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2 guys/both friends/ which to choose?
Ok, so I have always hated my highschool, and thought that everyone in it was a shallow dimwit! But I recently got advice to try to get to now some people, mingle & be social, and maybe Iäll start liking it more. Right, so I did. I started talking to these two guys, who are best friends, pretty popular and pretty much WANTED by every girl in school, but I just wanted to be friends, right..so I started talking to these guys for the first time yesterday, and it was just for 15 minutes, helping them study, but I felt an immediate attraction to both of them, one of them is outgoing, loud, charming..and oh so popular, and the other one is also pretty popular (because he's hott) but really shy, quite, and looks pretty insecure. Now, the thingh is the're both BEST FRIENDS, and I would never start flirting with two bff that could end up terrible! But I know I'm gonna start liking these guys, so I would like to decide WHICH ONE to like, and just go for him, flirt with him, instead of with both of them, because what if they both end up liking me..that could be terrible!! So how do you decide which one to like? And also, what would be hard is that they both like different type of girls, so its better to just focus on one of the guys..15/f thank you!
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i say that you go for the one that is quiet. it seems that almost all guys who are too outgoing and charming are too much into themselves. he would proablly be the type that treats you horribly in front of friends. the quiet boys usally are more trustworthy and understandable. it seems like the quiet one would be the better one to have a relationship with, he would know how to make it work better.
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I know what it's like to be in your situation because lots of guys who are friends with each other like me and I end up having to choose between them.
I think that since you just met these guys, you don't really know them that well yet. Right now, you should just focus on getting to know them both as people and as friends, while keeping your crush for each of them to yourself, for now anyways. After a while, you might start liking one more than the other. So just wait a bit and get to know them first, and then if you start feeling for one over the other, then you might want to try flirting with him. Good luck!
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Guys are very tricky to deal with. Luckily, they don't get as worked up over girls as we think they do. Get to know these two boys, and if you think that one or the other could make a good boyfriend, then GO for it! You will be surprised that the other guy will more than likely not be offended by it. Girl you're only fifteen so live it up! If these two guys don't seem to be the ones for you, find someone else! Good luck to you
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you met them for 1 day, you need more time to make a decision. Just continue with your original plan, try being friends with both of them. Soon enough, you will see you prefer one over the other. This decision must come from within, not from a friend, especially since we don't know these guys.
And if they both like different types of girls, thats a good thing. Just remember to be yourself, that way the one who like YOU you can go for, you don't want someone to like you for someone who you are trying to be, otherwise you will go back to your original state of hating school. And maybe try to meet a third guy, one you know that all will happen is "just friends".
See what happens then ask us again in about a week or two.
Good luck
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Hey girl, aw, this is hard. Try spending more time with each of them, but seperately, alone. See which one you end up being more attracted to, which one you have more fun with. Maybe see which one is more like you, that way if you did go out or anything you'd have more to talk about. Or maybe go for the one that isn't as much like you, because sometimes opposites attract. Just try spending time seperately with each of them, and see which one ends up being more fun. Good luck, girl! :]
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