Ok, so i went camping with my boyfriend this weekend and we had an amazing time. When we got back, i had made plans with my friends to hang out with them on monday night. Well he got home from a really bad day of work and called me and i only had like 3 minutes to talk to him so i asked him how his day was and shared mine, then i told him i had to go. He acted kind of mad and i was just like whatever, we've hung out every day this summer and all weekend. So i went and hung out with my friends and when i got home he was really mad at me and told me that i blew him off. He said that he really needed me when he got home from work and that i shoudl ahve made time to talk to him because he was having a miserable day. The thing was i didn't realize he needed me so bad. We are all made up now and stuff cause we talked about it and got over it. Am i at fault here?
16/f with 19/m b/f of 9 1/2 months
HOLY SHIT, I THINK I JUST READ A DIARY ENTRY OF MINE. dude to a fucking TEE> 100% this happened to me last year, tha asshole never let me forget that i "let him down" even though it was bullshit. NO youre not at fault you didnt know. and dont you ever let him try to rub it in or tell you that it is. apologize for not being there for him, but dont apologize for going out with your friends, tell him that you didnt know or realize that he needed you so much or you would have stayed.
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My boyfriend and I have been having sex since late June. Last night he asked me if i got it yet ( i got it june 30th, after we first started to) and i said no but im not worried about it im going to wait a few days because my comes so randomly. and it never comes on the same date. he is yelling at me about he knows he asked girls, but i think i know mmy fuckin period and a bunch of girls periods come different times and late. he is really stressing me out, should i go to a clinic to see or buy a test now?
tell him you know your period and he doesnt, so he btetr slow his roll or you guys arent screwing any morre because he makes it too complicated, lol he'll shut up quick. tell him that if your period is more hten a week late, youll buy a test.
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Hello*
Well, here's my question...(this might sound like a dumb,slow,or whatever u wanna call it question.) But how can u figure out if your really in love with a person.(boy,in my case). I have this boyfriend and i think i'm falling in love with him (sorry if this sounds corny).He's so sweet.And i can't stop thinking about him.Please tell me.
Brenda***
you dont want to sleep becuase reality is better then a dream, your heart feels heavy, it literally feels like its breaking, even though its not - its just so full of love, you have to stop kissing because youre smiling, you smile ALL the time. when you see him or touch him you get the "*sighhhh*" feeling, you dont mind working your ass off to earn money so you can buy him things or take him places. you dont care about anything int he world, being in his arms is enough, you get chills down your spine when you think about him, every where you go, everything you say, every song you hear, SOME HOW reminds you of him. you cnat picutre your life at this moment with out him. and ontop of all that? you just feel it.
can you tell ive been in love? lol
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ok so i have a boyfriend that i've been with for about 6 months now. im 16, my boyfriend is turning 19 in september And about four months into the relationship, i got raped by his older brother and now his family is blaming me and telling ppl it wasnt raped so now im questioning myself if it was rape or not. and then the cops got involved because my boyfriend called the cops since i told him what happened when i slept over. so when the cops were investigating, they found out that me and my boyfriend have been having sex as well. so now me & andrew arent even allowed to see each other legally and im just wondering if i should stay with him after all this happening, we want to have kids in the future and he even asked me to marry him...is this a good idea?
hunnie im sorry aobut you being raped. if you two love eachother, then fight through this. but only if you think it will last. if you think its going to end after highschool, and you dont think its a hgeu thing, then dont burden your self with it. but like i said, if you guys love eachother and want to be together and you KNOW that you will be? it wll be so worth it in the end once this is over. good luck.
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I met this guy on the internet and he's coming to pick me up in an hour or so. EVerything seems all right and my intuition tells me its a go but everyone always says to be careful so I thought I'd ask. Don't be too hasty to answer cuz I'm really for going.
psh. no offense dumbass. hopefully youre alive to see this. you dont have the guy come to your house, and how long have you been talking to him? what the hell do you know about him? are you half retarded? i dont give a shit if you give me a 1, smoeone has to slap some sense into you. dont do that, youre gona get raped and killed like that. dont you watch the news or read magazines? tey dont make that shit up for their health.
