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k well, every guy i go out with i really like him and what ever, well, i have this issue, ive gone out with most of them for at least a month, and every time they ask me to do something with them, or hang out, or come to their house, i always make up a lame freaking excuse, i hate it, the one guy im going out with right now, i like him so much, i seriously think im in love with him this is our second time going out, and he always askes me to go to his house, and i always make up an excuse, i guess im afraid of whats he gunnah think about me, because i mean, im not pretty. at least not to me. i mean i have random people come up to me and theyll be like awe your so gorgeous, i dont think i am, im really self concious because i have ache. like so freaking self concious about it. can anyone help me like.. figure out why im self concious, i mean i wannah figure out why i keep doing this, i wannah spend time with my boyfriend so bad, but i keep stopping myself.
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you should always put yourself down. there gotta be a reason why your boyfriend is goin out with you. If Its not beauty, its something you have that he must like. Just let yourself loose, the first time you chill with him,u are not going to feel this way anymore.
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there is this one girl at school who treats me better than others. Like i am extremely impared or something {well i do hang out with the impared people sometimes}. Is she in love with me? How can I tell if a girl likes me. (link)
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Well i wont say that she is in love..Love is such a strong word,maybe she really likes you and she wants you to realize that,Talk to her and ask her.
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sorry if this is long but i really need help.
ok im 14 and i will be 15 september 13. this guy name tyler is 12 and will be 13 september 1. he is goin to 8th and im goin to 9th. he doesnt hang out with 12 year olds, he looks and hangs out with 14 and 15 year olds. we are really good friends, and tuesday night he asked me out but i said no. i like him, but i am scared to go out wtih him. i mean if we break up, then it will be weird. and he isnt really cute. but i like him alot. last night he got mad at me because he thought that i was gonna go out with this other guy, but im not! and then his mom told him to get off the phone and he told me he would call me back at 1 and he never did. he hasnt called or got online today either. i think hes still mad at me and i dont know what to do. i told him i didnt like the other guy but i dont think he believed me. what should i do?? should i go out with him if he asks me again? some people say i should and some people say heck no. i have no idea what to do! (link)
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Ok.first all i wanna say age aint nothing but a number. It reminds me of when i was 14 and the boy i liked was 12. UntiLL i turn 15 and now he is 13 and we are going out, and our relationship is Great. So since you like that Boy i say go for it, but when you talk 2 him again just explain to him that you is not gunna date someone else. i wish you LucK!
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my friend just told me she was talking to my boyfriend ont he hpone and he told her he didnt really like me anymore =[ and i kno shes not lieing cause like i dont kno you can just tell and cause the way hes been atcing . and knowing him he won't tell me this for like a week and i dont kno what to do (link)
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i say u talk 2 him, and ask him if its true what u have heard.
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ok I'll start from the beginning,
one day I ask this girl out. I tell her a few nice things. then I ask her out. she says let me get back to you. well she goes and and tells her friends what happened. so they go hide & talk.
well after lunch shes yes. two days after shes yes she breaks up with me. now thats been about 6mons. ago. and I still have feelings for her.
I also hear she still has feelings for me.
but I'm scared that if I ask her she'll say no.
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Give it another try, if she says no then dont waste your time on her.
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I am not racest at all..but I have a problem..Okay well I have a really good friend..hes black..im white..I have liked him for about a month now..I really like him..hes all I think about! I found out a week ago that he liked me and wanted to go out with me..he even wrote the sweetest peom ever about me..I cant go out with him because my mom would flip if i went out with a black person..she just doesnt believe in black and white..and neither do some of my friends..It just wouldnt work..I really like this kid and I need to get over him! what should I do?! please help...
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i dont think its right for someone to actually say that black and white dont mix. If u really like him tell your mom how you really feel about him.tell her the goods things that he does,convice her that he is a good guy,and for her to let you go out with him..Or u can just go for it.because in the future your mom is not going to tell you who to go out with or marry..:) hope this works!!
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okay im 13/f and me and my boyfriend have been going out for 1 month and like 9 days and we havent kissed yet and i want him to make the first move but i want him to do it and get it over with and like yeah and his friend said that i should just do it but im scared...what should i do? (link)
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dont rush things.let it just be the perfect place and timin. you can also talk 2 him..and ask him why havent ya kiss yet..Talk more about ya relationship. Hope this works
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well, im 14/f and im a freshmen also! well i have this problem, me and my ex-best friend charles (ever since this yr) were planning on going with each other to the freshmen dance, ever since 5th grade, we just talked about it in the summer too! but in school now we don't talk ever, i wanna talk to him, its just he has his own crowd, and i have my own, he talks to me sometimes, but when i asked him if he would still go to the freshmen with me he said. "no, im taken karissa" (some chick from a differ. school) its like, he used to LOVE me soo much from 2nd grade to 8th grade, but in the summer he stopped. and i liked him ever since well the summer, and we couldn't date cuz he liked karissa, its horrible i jus dunno what to do, i've told him how i've felt n stuff, what would u do? i really wanna go with him. i rate high thanks!
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i think u did the best thing by telling him how u felt. Now if he dont respone back with the answer that u want to hear then dont waste your time on him..because this mean that he not goin 2 like u. Just try lookin for some1 better who will pay more attenion 2 u.
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Theres this girl i really like thats in my class. The problem is my best friend likes her a lot too. He works with her so we both see each other a lot. I dont want to lose my best friend but i think she likes me more than she likes him. What should i do? (link)
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that happened to me.i likes this boy.and my friend liked him to..but i have realize dat it wasnt worth trippin over him..cuz friendship is more important.i had realize dat she liked him more.But there was nothin i can do cuz she would always talk bout him..but mean while i stop likin him..And now a days no1 likes him..So dont mess up no Friendship over nobody.keep it alive nd strong!
