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i thought i hated him
at the beginning of this year i met a guy. this guy is 4 years older then me but he liked me, a lot. we never talked and he made me nervous. 4 months went by and i had big feelings for this kid. around christmas time we spent a week together. i fell in love with him, i honestly did. once we got back from christmas break, he moved, never said bye to me or anything. he just got up and moved. i was heart broken and it was really hard to get over him. he will have been gone for 4 months on may 19. i just got over him, not thinking about him every day. then the yearbook came out and seeing his senior pictures in the yearbook killed me. it brought back all my old feelings and memories. i thought i hated him for doing this to me, but now i cry again over him. how do i get over him.... after i thought i already had... will it always hurt this much...
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hey! if he just up and left you then
a: he didnt really like you that much after all
b: he had to leave for some really really important reason
either way, dont be afraid to get another boyfriend. But, remember its easier to remember him and be a little sad about it, than to pretend he never existed.
I hope you can go on with your life not having to cry about him. I hope my advice gave you an answer, I tried my best
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hi wow this is really weird i almost had the same problem. i met a boy and he really liked me, a lot and i really liked him to. we never talked much we just always looked at each other and knew we had feelings for each other. then we started talking on the phone and i seriously fell in love. i thought every thing was great. then one day, he moved all the way to colorado which i live far, far away from. he didn't eve say good bye he didn't even tell me he was leaving. and i never talk to him any more at all. it kills me to know he left and to know that i had so many feelings for him that now ill never get to express but to help me get over him i kind of helped myself. what i did was, well in the beginning of the year i found this boy. we kindd of became best friends. Now i have much more feelings for him. sense he was my best friend he i felt so comfortable around him now that i like him things are getting better. i know ill still always have feelings for the other boy but the best way to deal with it is to bring out the little feelings you have for someone else to help you get over this boy. if you need anything else just ask me quesitons and id be glad to help you =]
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i can say that it is the hardest thing to try to get over someone if you are in love. but if you talk to other guys and start going out and having fun. eventually he will get off you mind. i mean you will always remember him. (esp. if he`s your first love), but just try your best. cause i kno exactly what its like, and its not easy. best of luckk =]
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