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What should i get my boyfriend for our 6 month anniversary & for his birthday? (different months)
hes turning 19 in september...our 6 month is in august 21st
i rate 5's no doubt about it
how about you give him six individual gifts, one standing for a different reason of why you love him (if you guys say i love you, if you dont then when you like him) or maybe, you can make him a scrap book with notes, pictures, movie stubs, and anything else that reminds you two of eachother.
for his birthday? something that he watns,
cologne, a cd, a shirt, a sweatshirt,
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I belong to an apartment complex pool,where there are like no kids my age, they are mostly around 9. I'm 13 so there arent many hotties with bodies laying around. But there is this one guy, he looks about a year or two older than me (which is fine cuz i dont usually date guys my age). Its kinda hard to explain a stare i guess lol. But he always looks and me and smiles when i look back at him. I'm kinda of shy and i think he is shy too. There was about a million chances to talk to each other, but no one took them. I'm pretty sure i like him, you know that "he is all i think about and i cant wait to see him"bit.I've been trying to strike up the nerve to talk to him, but i just cant do it. It seems weird going up to a complete stranger and talking to them. What would i say?And..*sigh* i just got back together with my on and off again boyfriend who is crazy for me. I broke his heart twice already, if i do really like this guy too, i dont know if i could stand breaking his heart again. We've been really good friends while we havent been together, i cant stand to loose him.
I need help, guys or girls point of view, do you think he likes me? should i go for it?Im not an amature in the dating department, im more mature all the kids my age, i just need help getting started.
Thanks, i rate 5's.
you say youre not immature in the dating department, but i think you are. im sorry if you dont want to hear this, but the point is for advice so here is mine. you are THIRTEEN. you shouldnt be worried about "hotties with bodies" maybe thats why you havent found any. you say "on and off again" like youre so old and youve been dating this guy for so long. its a 13 year old relationship. and obviously if youre trying to get with a hottie with a body, then you dont like him all that muc, or you would only be thinking about him. also? if you were mature in the dating department, you wouldnt be trying to play two guys, and you wouldnt be desperate, youd go for who ever you liked more. none of us can tell you which one that is.
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lmao i dont give a shit if you think im rude. because im not. i tell it like it is, if you dont like it? then dont ask for advice. im not gona baby you and tell you waht you want to hear, its called advice, not "nod your head and agree"
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ok my boyfriend who lives in the same town as me went to florida for a month and i really miss him. the day before he left, he slept over and my house and we had so much fun and i didnt want him to go. but i really miss him. i cant call him because of long distance. what should i do? help.. i'll rate 5's for sure!!
maybe write him a letter? or - instead of him sending YOU a post card. you send him one. send him a "Wish you were here'' one, and tell him that you miss him. and you really wish he was there. if you dont know teh adress of the hotel, im sure he said soemthing about which one he was staying at, so look it up online, unless hes staying with family, then maybe ask to call him for a minute just to grab teh adress. i know its probably hard. good luck.
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over the course of this school year, ive finally met a guy im comfortable with and has led me to believe he feels the same. although neither of us have come out and admited our feelings, we both have mutual signs/flirting that gives an obvious clue that we're into each other. he told me he wanted to hang out this summer and we traded cell numbers and everything, except im a bit new to this.
1) we're both going to be at camp/away this summer.. and i dont want to get all in his face about when he'll be home.. so im not sure when to expect him to come around
2) should i wait for him to contact me? or no?
3) if we do end up wanting to hang out.. ideas on what to do/where to go [id like some varied answers if possible]
thanks for your time, and i hope everyone has a great summer
1) ask him. you wont be getting in his face if you just ask him once maybe twice, however its different if you call him six times a day to see if he has a spare minute
2) nah, waiting for guys is like waiting for the rain. just call him up and say "hey hows it going, how has your summer been so far" then throw in that you guys should hang out, take it from there. make some plans.
