like me and tess always talk and she always tells me she likes me and i asked her out today and she said no and im like wtf?!? you say you like me but you wont go out with me and i think its cuz im black but i dont wanna say anything to make her get mad because im in luv with her. Help
*names have been changed
i say you ask her whut it is cuz obviously its something or maybe shes just not ready for a arelationship ask her why she said no and tell her youll move on if thats wut she wants
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there are these two guys. one of them seems really nice because i just met him but hes not as cute..but he has a pretty good personality. the other one of them i have liked for awhile and hes been nice to me but sometimes he'll get to be very shy if i'm with my friends and won't say a word...
who should i like?!
i don't know what to do... please help.
you should still like the boy you do now just give him more time to get used to your friends and it will get better
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ok when it comes to guys... Im like horrible. Well for starters im 16/f just to let you know.
Anyways Im so confused... ok theres two guys... the first one is my ex. Now with him he cheated on me and then broke up with me... but he told me that he still likes me. But when it comes to people if you break my trust theres a part of me that cant let it go and I know thats bad but he really did hurt me. Well anyways Im pretty sure I dont like him anymore. I think its mainly because he doesnt know how to keep a promise like he'll tell me hes gonna call me and he NEVER does, so Im so confused cause now I'm just like w.e I dont really like you but I never told him that. And Im trying to make it seem like i dont like him like that anymore but I dont know how... ok well thats my first problem, now heres the second theres this other guy and what i like about him is hes the other way around if he says hes gonna call hell call me and when he doesnt hell text me and will be like im sorry ill call u even if its late just so i can say i called you. BUt the problem with him is that I think the only reason hes calling me is so he can forget about his ex, who like completely broke his heart and he told me all about it so i feel as if he wont get over her, and that i know too much about him to like him.
i say that none of them are right because both of them a a way are lying the first one yeah about everything and the second when he says he lieks you because hes just trying to get over his g.f. so his feelings wouldnt be completely real you could try it and see how it works and if it doesnt you should just wait for someone completely new no best friends or exes and just start something new with them
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Okay so, when my boyfriend & I are together (which is like 3 days out of the week or more) we get along perfectly fine.. but the days we aren't together & we are talking on the phone or internet, we always argue about something, normally over something stupid. And either me or him is always in a blah mood. It's totally different when we are together though.. we're very happy and don't argue one bit.. and can't stand a minute apart from each other, everyone says how happy we are. We love each other.. but we dont get this.
i had the same problem just try not giving him any attitude and if he seems like hes in a bad mood just be like awee babe im sorry and comfort him dont try and give him an attitude back no matter how mean he gets and just dont take an =y anger out on him it should work
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i have been dating my boyfriend for a year and a half now & i want to do some things to make him see how much i love him..ive done the writting notes and stuff but i would love if someone could give me ideas on sweet things i could do that dont cost any money that will show him that i care and that he will love
just do different things like hold him longer and kiss his forehead also little little things like tickle him and wen hes standing in fornt of you and doesnt know your behind him put your hands on his eyes and say guess who and then when he turns around kiss him just do little new things that will deffinatly show him you care =]
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There's a girl that I like. We go to different schools but live about 10 minutes away from each other. She has a boyfriend but we went out once and I found out that she likes me. She even told me. The time we went out was 2 weeks ago (last weekend she was busy and this weekend I am), and I don't know if I'm wasting my time because I think she won't break up with her boyfriend. They've been going out for 9 months, and she told me that he makes her cry almost every night but she just won't break up with him. What do I do..?
tell her that you cant take this anymore and that you dont want to wait if its not for any reason tell her to choose right now if she wants him or you because you think that if shes making you wait for no reason that thats messed up and tell her if she doesnt brake up with him it means she obviously loves him and that youll just forget it and soon shell see that she misses you and wants you and shell come running to you =]
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ok this is how it all started out
i have liked this dude for about 3 years
we just started going out in march
we broke up in april for 4 days due to.. the fact he didnt like me as much as i liked him
he said he thought about me for the 4 days.
and threw those 4 days i cryed and trained myself not to put to much emotion in to anything i love b.c im afraid of being hurt.. now we go back out.. and he loves me alot. like ALOT and i feel like i dont love him as much b.c when we broke up i trained myself to not put any emotion in to anyone or anything.. and now when he says i love you i dont believe him and i want to sooo bad.. i really love him.. its just i dont want to be hurt im scared. and what not... soo does this mean i dont love him...??? b.c i know i do.. its just im scared.. he tells me everynight he loves me.. i know he does.. its just ... im scared of being hurt...
and now im really sad i have been having a bad week and when we are together i dont talk and he thinks he has made me mad but he didnt... he asks me 5 times am i mad at him im like no...
what should i do..
i really love him..
just.. scared
ILL RATE HIGH!!
just tell him that youve been acting weird because youve been thinking tell him you dont want to brake up but youve been scared latly thinking hes gunna hurt you agian and if he truly loves you like it seems opnly the best can happen it seems like if you told him he would deffinatly fix things and let you know that that wont happen and you dont have to be scared i think it would really help =]
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How often do people in high school that are dating stay together?
