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welp i consider mahself to be perty outgoin n easy to get along wit at times...as long as u dont put me down or put down things i believe in...we will usually get along...alot of ppl come to me n ask me for advie n most likely i can help anyone out....i havent failed yet lol n hopefully i never do...one of these days i hope to make a wonderful career outta helping people with any problems they have

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i have this friend who i met last year, and when we first met we liked each other.. now we're just friends and we are supposed to hang out soon cuz i havent seen him all summer. well, yesterday one of his friends asked me if i was still going out with my ex and i said no and then he was like "so, you're hanging out with matt soon?" and i was like yah and he asked if i thought we might start to like each other again and i told him i still like my ex....could that mean matt still likes me?

yep it could u should go for it...

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Ok, I know that this is a really dumb question, but I'm gonna ask anyways.

I went out with this guy for about 5 months. We broke up for a while (about 6 months), and now we are back together.

While we were broken up, I hooked up with a friend's friend from out of town. My boyfriend doesn't know him, and there is an outside chance that they will one day meet, but I'm not all that worried about that.

For some reason which I can't explain even to myself, I feel as if I should tell my boyfriend. I don't feel guilty about the hookup, because, well, we were apart. I guess I just feel that he should know. But I don't want to mess anything up in between us.

So... to tell or not to tell... that is the question? (Sorry for the cliche, I couldn't resist.)

well if u know for sure they r goin to meet sometime down the road then u should tell him..just ask him if he hooked up wit anyone while u was apart n be like well i did but make sure he knows he didnt mean anythin to u and u wouldnt cheat on him wit the boy or anythin else...dont leave any ?'s in his mind if u tell him bout the other guy...

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Alright...I have moved away,but I still love this same guy and i an't get over him and I know deep down he still loves me too..he always tells me he misses me n thinks about me all the time..but he is talking/dating someone else..what should i do?

well tell him how u feel bout it...but ur always gonna love him...if he really does mean that much to u..ur always goin to...and u wont forget him either...but ya cant tie him down either...if u think u should really talk to him bout it...then do it...but if u want him to be happy then u just gotta let it be..n move on....but never forget he will always be there in ur heart..and u will always be there in his...n ya never know...later down the road..u guys could be together again

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Okay i have been with the same guy for the past 4 years all high school you could pretty much say, but anyway...All this time i have been a virgin yeah we do everything else and yatta yatta but i dont know i think that i want to have sex with him, i know that im ready but idk I love him with all my heart but what if i could get better or something? i mean i know hes awesome at everything else but what if hes not good at sex? then what do i do just resort to everything else that has kepted me happy all this time? please give me some advice
-Cass-

ya shouldnt have sex right now...unless u know ur REALLY REALLY READY!...i mean u may love him alot...but alot of relationships end over that...if u think u want to....then talk to him bout it....n see how he feels bout it...and if u guys do it...and hes not good...teach him...theres always room for improvement...but most likely u should stick wit what keeps u happy not what u wanna do becuz u love someone....

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Hey katy My name is adrienne im 16 and i am in love with this kid named chris we have been together 6 months this sat and about a wk ago he told me we needed a break not a break up jus time without seeing eachother to get are shit organized and see if we miss eachother and if we need eachother and i mean i love him to death but his brother has been outta town so he has been at his bros girlfriends chillin like 24 -7 and i mean i work 23 hrs a wk at a food store and lately he has been treatin me different jus like having no respect and the way he acts and talks and in any relationship even if it is a short or long u care about the other person and u care what upsets them and u dont do it if u kno it gets to them so much me and his brothers girlfriend used to be bestfriends so i quit dont trust her and whos always there and i dont kno am i over reacting ...should i be with him or move on? i love him but im sick of crying i was suppost to move back to florida but my love for him is to strong so i stayed and now i dont kno what to do i want him to wanna b with me how can i do that i tryed the jealousy thing it dont work i want something to really get to him how can i???? please help katy...

u should talk to him bout it when u getta chance..ask him why things have changed and hes been treatin u diff...i know how u feel...and i thought my bf was changin and he did...but ya know we had our fight n all that crap n got over it and we fight every now and thing but i found out i was over reactin to much cuz i suspected he liked another girl and i was wrong for that...and im glad i talked to him cuz otherwise i woulda broke up wit him...so just talk to him and make sure ur doin the right thing before u make any actions at all

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okay so there is this guy (grant) who is 16 (and im 15)that i have been talking to for about 3 n a half months and before school got out he told my best friend that he wanted to wait until summer to get with me that way he has more time to spend on me since hes busy w. school and now..its like he doesnt have enough time for me. i like him sOo much and he knows it but it seems like hes even more busy now that school is over. i dont know if i should wait for him or find somebody else but everytime i look at another guy i compare him to grant and there is just no 2nd place. some of my friends tell me that i should give up and my other friends tell me that i should wait but grant is everything that i ever wanted in a guy..HELP!

well u should talk to him...if u can...n ask him whats up...but if u dont talk to him then u should look for someone else until he has more time for u...its not like u cant just dump the person ur wit for him later on....