3) movies?, go to the mall, go get coffee or anything to drink and walk around, go to th park, go to the zoo, chill at one of your houses and rent movies and eat pizza, (Scary movies especially). go mini golfing, go bowling, go fly a kite (sounds gay but sooo fun wiht a fliryt partner), have a picnic, go swimming in a lake, go to the beach, play sports together, play card games, oh man there are TONS of things you can do.
good luck,.
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what can I do to make my bf feel like I really love him when he moves away. We agreed to have a long distance thing but I dont know how to show affection from this distance...
i had a long relationship. talk on the phone every night and discuss eachothers day. talk about things that you wish you would have been there for eachother. express through words. another thing you can do that will totally suprise him if you dont do this often. write him a letter telling hoim how much you miss him, and what you feel for him. i gurantee that if you make it through teh long distance thing, your relationshipw ill become stronger and you fill find the time you spend together is much more valuable, and you wont be taking time for granted, like we all usually do. something else you can do is take pictures of your self doing daily activities, and make him a scrap book titled "wish you were here" be creative.
good luck.
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well i've liked this guy for a very long time and we've gone out and recently hes been flirting with me alot, well today a friend of mine was having a bonfire and me and my friend we'll call her "person x" were the only girls there. Well my ex has been known to flirt so he was casually doing it with both of us. then him and i break off from the rest of pack and we both get the wild idea to go swimming in the river. so we both strip ( not totally )and the whole time im scared hes holding me really close to him and he even carried me back to the house because someone lost my shoes. anyways at the end of the night he takes "person x" away and i already knew what was happeing and you guessed it he asked her out and she said yes after knowing how much i like him. Its not just that but in the morning she'd been telling me about how the love of her life "was being a dick" but she couldnt help but still like him and then when i asked her if she really liked my guy she said yea and i asked her more than the other guy and she said "as of right now yea, cuz hes being an ass". I dont know what to do! she's known for being fickle about the guys she likes. she like a guy alot and then after they go out for a couple weeks decide she really dosent. Also at the party she kept saying how much of a retard my guy was and she always makes fun of him, like what he wears and what music he listens too and they hav almost nothing in commen they're so different. I'm just so lost on what to do! HELP!
i think your friend - or - person x, likes the title of having a boyfriend more then the actual boyfriend. now as for the guy? i think he likes both of you, but for some reason he just thinks that hed get along better having the other person being his GIRLFRIEND rather then a friend to flirt with. id say give it time, when they break up go for it. play your cards right and then youll get him. someone told me that they think you can get anyone you want, you just have to play it right. which is pretty much true. good luck, also - you said the girl was fickle, but if the guy is fickle too,then you may just be better off hookng up and not getting to emotionally attached to him
hope i helped a little.
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okay so there's this girl i've found myself quite infatuated with. and things seemed to be going jim dandy and the world seemed to be turning right for once. and then to my shock and dismay it comes out that she has an eating disorder. she refuses to eat, refuses to do anything but excersize and sip water. and she is slowly killing herself with this. i try to tell her that it's not good. i try to tell her of the damage it can do to her. and i try to tell her that it hurts me too (it can send me to tears.. and i never ever cry) and i try all that i can to let her know that it's terrible but nothing will ever work. i feel so useless and worthless and like she's gonna slip through my fingertips and i wont be able to save her. and well i really have no idea what to do or where to go. and i need some help from somewhere in order to help her. this is not good. yet she feels that it will make her feel better about herself. i just don't understand how slowly killing yourself makes you feel better. agh this is so saddening. someone please help me, somehow.
