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Boyfriend and best friend
ok heres the deal...My bf and i have been going out for almost 3 months and hes totally awesome... ya and one of my best friends is a really good friend of his too so us three we hang out a lot together and stuff b/c i feel more comfortable when one of my friends is with me and my bf (dont ask im really weird) and lately i feel like she has been hanging out with him A LOT and shes always talking to him and blah blah blah... and on her aim profile its like (lets call him bob) shes liike BOb: oh my god you are sooo cool soo many insiders..and other stuff that she says ya you get it.... and then she lists me next and stuff but doesnt put as much on there sooo yaaa and there are also other people trying to steal him away from me im 100% positive...and she always says oh ya i think this persons trying to steal him away from you ooo watch out! and it makes me sooo mad b/c i feel she is too or b/c shes jealous and stuff i dont really know. And i feel he has more fun around her than me and it makes me really sad b/c i dont know if he still likes me or not and i reallly wanna know i need sooo much help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
~me~
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I understand why you feel more comfortable with your best friend around while you are with your boyfriend, but why not have a different friend of yours go with sometimes?
The thing is that you'll always have other girls who will be attracted to the guys you are dating. What matters is how your boyfriend responds to it. If you really feel like your best friend is getting too close to your boyfriend, then the only choice you have is to be with him alone or bring a different friend.
She might be more open when it comes to her being around people. She might be louder and happier and more outspoken when she's around people. When you are the loud one, you'll get the majority of attention by the people around you. I doubt that your boyfriend has more fun with your best friend. She's just louder than you are. And you might be a little silent because you are around a guy you really want to impress.
Even though it's hard, you could try explaining to your friend that she needs to back off a little bit. Not in a rude way, but tell her that you feel like she's the girlfriend instead of you.
-TheTeenGirl
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