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How do I ask my boyfriend about having sex with other girls, and how do I tell him I dont want to do anything if he hasnt done anything yet. And if he does do something how do I tell him no? I dont want to ruin things with him....
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hey babe-if you are feeling youre boyfriend is having sex with other girls, you should be straight up about it and ask him b/c that is disrespectful/untrustworthy of your bf. i would adivse you to do it in a calm matter so he has a better chance of telling the truth; also you should inform him that you dont want to do anything so you dont get too attached && get hurt when he is mad that you wont do what he wants and if he cant accept the fact that you arent comfertable doing certain things then he is the wrong guy for you. i hope it works out for the best!
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you need to sit him down and say "listen, i dont want to make accusations, or listen to rumors - so i had to come to you first. i heard that you had sex with these other girls before we wre dating, and that is fine with me because it is in the past. but i just want to make sure that youre not expecting that from me...' something along those lines. wait for him to explain and just calmly tell him taht you really lke him, and you want to be with him but you dont want to feel obligated or pressured to do things with him that you arent ready for. im sure he will understand. then eventually i fyou two are kissing or something and hes not thinking with his head, only with his dick - you just tell him once it starts getting un comfortable "just.. slow down okay? i dont wana go that far" he should understand and if he dosnt then jus say " i think its time for me to go home now, i will call you tomorrow". dont blow things out of proportion or he will think youre a drama queen. just be calm and honest.
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