it depends how the boy is like if he shows off in front of his friends usally not very long but if both people are truly in love and devoted it could last as long as you make it last
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Not one boy has ever liked me or even said I'm pretty. I think I'm average but I just feel like I have no appeal to boys. What can I do to make myself prettier? Like what are the "in" styles for hair and clothes, and what's some good make-up to wear?
for hair: wear it down straight or curly and if you have a straightener that would also work
for clothes: wear bright colors and a different style like something sexy but not slutty just something like very preppy that will show people how different you look and changed
makeup: never wear the same color as your shirt unless it is green, pink, and white if your wearing jeans or something wear srapkley eye shaddows like silver or gold that shine. for lip glosses wear sweet talk or something shiny or a light pink. for cover up you should get something a little darker than your skin tone to stand out and shoe people you changed
i hope i helpedd if you need any thing else just ask =]
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I really am Inlove with my ex. I broke up with him about 2 weeks ago. I was going through a really hard time and I kno I made a really big mistake. This girl that is suposed to be my friend is trying to go for him but Im trying to fix things with him. I really do love him and I just want to be with him. What should I do?
15/f
well first of all that girl is not really a friend if she will do that and you should tell her that you stil lreally love him and that you think its kind of messed up to do this to her and for the boy well if he really still loves you whats ment to be will find its way =]
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ok. i`ve been knowing thiss guy.. since 6th grade and i`ve fallen for him. *since 6th grade* but i was a fat girl and he wasn`t so he didn`t like me. we were kool, kinda friends i guess, but you can tell he didn`t like me cause i used to ask him out all the time. well throughout middle school, my like for him got stronger and stronger. and i lost weight during summer b4 9th grade. well in 9th grade, he started talking to me more, and more. and we evolved a friend ship. he had a girl friend, but she could nvr do nething durin the weekends, so i used to do stuff with him all the time, and he used to cuddle with me. well they broke up and we started talkin, and he asked me out on his birthday. well we broke up but even tho we were broken up we were still actin like we were goin out. he had another g/f and he cheated on her with me and was still tellin me he loved me, and i cheated on my b/f with him. well now he has no g/f and i have no b/f and we tell each other tht we arent goin to get one. but i dont understand why WE D0NT G0 BACK 0UT. i mean we tell each other we love each other, and spend each minute with each other, everyday @ school and everyweekend. but he is goin off to a school next year tht is like 5 hours from here. only gonna come down once a month, but idk. we`re at the end of out 10th grade year. and we have been talking since october of 2004 so almost 2 years. but we don`t go out but we act like we do and everyone at school thinks we do. please i need advice.
i say that you two should go back out for now because if you really love each other then it will work and even if he moves youll still have feelings and maybe wen he moves you could go on a 'brake' because while hes down there and your up here youll love each other but youll be bored without each other so youll need other people then whem he comes back down and you see him and your wityh each other it will seem like yous go out and everything will seem ok just he will have to call you eeryonce in a while it coudl kind of be a good thing hes moving becuase it will make you want each other even more and look forward to your visits and be so much happier to see each other =] if you need any thing else just ask
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Im just afraid that i will lose him if i dont show that i care about him
just act like yerself dont be shy. the worst that could happen if you show your realy personality is that if he doesnt like it hes not worth it and im sure if he lieks you now hell like your personality i say you just act yourself and hell fall more and more in love with you every day =]
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ok well so i like this guy ok.. n hes a total flirt! he flirts wit all the other girls... even me.. well ive liked him for a LONG time n hes like going out wit someone at the moment... well the thing is i dont WANT to like him i wish i couldnt like him n just be his like best friend n think of him in tht way not in the i love yu way but i just do n i have no clue how to help this situation!! please this is killing me soo much i like him alot but i sone want to like him n hell never go out wit me.. ive tryed n he almost did but then sed hed rather be like bestest friends..
PLEASE HEEEELLLLPP! :'(
heyy i deff think that you shud start to liek a new guy. he seems liek a hugeeeeeeeee player and that even tho he seems so great hes doing it just to be more popular even th oyou liek him alot hes not worth it find someone thats worth it and that will do anything for you i say you kjust try hard to find someone new
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Okay so I met this guy at my cousins wedding reception two weeks ago. I had a really nice conversation with him and found out he has a good job and he similar values as me. When I got him alone he acted like a perfect gentleman and said all the right things.
My main concerns however are that he is 6 years younger than me (he is 22 and I am 28). I think he's still in his party phase. I'll let you be the judge. Well earlier he and his friends went upstairs to the bar in the hotel to pick up girls. He came downstairs and was bragging to everyone that he got the number off the hottest chick in the bar. Also he was hanging out with a guy who made a rude comment about an overweight girl.
I'm debating about whether or not to ask my cousin for his number (she gets back from her honeymoon tonight). I just wanted to ask your opinions first if you think he's relationship material.
