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idk im confused
like me and tess always talk and she always tells me she likes me and i asked her out today and she said no and im like wtf?!? you say you like me but you wont go out with me and i think its cuz im black but i dont wanna say anything to make her get mad because im in luv with her. Help
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hey, well the only way to find out is to ask her! asking us advicenators isnt going to give you the real && direct answer like it would if you asked the girl. cait♥
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i say you ask her whut it is cuz obviously its something or maybe shes just not ready for a arelationship ask her why she said no and tell her youll move on if thats wut she wants
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Hey alright you being black has nothing to do with the situation..maybe she likes you but doesn't want to ruin things between you too. Maybe she likes you but already has a boyfriend...Just talk to her.
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Kelley
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i cant believe that whole deal w/ the racial thing is still going around.she might like you,but isn't ready for a relationship.maybe theres a lot more things on her mind than you know.did she say no fast,or did she wait to think it out a little more?if she did wait,she probably does care but cant have a relationship right now.if she said no of the top,im guessing all those times she said she liked you was a just fake and she just wanted to see if you liked her.you definatly have to talk to her about it,but dont act mad.she might like you,but doesnt love you.im just thinking of all the possibilities,but im not her so i have no idea why she said no!she might come around when she doesnt have anything on her mind.*maybe* think,is there any other boy she likes?mayb she likes him more,and is wating to see if he likes he back.But whatever the case,sry,but there'll be other girls...u kno?you have to think "do i realllyy,truthfull love her?"
gooood luck !!!!!!!!
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Hi There,
Whatever background you come from, there will always be some differences between you and your firend but they won't necessarily be based on your religious beliefs. However, if you completely disagree on important issues you may find life difficult.
Put things into perspective. You don't always have to agree with your her, in fact it can make life interesting to be close to someone who disagrees with you, just as long as those disagreements don't become monumental hurdles that you'll never get over.
Friends might believe stereotypes about a religion and have negative reactions to your choice of likes at first. Explain to them how you feel about your her and let them meet each other and form their own opinions based on the person rather than the religion.
Both your family and your hers' family may have problems accepting the relationship. Your friend may choose to keep your existence a secret from them. It doesn't feel nice to be someone's dirty secret but you have to try to be understanding.
You may have to get used to certain customs
Make an effort to learn about her' religion so you understand their point of view. Some things may seem strange at first, but if you stay together long term, they will quickly seem natural. If you are unwilling to make small changes it's unlikely that the relationship will work in the long run.
Goodluck
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Don't take it personally. Maybe she's not allowed to date, or maybe she's not ready to date. Maybe she's just a flirt and doesn't really like you. Maybe her parents are rascist. The only way to know is to ask her.
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