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Is he dating materail?
Okay so I met this guy at my cousins wedding reception two weeks ago. I had a really nice conversation with him and found out he has a good job and he similar values as me. When I got him alone he acted like a perfect gentleman and said all the right things.
My main concerns however are that he is 6 years younger than me (he is 22 and I am 28). I think he's still in his party phase. I'll let you be the judge. Well earlier he and his friends went upstairs to the bar in the hotel to pick up girls. He came downstairs and was bragging to everyone that he got the number off the hottest chick in the bar. Also he was hanging out with a guy who made a rude comment about an overweight girl.
I'm debating about whether or not to ask my cousin for his number (she gets back from her honeymoon tonight). I just wanted to ask your opinions first if you think he's relationship material.
Also before I forget he lives about 5 hours away from me.
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i think that he is still too young to for you. you are older and mature (expecially because girls mature faster) he is still younger and likes to fool around. he would be nice and kinda without his friends but he seems liek the type that likes to show off in front of his friends. i don't think you should bother with him becuase he seems like he will just act like a great boyfriend in front of you to play it off but exspecially becuase he lives so far away it will be a very unsecure relationship. you will always have to worry about ihm cheating because he seems like the hit it and quit it kind of guy. he seems liek he would get with you and today then tomorrow her. he doesn;t seem liek hes ready for a real relationship yet . i say you get his number call and be friends. maybe one day when hes ready to be mature you can be more than friends. you should tell him how you feel for him but also let him know you don't think hes ready for a relationship because of what had haopened later that night. if you need any more advice just ask =]
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Hi there,
Well you could start off with a frienship for a while and then that will give you time to get to know him better and then observe him and then if you feel redy to get into a relationship with him then go for it.
Goodluck
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Ugh! I wouldn't go for him!
You could probably date him lightly, but I know his type...he's most likely not willing to be in a real full blow relationship with just one person, especially since you two are five hours apart, he's probably not going to want to commit. Even if you did date him, it sounds like it would pose an issue with you being more mature than he is. I'm 21, and pretty mature for my age as well, and I'm tired of dating the typical early 20's college male who acts like that guy does. Which is why I'm not dating anyone under 24. Anyways, unless he drops hints of wanting a relationship, I wouldn't pursue him. You could probably still be friends with him though, and maybe if he matures in the next couple years, who knows, he could be boyfriend material by then.
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OMG ok so not if he was pickin up chicks! and making fun of an overweight girl....HELLZ NO
fat chicks rule...
dont date him...theres more fish in the sea...less pricky ones
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I think you're right when you say that this guy is still in his partying years. I take it that you are out of that phase which tells me that he's not dating material for you.
I don't see any harm in giving things a try with this guy, but honestly he sounds like he's not ready to settle down yet. I know that's not alot of advice for you, but I think that he's not ready to settle yet.
-TheTeenGirl
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