Also before I forget he lives about 5 hours away from me.
i think that he is still too young to for you. you are older and mature (expecially because girls mature faster) he is still younger and likes to fool around. he would be nice and kinda without his friends but he seems liek the type that likes to show off in front of his friends. i don't think you should bother with him becuase he seems like he will just act like a great boyfriend in front of you to play it off but exspecially becuase he lives so far away it will be a very unsecure relationship. you will always have to worry about ihm cheating because he seems like the hit it and quit it kind of guy. he seems liek he would get with you and today then tomorrow her. he doesn;t seem liek hes ready for a real relationship yet . i say you get his number call and be friends. maybe one day when hes ready to be mature you can be more than friends. you should tell him how you feel for him but also let him know you don't think hes ready for a relationship because of what had haopened later that night. if you need any more advice just ask =]
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Ok, so I have always hated my highschool, and thought that everyone in it was a shallow dimwit! But I recently got advice to try to get to now some people, mingle & be social, and maybe Iäll start liking it more. Right, so I did. I started talking to these two guys, who are best friends, pretty popular and pretty much WANTED by every girl in school, but I just wanted to be friends, right..so I started talking to these guys for the first time yesterday, and it was just for 15 minutes, helping them study, but I felt an immediate attraction to both of them, one of them is outgoing, loud, charming..and oh so popular, and the other one is also pretty popular (because he's hott) but really shy, quite, and looks pretty insecure. Now, the thingh is the're both BEST FRIENDS, and I would never start flirting with two bff that could end up terrible! But I know I'm gonna start liking these guys, so I would like to decide WHICH ONE to like, and just go for him, flirt with him, instead of with both of them, because what if they both end up liking me..that could be terrible!! So how do you decide which one to like? And also, what would be hard is that they both like different type of girls, so its better to just focus on one of the guys..15/f thank you!
i say that you go for the one that is quiet. it seems that almost all guys who are too outgoing and charming are too much into themselves. he would proablly be the type that treats you horribly in front of friends. the quiet boys usally are more trustworthy and understandable. it seems like the quiet one would be the better one to have a relationship with, he would know how to make it work better.
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So I have this friend I've had for a couple of years, and today we were in his room and he got a bit "touchy-feely" and kept asking for hugs and stuff. Usually he's not like this at all. Anyway, soon as I was about to leave he went to kiss me on the cheek.. and I kissed him on the lips.. not knowing he was just going for the cheeks. lol. We kissed for about 20 seconds, then I broke it off... and said goodbye and went home. Well I feel really weird about it now, partly because I enjoyed it and yet he's been a friend for a long time. I don't regret it though. But I'm the type of person who takes kissing someone pretty seriously.
I know this kind of thing is pretty common, and I shouldn't let it affect things between us. I don't really want a relationship right now. However.. not sure whether we should just let this go, put it behind us.. or whether we should do the whole "Friends with benefits" thing.
Thanks for your help.
even though you say you don't want a relationship right now i think that this is the perfect oppertunity to have one. sense you two are best friends it makes it even better. when you date your best friend you feel so comfortable and you just know that it will work. you know pretty much everything about them so you know that you can trust them. i deffinatly think you should tell him that you have feelings for him and that you think that someday you guys will be more than just friends. because i know that if you did become more than friends your relationship would be perfect. it already seems just by reading this that you two were made for each other and you obviously already can tell he has many feelings for you. i say that you should start a relationship out of this it would probobally be the best relationship you ever had. please take my advice. and if you need anymore just ask =]
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at the beginning of this year i met a guy. this guy is 4 years older then me but he liked me, a lot. we never talked and he made me nervous. 4 months went by and i had big feelings for this kid. around christmas time we spent a week together. i fell in love with him, i honestly did. once we got back from christmas break, he moved, never said bye to me or anything. he just got up and moved. i was heart broken and it was really hard to get over him. he will have been gone for 4 months on may 19. i just got over him, not thinking about him every day. then the yearbook came out and seeing his senior pictures in the yearbook killed me. it brought back all my old feelings and memories. i thought i hated him for doing this to me, but now i cry again over him. how do i get over him.... after i thought i already had... will it always hurt this much...
hi wow this is really weird i almost had the same problem. i met a boy and he really liked me, a lot and i really liked him to. we never talked much we just always looked at each other and knew we had feelings for each other. then we started talking on the phone and i seriously fell in love. i thought every thing was great. then one day, he moved all the way to colorado which i live far, far away from. he didn't eve say good bye he didn't even tell me he was leaving. and i never talk to him any more at all. it kills me to know he left and to know that i had so many feelings for him that now ill never get to express but to help me get over him i kind of helped myself. what i did was, well in the beginning of the year i found this boy. we kindd of became best friends. Now i have much more feelings for him. sense he was my best friend he i felt so comfortable around him now that i like him things are getting better. i know ill still always have feelings for the other boy but the best way to deal with it is to bring out the little feelings you have for someone else to help you get over this boy. if you need anything else just ask me quesitons and id be glad to help you =]
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