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i sorta REALLY flirted with this guy n made out n blah blah with him.. but one of my best friends all of the sudden likes him.. what should i do :\ (link)
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ight well u should tell her how u feel..Im sure she would understand!
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hey...
i'm really shy around my boyfriend most of the time ... how do i stop being shy? (link)
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i feel u, i used to be shy to.But then i realize why i was shy.and it was bcuz i really didnt knew my b/f.and i couldnt act like myself.Cuz i barely knew him..but if thats the case.then u should try talkin to him more.Ask Him questions.but U should never be shy around your b/f. just act like yourself..It taught me a lesson! I hope this work. Good luck!
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how do you make out? what do i do with my tongue? please explain in detail....i do not understand...this sounds to diffulcult (link)
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well.u just need to follow. whatever he do.dont worry it looks hard, but its not!
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well there is this boy n i rele like him n his mom always invites me over if im homealone n she is all nicce to me but when iget to there house i never no what to say to him i lose my breath rele easy if im talkin to him n i have to take rell rele deep breaths n well he is kinda a butt hole to me n i think i have a crush on him but he always picks on me like if he dosnt agree w. some thing i say he is like shut up ur stupid is that a sign he likes me or is he jsut being stupid??
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wellz it depends how he say it..if he says it laughin in a cute flirty voice.then he likes u.or if he says it mean.then he dont.
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(f, 15) hey i'm really confused right now...my best guy friend in the entire world just asked me to be his girlfriend a couple of days ago. now he has an awesome personality, but i don't think i could get over the lack of physical attraction, so i know it seems really shallow but i said no. supposedly he got over it really quickly and likes my friend sarah now..i know that sounds good that he didn't get hurt, but now i'm really jealous..i don't know if i'm just jealous of her because all the guys like her, or if i really do like him, or i am just being selfish and want everyone to like me..it's driving me crazy..i'm really not a bad person, i just don't know how i really feel..it doesn't matter that much i guess since he doesn't even like me anymore, i just want to figure out my feelings and i don't know how to. please help! (link)
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.The only way to find out is to follow ur heart. watever u feel inside.u gotta let it all out,inorder to feel better.good luck
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ok my friend resently made out for the first time and like told meh the things i needed to do it and made me really confident to make out for the first time and now my best friend (hes a guy and im a gurl) mite come ova and hes the type who would make out wit me if i wanted to. Im going into the 8th grade and i really wanna go in being able to say i finally did it. I know thats no reason but thats y im asking u wat i sould do. I mean i had a crush on him for ova a year until now im not sure if i like him like that. So what should i do. I really wanna just get it ova with cuz so many people make a big deal about whether you have or not
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ok, first u should never try to be someone your are not.and if u dont feel comfortble then dont try to do anything.dont go over the limit.dont think about what your friends did. just b urself.dont follow be a leader.i hope this help u out.Good luck!
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okay i'm caught up with a whole bunch of guys! i have guys who like me..and i kinda like them! but then there is also this one other guy who i met the other night that i realli like! but i don't know who to choose out of them! what should i go by to help me make my decision? they are all nice..with good personlities and they are all drop dead sexi too! lol what should i do!?
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hey! u need to follow your heart.its not all about the looks.u got to also jugde on the way they act.and treats u.go 4 the one that really makes u feel different when u are around him.(different in a loveable way) Good Luck!
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i met this guy at adventureland (he was REALLY hott!!) in des moines and i got his # but i dont want to call it cuz im afraid that its the wrong number! but then again the area code and the first 3 numbers were from the area that we were located in...what should i do? call him or not?
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yeah girl go for it!!
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I have a question that i hope someone can help me with. Is it right to change for a guy? I use to have this one boyfriend that was a punk and I was jusst a normal 13 year old girl. all of his friends were punks to and at that time I was overwhieght and diddn't care about what I looked. Well then all of a sudden my boyfriend just dummped me w/no explanation. And a little while later I started getting into the punk music and cloths and i lost 20 pounds. Now I'm obsessed w/punk music and cloths but i don't know if it's b/c i want him to see what he missed out on or if it's really what i want. About 6 months have passed since my break up w/him. Since our breakup was just b4 the summer no body not even my friends have seen me, so I can't wait till school starts so i can see everyone's reaction esspecially his. But do n-e-of you think this is righ? Pleae someone help me.
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no way..u should never change for no one.he should of except u like the way he saw u.If u think about it, he didnt really like u, cause u wasnt in his style or anything, but im just saying, that u should NEVER change 4 no1one especially a boy. Dont be like no one else be yourself.
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well my problem is i have this guy friend and i dated him b4 but it didnt work out..well recently i found out from him he still has feelings for me but i dont have feelings like that for him..we're like best friends..well the other day he told me bcuz of his feelings for me we couldnt be friends anymore..but i know if i dated him again id be miserable..plz tell me what to do..i dont want to lose a friend.thankz.
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alrite, well u need to tell him the truth,and be be shy or anything, he need to know that u only want to be his friend only and nothing more.good luck!
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everytime I get a bf my friends think he's too ugly and that I need better, but it hurts him whenever i tell him what my friends think about him and makes me feel bad. I know how he feels because they dont know what hes like. I told them to stop but they keep at it. and my bf dosnt feel like doing any thing when im around bc of what my friends say. how do I get them to stop???? for me and him (link)
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alrite, gurl maybe your friends just jealous, and they envy u..but dont let your friends or whatever they think get in the way of u and ur man..if u really likes him, u need 2 stay with him, dont let no1 tell u..thats he ugly
if they were ur tru friends they would accept any1 u date..so dont get mad, mayb ur friends arent really ur friends, think bout it Good Luck
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