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hey this is my advice colum. My name is donna. i luv all of my friends there they are so great. and awesome to hang out wit. i dont have a bf rite now. you can ask me anything and i will answer as best as a can. i will answer anyhting. so ask away. lol

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okay so I am 16/f and i have the hugest crush on a guy. Its one of those kinda crushes like a geek in school is inlove with the most popular guy she doesnt have a chance with ever kind of things.

Well i got the guts to tell him online that i really really liked him and i found out that he isnt really looking for a gf (he wants to do well this year in school) but he wants to hang out with me and be good friends and stuff!

what do i do? i know i want to hang out with him but how can i get over the fact i have a huge crush on him and be normal?

ps hes a junior/18

you should hang out with him and let him get to know you more and if he doesnt want a girlfriend us guys could be friends with benfiets.... and then he might think of you as more... hope i helped if you have anymore questions drop one in my inbox.
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I have liked this guy for about one year now, but I really don't want to like him anymore. It has grown awkward between us lately after he found out that I like him and I just want things to go back to the way they used to be, but the problem is I can't stop liking him. Like whenever I think I'm over him he will do something that I think is cute and I will start to like him all over again. I'm just sick of it. If you guys have any advice I would be very appreciative!

OMG i have the same problem with this guy that i really like and then i was over him not thinking of him at all anymore then he does something and then i start to really like him again.... what i do to try and keep him off of my mind is to do something like hang out with your friends or like go out with someone else and try to think of just that guy it might work... hope i helped if you have anymore questions drop one in my inbox
xOxDONNA

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okay to start off, my boyfriend is my younger brothers best friend
and he's a grade younger then me
but hes still quite 'mature' and expects a lot out of the relationship
anyway, we got to second base, aka, he felt me up
and I asked him not to tell anyone, ecspecially my brother
that was a week ago, and i found out that he told everyone about it today
im quite bothered by that, obviously
i dont want to dump him though...im gonna have to have a chat with him, but i dont know what to say...any suggestions that will get the point across without making it sound like I want to end the relationship?

just be like hey did you tell people that we got to 2nd base and just start talking to him like that and be like im not gonna break up with you im just wondering... well hope i helped XoXdonna

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alright so here it is. I'm going out with this girl and i had my first kiss with her and like all the rest of my kisses and i like really really really like her right and we went to the movies for a christmas date and i realized that i thought i really loved her and now i cant sleep and all i can do is think of her. And i get this feeling that ive never felt. And i want to now if this is like real love because i can see myself getting married with her and everything.

yeah you are prob in love with her but you will have a lot of girls that you feel the same way about later on so yeah.... i hope i helped in you have any more questions drop one in my inbox...XoXDoNnA

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I've liked my best friend's neightbor for a long time, but the only problem is: she liked him too. I understand because they're neighbors and really good friends, but he's one of my really good friends too. He says he's liked me since around the same time I started liking him. But this summer, my friend said that he started messing around with her. He even kissed her once. But he says he doesn't remember any of that. He even admitted this fall she was just a friend and he really liked me. But a couple months later, things got pretty rocky and he stopped saying I love you and my friend said that he said he didn't like me anymore. A couple weeks ago she came to school crying because she lost her virginity to him. Yeah, that's right. I talked to him about it and he admited it, adding that he wished it was me. Hello? I told him that she said that he didn't like me, and he said he does. Now he's saying I love you again and asking me to come over alone. I secretly want this but I don't want to hurt my best friend. My question is who's lying and what are his motives?

i think you should just stay away from the guy for a little bit because loseing a friend over a guy isnt worth it at all believe me i have lost a friend over a guy earlier this year and it suckz... so i hope i helped if you have any more question drop one in my inbox...XoXDoNnA

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if you find someone that you just can't stop thinking about and that you're CRAZY about, what do you do to help get him off your mind? especially if you know there's no chance of you getting to be with him? and how do you start acting normal again if you're really depressed and sad because of him? i just want to forget about him and stop being depressed and start acting happy and energetic again. please help!!