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Okay I am in love with this guy. We are friends but he doesn't know I like him. He is a year older than me but in the grade behind me.. ya not the smartest person and he is coming to my school next year. So, he thinks i'm hot but he doesn't like me. But I really like him do you know any way I could tell him and keep our friendship the way it is like not change it and do you know anyway i could maybe make him like me a little bit more

ya just gotta be urself...if he dont like u theres not much ya can do...but just be straight up wit him..tell him u wanna stay friends n stuff but u couldnt hold in that u liked him...

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ok i know this guy that u can love so much but then hate..should i go with him or no?

give him a try but dont take anythin to serious wit him...

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okay last week i posted a question about this guy "Brad"!! I went to his house and my friend and i slept over and so we talked a lot i made him laugh an awful lot!! i even brought up the "prom" next year, he said he might not go, i was about 2 say 2 him that i love 2 go with him ...but i was to afraid 2!1 Is flirtin with me?? And should i ask him 2 the prom??


its hard to tell...possibly but...u didnt give much detail and u shouldnt ask him to the prom becuz its to early...he might wanna go wit someone else and u just might not know it...take things slow

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im 13 and i really like this kid and he is 15 i told him how i feel and he said he likes me to but we live a hour away we could neva go out [ so he said ], but sometimes he seems like he really likes me then other times it seems like he is to busy that he has no time for me but then i know he has alot of girls as friends and i don't know if he likes them and i know is jealously but it tru and i don't know wat to do u think i should just try to get him off my mined[ it would be so hard if i did but i could try ].. or wat ? .. PLEASE HELP !

first off...if he has alot of girls for friends then basically he likes em all...guys r pigs and no guy can be friends wit just one girl...and me n mah boyfriend live like 2 hours awy and we still make it....been together for a year n 3 months...so dont let him use that excuse....just forget bout him...hes not worth ur time if hes gonna lie to u and make excuses bout why he cant date u

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okaie...well i had a question on here b4..about this guy named Miguel..and well he called me 2dae..and was really nice!!..he sed he was gonna buy me a Tigger doll..(my fave!)..and its for a birthdae present..bkuz my b-dae was yesterdae..and well wen he called..he had asked me 2 go 2 6Flagz wit him and his sis this weekend...then my sis came home..wit my digital camera..can hes ugly!!..and he is supposed 2 call me back 2marroe..2 c if i can go 2 6flagz or not..ohh yeah!..his is a LIL PERSON..and i am kinda scared of them!!..please help me!!...my sis saes not 2 b mean and rude 2 him and it duznt hurt if i am just friends wit hi..but man! i dono wut 2 do...HELP ME KAIE?!

u should give it a try...dont judge ppl by there size or looks..its not everything ya know..dont be afraid to make just a new FRIEND...who knows...he might be a great friend/crazy/funny person to hang out wit..give it try..good luck!

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ok well i like someone alot and that person likes me alot too, i wanna ask the person out but everybody tells me not to that i should wait for the person to ask me...should i just ask the person or should i wait? cuz it does seem like the person is gonna ask me...what should i do?

u should ask em out if they dont in the next few days or before...becuz think bout it...if u dont...that person could find someone else new....and im sure ya dont want that to happen...

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Mi B/f is So0 hoTt n a ToN oF gUrLz lyKe Him..
iM sCaReD heZ gOnnA dUmP mE
HoW cAn I mAkE sUre ThaT He Is/IsNt!?!

i know how u feel...like everytime i turn around some girl is checkin him out and it pisses me off...but all u can really do is ask him....be like "ur hott and all these girls like u but i love u/like u alot(which ever u perfer) and i dont wanna loose u...ur gonna dump me for one of them are u?" and tell him if he likes u/loves u as much as he says he does....that he will be straight out honest wif u....hope i helped..good luck!