i used to suffer from an eating disorer as well, so maybe i can help you understand her a little bit more. when she looks in the mirror - she doesnt see what you see. she dosnt see that sehs probably thin and gorgeous. the reflection that she sees is honestly just fat. and she thinks the only way to get skinny is to not eat. because i gurantee she has tried dieting, but because of the sickness - she doesnt see it working when she looks in the mirror. so th best way is to cut out food all together. she feels guilty when she eats and this makes her feel better about her self because it makes her feel proud that she has will power and control. it sounds silly but its true. sadly, theres not much that you can say to her, that will cur her or make her start eating again. you need to tell someone of this. she may get very angry with you at first, but its the right thing to do, and once shes better she will thank you. i did a speech and poster board about eating disorers. if you want me to send you some pictures and facts that you can show her, things that will happen to her. just email me and i will. i felt compelled to write this because "helping you" said something very ignorant that if i knew that perosn i would probably slap them in the face she is not "Doing this for attention" it is a real disease. and i really admire you for caring so much about her. anyway i hope this helped you and i have some really great things that you can show her.
x0strawberrywine@yahoo.com jsut email me for them.
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How do I ask my boyfriend about having sex with other girls, and how do I tell him I dont want to do anything if he hasnt done anything yet. And if he does do something how do I tell him no? I dont want to ruin things with him....
you need to sit him down and say "listen, i dont want to make accusations, or listen to rumors - so i had to come to you first. i heard that you had sex with these other girls before we wre dating, and that is fine with me because it is in the past. but i just want to make sure that youre not expecting that from me...' something along those lines. wait for him to explain and just calmly tell him taht you really lke him, and you want to be with him but you dont want to feel obligated or pressured to do things with him that you arent ready for. im sure he will understand. then eventually i fyou two are kissing or something and hes not thinking with his head, only with his dick - you just tell him once it starts getting un comfortable "just.. slow down okay? i dont wana go that far" he should understand and if he dosnt then jus say " i think its time for me to go home now, i will call you tomorrow". dont blow things out of proportion or he will think youre a drama queen. just be calm and honest.
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hey well i want to know ways that i could tease a guy to make him want me oven more.
well hell, easy. be a cocky concieted bitch. blow him off for other people. say things that are always related to sex. bust his balls. tease him. make fun of him. call him "punk, loser, brat" sounds odd but it works. play hard to get. not TOO hard, but hard enough. example of something i said last week
guy: so when i get your legs in the air, will they still be tan?
me: and what the hell makes you think youre getting my legs in the air?
or this -
guy: as soon as you see my dick, your mouth will be its second home
me: and whats its first? the palm of your hand?
and last but not least, my personal favorite:
guy: hah, i could get any girl i please
me- yeah.... too bad you cant please any
lol, something along those lines. also - talk about plans with other guys. make him work for you. youre young. hope this helps.
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i asked that question...not the next question, the one right after it.[thanks for answering lilly_pads79 ,charmed3fanatic, and sublime_burritos(by the way, i love ur name)]....anyway... i want to know, how can i tell if im in love or not. there's another guy i like, but he's good friends with my b/f...i dont no y, but im always going out with guys who are friends with my last b/f...and im just....i guess im blindsided by the fact that i might not love my b/f the way he loves me.
thanx 4 ur help!! i really appreciate it!
if you are dating around all these guys, youre not in love. too many people in this day and age that are like 13-17 think theyre in love with their boyfriend, when in reality its just something to say before you hang up the phone. in all honesty - i dont think youre in love at all. i thnk you mean "i dont LIKE my boyfriend as much as he likes me" im prtty sure if you have to ask this question than you dont klnow what love is. let me give you breif run down of what love is like, because ive been there. with the REAL thing. not the "lets say it before we hang up the phone"
you cant breath when you talk to him.
your stomach gets butterflies everytime you see him.
no matter what, you can never stop smiling,
reality is better hten a dream.
your heart literally hurts. you have a sinking aching feeling to it when youre with or when you think of him.
you dont mind working hard for money to buy him presents. or at chores so you can go see him.
no matter how sad you are, if he just holds you? all your problems go away..
those are just a few of the thigns ive experienced, and they are absolutely wonderful, until you feel things along those lines, youre not in love. sorry. so dont say it. save those words for somoene you really care about.