hey i have the same problem because this one guy is on my mind all of the time i mean we have kissed before and flirted all the time... but know he dont want me and i feel so sad and depressed all of the time and i dont know what to do... but i found out that if you are with your friends and hang out they help you forget all about the guy... and try moving on by like going out with someone else... thats what i did and i am going out with someone else right now and i love him so much... but every now and then i sit and think about the other guy knowing i cant have him its makes me said but i go and find something to do to get him off my mind... so i hope i helped if you have anymore questions drop one in my inbox and i will 4sure help you...XoXDoNnA

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I was in a realtionship for 4 1/2 years and was engaged to him for 6 months, when all of a sudden he wanted to end things. There was some things that happened in my childhood that I never told him, but I told him last night was happended, even though we are not together anymore. I was sexually abused as a child but it has stopped for almost 15 years. I am now 24. I still want this guy in my life, but I need help first. He did not leave me because I told him what happened. I just felt like he should know. Me and him have shared a lot of stuff, and even he agreed that some of the reasons he left me were because of how I acted, because of how I was treated as a child. I was wondering if there is anyway you can help me out. Any help would mean the world to me. Thank you for your time

i think you should tell him that your sorry but you cannot change your past and i think you should go to thearpy... well i hope i helped if you have any more questions drop one in my inbox...XoXDoNnA

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So here's the facts thus far:

1. 2 weeks ago, I meet a girl who I had known just as a passing acquaitence, and I became closer friends.

2. She reveals to me that she really likes me, however, she has a boyfriend, but that boyfriend has been in the Phillipines for the last 1.5 months.

3. This boyfriend and she had been going out since about early August, but he "moved" in right before his trip b/c his apt lease was over and didn't want to resign until he got back.

4. He got back on Tuesday morning. She's called me a couple of times since then about how she's really uncomfortable about him being there, but he's still not getting the idea that she wants him to move and that she doesn't feel the same way as she did before he left for the trip.

5. However, since Tuesday morning they've had romantic "relations"- and she feels about that. (yes, denial i know).

So what do I do? Do I try to forget this girl or not? Is she serious about leaving him? My mind and heart is troubled. What do you think I should do about this situation?

i think you should just be her close friend intil they break up...because it seems she likes you and her b/f but she cant decide which one to pick.... sorry but just be her friend and see what happens after he leaves....or just tell her how you feel and tell her that she needs to make up her mind bout who she really wants because you cant wait for her forever... well if you have any more questions drop one in my inbox...XoXDoNnA

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I cant tell if im just falling hard or im in love...I really like this guy..hes all i think about..I go crazy on the days i dont see him and i do nothing all day cause im thinking about him. He makes me nervous when im around him and the little things that he says can either make my whole day make me really upset. You know if its a cute comment it makes my whole day and vs aerus. (sp) . I cant picture myself with anyone else but him and i dont like anyone but him , i have turned down guys cause i like him and it seems no one compares to him. Anything bad that about is just goes over my head and i dont notice it. So heres the part im confused about..am i in love or is it just a crush..plz HELP im realy confused!

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i like you are totally in love.... but you should totally know if your in love or not and i am the same about my b/f i love him so much.... and i think about him all the time to...so i think you are in love...well if you have any other questions drop one in my inbox XoXDonna

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Hi There,

I am a English male of Part Jewish non orthodox & Part COE (Church Of England) Blood, and am in love with a Muslim girl from Saudi Arabia. Even thou she isn't in an arranged marriage & her parents have given their blessing to a marriage of her choice providing the groom is an Arab or Muslim, I understand that the only way I would be allowed to Marry this girl is either me turning to Islam or by Mahr, as I am non religous I am very confused on what to do. I am deeply in love with this girl & want to provide her with the love she deserves.

Any advice you can give would be surley appreactied.

JR

if you are really in love with her i think you should turn to islam but that is your choice if you want to do that or not. and think if you can spend the rest of your life with her... well i hope i helped if you have anymore questions drop one in my inbox XoXDonna

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there is this one girl danielle i cant stop thinking about we used to be friends and went out but we broke up then we stoped hanging out for a while but then some guy hit her and i relized how much i still liked her so i went and beat him up pretty bad (concussion hospital) but that led to some consequences like got arrested suspended broken knuckle suspension from school lawsuit but i liked her in such i way i didnt care what happened and then we were real close for a while but one day she stoped talking to me and ignored me pretty much and i thought i was over her but then the other night i had a dream about her that made me relize i still had feelings for her i dont know what i should do i cant stop thinking about her
can some one please help me
14/m

i think you should call her or talk to her and tell her how you feel about her and tell her that you have had feelings for her for a while. if you do see her in person i think you should bring like some flowers like roses and like a sift teddy bear or something. so she can see that you can be a nice caring guy. well if you have anymore more questins drop one in my inbox XoXDonna

