. He also could have been waiting to break up cuz he didnt want to hurt your feelings just keep things where they are!
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my boyfriend & i have been dating for almost 6 months. we love & respect each other very much. the furthest we've been is 1st, & we don't even do that anymore. i try my best to respect my parent's wishes which consisted of hugs, cuddling, & an occasional kiss. lately it seems like they're becoming more & more overprotective with this rule. my boyfriend came over last night & i had a stomachache & didn't feel good. so, he put a pillow on his chest/stomach area & let me lie on it. he spread his legs out so i could lie down while he sat down comfortably. our "private parts" weren't touching indirectly, because i know my dad doesn't like that. he was rubbing my tummy to try to make me feel better. no one told us to stop so i thought they didn't mind it. then i overrheard them talking about it today & how disgusting it was. how my "private parts" are above & below my tummy so he should never touch there. so then i told my parents later on i wouldn't do that but i just feel bad that they keep assigning random rules left & right & i feel like a bad person, because i do. my boyfriend is hurt everytime i tell him we can't do something because my parents don't approve of it, but they always feel uncomfortable telling us that. he feels like they don't trust us. & i feel the same way. why don't they? we don't do anything majorly wrong. i'm trying so hard to gain their trust. when we're alone, we do the same as when we're around them. i don't want to do nothing around them & then do more with him when we're alone [nothing past a peck] because i feel weird about that. like i'm sneaking or something. someone please help me fix all of this. i've talked to them about it many times but they just don't listen. they say they're too old fashioned. but they're really hurting my relationship with my boyfriend. we have a lot of love & sometimes we want to show it physically, but just with a hug & an occasional kiss. they're married & have sex, so why can't they understand that? ugh i can't take it anymore. thanks if you can help. (link)
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Well find a way to know they can trust you...my parents do the same thing they are just protecting you...they dont want you to do anything you will regret. Tell your boyfriend that they just want to protect both of you because his parents might feel the same way they dont want him to do anything he will regret and if something happens you cant change it so dont complain because you will thank your parents one day!!!
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Theres this guy that I work with (I work at Worlds of fun, an amusment park were both 14) well anyways i really like him. hes one of the people that dress up as the snoopy characters (lol i know its funny) and i work in the gift shops so sometimes ill see him. that last time we talked we talked and kinda flirted a little bit. and the other day we walked passed eachother we just stared at eachother it was like neither of us could take our eyes off of eachother lol i know it sounds retarded but i really do like him but i dont know what to say so him when we talk please give me advice about how i can show this guy that i like him and hoe can i terll if he likes me? (link)
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If you are walking to like someone where to eat or you are on your break and he is too then just say you want to go to like lunch? if he says yes then just take it from there!
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okay to start off I'm such an IDIOT! I dumped my boyfriend about a month ago, and we went out for 4 months. i was happpy that i dumped him cuz i wanted to be single. i still like being single but i still like my ex. It made me sad when i figured out the girl he liked. He is still like my friend and stuff but i kno he doesn't like me. How do i get over him? I WILL RATE (link)
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Think of everything you couldnt have done when you were with your ex. Stay friends its the best thing...just think and do other stuff to keep him off your mind
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i'm 15 almost 16 female
okay so i'm going out with this great guy but he's out of town so much and i'm tryin to have fun and at a party i met this really sweet guy and we hung out the whole time; the only problem is that i think he likes me and i never see my boyfriend and i would actually see this guy; so should i break up with my boyfriend or what? i'm so confused! (link)
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Well since he is ur boyfriend but u never see him then its not a relationship to keep going with have fun girl ! GET OUT
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My boyfriend and I broke up a little more than 2 months ago, and about a week ago he told me that he still loved me and could never bare to tell his mom we broke up because it would make it "real." I told him that i still love him too, and, even though we had gone back to being best friends after we broke up, now that we both admitted to still liking eachother we have barely talked or anything. I'm starting to worry our frienship is falling apart, which is more important to me than ANYTHING. Is there any way i could make a move to tell him we're still OK and nothing's changed, anything u guys think will help...or, more importantly, any reason this has happened? (link)
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hi
just find your friend and tell him that you would love to go back with him. Or most importantly tell him you really loved being friends but mostly together. And thats how you want it to stay. Try that
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