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Confused about a certain guy.
Alright, so I've liked this guy for most of the summer, but when he actually started liking me, and wanted to start "going out," I wasn't really sure if I wanted to do the same. I mean, I'm going into high school and I guess I don't really want to be tied down by some other guy. So, anyways, I did say yes to him about "going out" and now I think I made the wrong choice. I want to tell him that I think we should just be friend's 'cause I don't want anything to be awkward. Because now that we've started going out (about 3 days ago) he hasn't even called, or talked to me. I'm going to try and tell him that I think we would be better off by not going out and just being friend's, but I don't know how to make it so it doesn't sound mean or rude. I still like him, but I don't want to be "going out."
By the way, I'm a 14 year old girl.
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okaay if yur unconfortable with him yu shud dum him but make it not harsh maybe be like w.e. his name is i love yuu but not in that wayy i see you more like a ` brother and i just can't go out wit a brother i'm so sorry please can we still be friends and 14 is'nt a young age to be dateing i noe kids 10 that date...but if dateing is cause you doin bad in school then you shoud stopp but if you could do both then you should because you never know someone might be out there for you just wating for you!
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Well the thing is he'll get over it,also good thing you found that out on time because when a person keeps seeing that person they like a lot then the feelings grow for the other,I'm completely sure he'll understand,step aside, and let you be happy with the person you choose to be with as it should be.
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I know where your coming from . You guys both have strong feelings for eachother but maybe not strong enough yet? Well you need to call him and just say " look i really like you and you like me too but i think its best if we just be friends for now,maybe in the future when were both ready and right now it just doesn't feel right. Just tell him & let hom down easy , be nice about it though. Tell him you wanna carry on how it was before you started going out and maybe we could move on further. Okay hope i helped.
♥ Chels
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Well what i think you should do is call him up...im saying call him because its easier over phone. But anyway call him and say before i say anything i just want you to know i really do like you then say but i dont want to be going out because im afraid it will be really awkward and i want to be really good friends just not boyfriend girlfriend kind of thing i really hope you understand!
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Well, I know exactly where you're coming from!! If you arent 99% sure you want to date this guy, DONT!! Just say, "Okay, [name], I'm glad that you like me, because I like you too. But, I dont know if we should go out anymore. Im not sure if I want a boyfriend right now, and we have barely talked since we started dating, so I dont think either of us are ready", and dont feel like you need to apologize, because you didnt do anything to him. If he gets upset or mad, say, "Maybe we can try it again later, when we're ready, because i still like you". If he agrees, then its all good. And it might sound stupid or gay, but its not.
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You should tell him as soon as possible,cuz the longer you keep him from knowing the truth,the longer youll give him hope that he still has a chance with you and then youll tell him later on and bring him down like *BAM*.You wouldnt like it if that happened to you.The sooner you tell him,the faster hell get over this.Tell him that you dont want to go out with him cuz youre starting a new school yea and dont want to be occupied with anything but your studies and your freinds.Theres no NICER way to say it so.If you say it any nicer hell take advantage of the fact that youre being nice and convince you NOT to break up with him,so good luck.
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Just tell him that you don't want to have a boyfriend right now, and that you just want to stay friends with him. If you say it in a calm tone and explain it to him, he should understand. Sure, he may be upset, but he'll get over it. I don't think he'll get mad if you explain that you just want to be friends.
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