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me an my girl wen tout for a while and i really found out that i do love her , she just never wants to open up to me or act like she trully loves me and everyone says she does but i dont know what to do so we took some time apart i asked for it so we could get things figured out and i love her but what should i do ?

just sit down wit her and tell her that u do love her soooooo much and u cant depend on what other ppl havet to say of what u feel...u wanna hear what she haste to say even if she doesnt know exactly the right words to say...u just wanna hear it from her...because ur relationship depends on it

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ok. Me and my ex were back to dating, trying to see if we would get together again. We have been on and off for 7 months but a few days ago have officially ended things. I guess love is not enough to make it work but I'm ready to move on, don't get me wrong I LOVE HIM but i NEED to move on. ok. now here's my dilema:
In order for me to move on I need to forget him EVERYTHING(because i can live off the memories) but I don't really want to forget the past because what we had was beautiful. Can I remember what we had (as just that) and still really move on?
PS: the thing is we do have feelings for each other, we care about each other but as bf and gf we don't work. we can't be friends so pretty much i don't want to forget him because our memories is the only thing we have left. we love each other so its too painful to be friends. advice.

u can stay friends and u can still have the awesome memories..as long as u dont bring up the bad ones wit the good ones...u guys will be fine...dont stress it so much and dont worry obut the "feelins u still have for each other"...

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What is your view on long distance relationships? I started one today.. and I am nervous because I've heard both positive and negative things about them...

there okay to a point...i did one for 2 years...but it really sucks...i missed the hugs n kisses n just everythin that went along wif a reg relationship and we both ended up cheatin on each other....some work out...some dont...just gotta have the right person for it

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Okay Im almost 15....a little over 3 years ago i met this guy...we went out fer a few months but then i had heard that while i was on vaca he had cheated on me with this other girl....i dumped him...he denied it all...then we went out again...and we went out for about a month...then i had dumped him because tha school year was about over and i had also found out that he was playing me with one of my freinds. Then tha next school year i didnt talk to him at all. He only stayed at my school for about 3 weeks n then moved. I was sooooo happy!! but i was bff's with his cousin and she had persued me to write him a lil note tha day he left. Then about 2 weeks after he left he called me..we talked for a few hours...but then i had gotten mad at him bc i think he was being a jerk to me online. Then tha summer before...8th grade i started talking to him and we became REALLY close. we went out but only for a week or two bc we were going out behind my parents backs bc i didnt want them to know i was seeing him again bc they didnt like him bc of what had happened b4...well later i told my mom everything and how he had "changed" and we went out for about a month or so...but then we broke up bc things just werent going good...our timing has always been wrong..but now...this summer my summer b4 ninth grade we have gotten really close. We talk all tha time online n on tha phone...we flirt n yeah. Its soo nice bc today he told me that he missed me n that he really wanted to be with me. He said he really wanted to work things out n us to be together. I'm suppose to go to his house tomarrow but im not sure if he really wants to be with me n has changed this time or if he just wants me for sex. The problem is we r both going to tha same highschool. So chances are i will see him around. And i am TOTALY crazy for him. What should I do??Plzzzz help im soo into him but im not sure if hes real!!! Thanx lots of luv*

first off..no guy ever changes for anyone...guys r pigs...plan n simple...most likely u will date again n break up and it will be that way all through high school cuz u wont know how to stop likin him...ya needa get over him..if u dont want him to hurt u...otherwise u might as well just give him ur heart now and let him break it

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i like this boy..alot...buttttt i dunno if he likes me..and i DONT WANT TO ASK HIM but back in middle schooll he alwayz flirted wit mme an all but now i dont know noo mo..r u gonna help or what?

well how u gonna know if u dont ask? u just gotta do ur best and talk to him...if u dont...ur never gonna know

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I seriously think I might have a problem. I'm goign otu witht his boy and I totally love him. I know I do. The only problem is, once guys start likign me alot and really falling for me I start ebcomign a total bitch. I'll say things on purpose to piss them off or to get them upset. I can't understand why. This isnt the only relation ive been in. Ive been in one for about a year before too and i did the same thing. I'm 18 too. any ideas why this is happening? its kidna like i cant stop either. im starting to think im evil or sumthing.

lol i do the same thing to...n idk why either...but i guess ilove the attention of guys...and i just try n press em to see how long or how much they will take and then when they finally hadda enough we break up..n then i find someone new...but still i have them on me cuz they loved me that much....so i know i always have someone to fall back on...ur not evil....lol

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i get on here to answer ?'s and i look at the lil smileys and it shows they been deleted? WHY? sometimes ppl do need help..just cuz ppl ask the same ?'s over n over dont mean u should delete it...kinda mean

this is all bull

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