hope this helped
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alright my prob is that since i'm not a jock and not a skater or anything like that girls at my school hate me wat should i do
and how can i get them to like me w/o changing my image
i KIND of agree with what was already said, but not really... you need to be CONFIDENT. and you need to be sort of cocky and funny, but you should not have to change your image. make girls laugh, they love that, but be sweet sometimes. i got something that will probably work for you - if you want to know what it is just email me or something.
x0strawberrywine@yahoo.com
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ok, let me introduce myself, nd put sum rules, first nobody answer telling me to stop drinking or anything, because im sick of it. I wont put my name on because its confidential, and here i go. I live in toulouse france and i have a best friend called bobby-joe (we shall say). Bobby is mrs popular, and i've known her for a year now. And bit by bit i have quite simply fallen in love with her, now again nobody tell me how im not 'in love' trust me, i know, i cannot do anything without thinking of this girl. I do not go places unless she is going. i dont go online unless she's there. I dont call anyone but her, i save all my credit for texting her. I fail exams because im looking at her. Its too much, and she doesnt know, she thinks we are friends. We go to parties and things together and we have a fucking amazing time. I love spending time with her, and sometimes just for the night, if we have too much to drink then sumtimes it becomes more than a friendship, and to her it means nothing, but to me it makes my month. She just blames it on alcohol and keeps on thinking we're friends. I am a jealous friend but i think i am a good one. I talk to her about everything and she talks to me about everything. Problem is she has got a lot of people who fancy her and a boyfriend who is a fucking model and 2 years older. I've known her for a year but i feel as if my whole life evolves around her. She can control how i feel for days with a single word. Right now she just had a go at me about the main problem we have with our friendship, im over-possesive. last time i was with her we went to a fair and she got with another guy just because he came up to her and called her sexy, she barely new the guy. i got so angry and she knew it, later i tried to talk to her about it and she told me to fuck off that she was 16 and could make her own decisions. I hate it, i love her so much, i dont have time to explain why, but its about more than her looks, or even her obvious personality. I dont know how to tell her how i feel or how to explain it once i do. I just know that i cant keep being her friend. Eventiually we're gonna fall out of even that because im so obsesed with her and cant let her out of my site. I feel left out if she talks to someone else. Last weekend we spent friday together in a restaurant, then the saturday at a lake with some friends, then went to a party, had a bit to drink, got together and lay on a field for hours looking at stars and talking about things. I know i would be so happy with her. please somebody help me, i need a real answer to a real problem.
Okay. im going to give you quite honestly the best advice i know how. im not going to tell you dont love her, im not going to give you a shitty thing to follow. it is quite obvious you love her. but here is the thing. she doesnt know you feel that way - she thinks yorue only friends, so when you push all this on her, ( getting jelaous ect ) you know it as love, but she doesnt. she thinks youre just being an over protective asshole. so what you need to do is when youre having a moment, lke looking at the stars , you need to tell her " i need you to knwo something, i know i come off as over protective sometimes, and i just need you to know how i feel, i like you so much more then what you think. your personality, everything about you is just perfect" something alon those lines. but i warn you my friend DO NOT tell her you love her right away, tell your LIKE her alot. if you tell her you love her, it will scare her away. you need to wait until you guys have been dating for a while, for that one.
now - another thing you need to keep in mind is this. it sounds a little bit to me like youre jealous, and over bearing. if you start dating her. you CAN NOT. treat her like a prisoner. she is right, she IS 16 she CAN Make her own decisions. it sounds to me like if you were dating her she wouldnt be going off with other guys. so you need to trust her. because you sound liek the kind of guy who would get super fucking jealous if she hugged another guy friend, when thats bull. girls can NOT STAND that. i had a boyfriend who got mad at me for two weeks nas wouldnt speak to me because i said that a celebrity was hot. do you know how ridiculous that is? no offense but you sound so obsessed with her that you just may be like that. im just warning you, youcant be over jealous and un trusting or else it wont last very long between you two.
hope this helped.
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