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im 14 and my girlfriend is 13. we have been going out for 4 months. she told me that she wants to make out with me. part of me wants too but the other part says no because we kissed for the first time last night at a dance. do you think i should make out with her now or not? if not how long should i wait?

i think you should totally make out with her...lol well i hope i helped XoX donna and if you have anymore questions drop one in my inbox.

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Me and my boyfriend have been going out for a little over a week. I'm not really into him like I thought I would be so I'm going to break up with him. However, he's getting me a christmas present. What do I do? If he gives me the present before I get the chance to tell him its over what do I do? I feel guilty cause he's probably already bought my present. I'm also pretty scared to break up with him cause he really really likes me, and I feel bad for not feeling the same. Please Help.

i think you need to break up with him as soon as possible and if he was already bought you a present accept or you could give it back to him and be like im sorry but i think we should just be friends...before his feelings get to strong for you...well i hope i helped XoXDonna if you have anymore questions drop it in my inbox.

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i have a crush on my friends brother and he used to like me. but last year i messed it up, and now i really miss him. he and i didnt go out but we flirted alot, and now i wish i was going out with him. he acted like i was the most icky thing on earth for like a year, but lately he has been acting a little nicer to me. what should i do????? i still really like him and i dont know what to do. please help.
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hey hey i think you should tell him how you feel or talk to ur friend and ask her to ask him if he likes you and that if u have anymore questions just drop it in my inbox hope i helped xox blondie xox

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hi i am 13 female i liek this 15 year old boi hes my brothers bff and i aksed him out and he said no and he wont tell my why? and i am in love with him what should i do

well i think you should tell him how you feel. or try and talk to your brother and see who he likes. i know how you feel kind of well i liked this 1 boy but he has a gf and i told him how i feeled now he wont talk to me at all. i know its not like you situation but its kind of so if you tell him he might now talk to you or he might i dont know. or try and get your brother to ask him why he won go out with you. it might help so if you have anymore questions you can email me or write back in my advice colum. i hope i helped ~DONNA~!

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well is it wrong to go out with your friends ex but what if you went out with him before she did
we weren't friends at the time when she went out with him but then we became friends but I've known my crush longer than her ,me and my crush are really really close not in the touchy feeling way

no i dont think it is wrong to got out with your friends ex. but you might wanna ask your friend if she minds that you go out with him. just to make sure. and plus if u went out with him before she did she should understand that you still have feelings for him. well hope i helped ~DONNA~!

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sorry it's a little long well one of my close friends asked me out and he's kinda known as a cheater and I'm thinking of telling him yes but I've been hearing all these rumors that he kissed his ex and that he was trying to hook up with some other girl and it just makes me wonder about him.I asked him if it was true and he said no that he puts it on everything he has and he swore to god. my friend asked him too and he told her the same thing I really like him but I think I might get hurt if I say yes I will rate a 5.please help

hey umm i think you should say yes and just take his word on it that he hasnt cheated or done anything. and if u say no you might think back and be like i wish i would of went of with him. but if u do go out with him and break up your friendship might not be as close. so i hope i helped ~DONNA~!

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I am almost 16 and I have never kissed a guy. I've had the chance many times,meen I want to but every time I get nervice and tell the guy no. What should I do?

UMM... YOU SHOULD JUST T3LL TH3 GUY THAT AND B3 LiiK3 iiM N3RVOUS OR JUST DONT T3LL TH3 GUY NO AND JUST KiiSS HiiM. SO ii HOP3 ii H3LP3D ~DONNA~

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I have a boyfriend but it is extremely hard to spend time with him since I am so busy in the summer, and have to spend time with family. I feel like we are growing apart from each other. Should I break up with him, or stay together?

I think you should stay tog3thEr b3causE during summEr tim3 nobody r3ally s3Es alot of anybody so dont worry about it summEr is almost ovEr with so you will start to s3E 3vErybody mor3 again. so i hop3 i h3lpEd. ~DONNA~

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